Is it normal for naija men to depend on women for financially? (Page 5)

i think i have made myself clear concerning this issue on a similar post.if man knows that he is not capable financially shouldn't engage himself into marriage,coz i haven't seen any home a man is respected if his wife is the sole bread winner.a woman should be the one to depend financially not the other round.unless in a difficult and desperate condition then the wife should assist in a short period of time when the man is capable to deal with his obligation as a man of the house.