Is it wrong to ask ? (Page 3)

Date: 05-04-2011 11:22 am (13 years ago) | Author: Onyinyechi Miracle
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- qunodinga at 5-04-2011 12:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  5-04-2011 11:54 AM
Quote from: onyiis on  5-04-2011 11:47 AM
Quote from: pholake on  5-04-2011 11:35 AM
There's a need for a woman to understand her man well and his likes and dislikes.....
Some men may be caring and loving but still view such tasks as debasing......while some see nothing wrong in doing that for their women....
Know ur man well and know what to request/demand from him.

the issue here is that he always ask her to make braids because according to her he likes braids  Grin Grin
that does not give her d right to ask him to loose it for her

ma man likes ghana braids or weaving buh dat does nt gives me d right to call him to come and loose it for me
even for d fact that i know he always loose it for me....i dont make it as his duty

Ble..thumb up !!!
Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 5-04-2011 12:08 PM (13 years ago)
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there no reason for any mis understanding in this case unless the both are nt matured
Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 5-04-2011 12:10 PM (13 years ago)
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to plaite hair dey sweet but to loose am dey streess person.. ya hubby na ya boi?
why not pay 100 naira or 200 naira to saloon people make dem loose am for u Huh?

Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:10 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 5-04-2011 12:11 PM (13 years ago)
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I don't know ,I think guys should be let out of everything which it's about our beautifying!
Let him see only the results!

Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 5-04-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on  5-04-2011 11:56 AM
Quote from: blessedme on  5-04-2011 11:54 AM
Quote from: onyiis on  5-04-2011 11:47 AM
Quote from: pholake on  5-04-2011 11:35 AM
There's a need for a woman to understand her man well and his likes and dislikes.....
Some men may be caring and loving but still view such tasks as debasing......while some see nothing wrong in doing that for their women....
Know ur man well and know what to request/demand from him.


the issue here is that he always ask her to make braids because according to her he likes braids  Grin Grin
that does not give her d right to ask him to loose it for her

ma man likes ghana braids or weaving buh dat does nt gives me d right to call him to come and loose it for me
even for d fact that i know he always loose it for me....i dont make it as his duty





Supposing you really neede him to help u ...................will u ask him ?
i will not directly ask...i will just like "honey my hair is due for loose, i want to go and loose it and if he is willing to do it
definitely he will do it
Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- harold634 at 5-04-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago)
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IT IS NOT WRONG 4 HER TO ASK BUT IF THE REQUEST IS TURN DOWN, SHE SHOULD ALSO ACCEPT IT WITHOUT FURTHER COMPLAINS.
Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on  5-04-2011 12:08 PM
there no reason for any mis understanding in this case unless the both are nt matured


exactly why i asked ..................this is not something to cause argument

Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 5-04-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on  5-04-2011 11:52 AM
Quote from: divineproject on  5-04-2011 11:42 AM
It is not in his place to help her loose it.........why not do it herself or visit the saloon?........there are certain requests we should refrain from making.........if the man helps you to do certain things, it doesnt mean you should take it for granted that he would always do it..........


but is it wrong to ask ?

Who knows the way she toned her voice when she asked?......she probably asked as if that was his duty.........there are ways you tone your voice to make unpleasant request(s)........when you are asking for something that is not your right to ask, the tone of your voice should change plus your body language.........

Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: harold634 on  5-04-2011 12:15 PM
IT IS NOT WRONG 4 HER TO ASK BUT IF THE REQUEST IS TURN DOWN, SHE SHOULD ALSO ACCEPT IT WITHOUT FURTHER COMPLAINS.


good  Grin Grin

Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 5-04-2011 12:17 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on  5-04-2011 12:06 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  5-04-2011 12:01 PM
Quote from: onyiis on  5-04-2011 11:54 AM
I learnt she asked and he got soo annoyed .................maybe he would have just said no than getting angry thats the way i see it
it might depend on d way she asked
he might be thinking wat she took him for etc


I agrre it could have a bearing on her approach but what if she asked politely ...................could it still make some men angry ?
ma dear all men have ego especially our Nigeria men and we have to respect that
Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:17 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  5-04-2011 12:16 PM
Quote from: onyiis on  5-04-2011 11:52 AM
Quote from: divineproject on  5-04-2011 11:42 AM
It is not in his place to help her loose it.........why not do it herself or visit the saloon?........there are certain requests we should refrain from making.........if the man helps you to do certain things, it doesnt mean you should take it for granted that he would always do it..........


but is it wrong to ask ?

Who knows the way she toned her voice when she asked?......she probably asked as if that was his duty.........there are ways you tone your voice to make unpleasant request(s)........when you are asking for something that is not your right to ask, the tone of your voice should change plus your body language.........


heheheheheeeeeeeeeeeee !!!! talking from experience  Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  5-04-2011 12:10 PM
to plaite hair dey sweet but to loose am dey streess person.. ya hubby na ya boi?
why not pay 100 naira or 200 naira to saloon people make dem loose am for u Huh?


lolz

Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 5-04-2011 12:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: qunodinga on  5-04-2011 12:07 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  5-04-2011 11:54 AM
Quote from: onyiis on  5-04-2011 11:47 AM
Quote from: pholake on  5-04-2011 11:35 AM
There's a need for a woman to understand her man well and his likes and dislikes.....
Some men may be caring and loving but still view such tasks as debasing......while some see nothing wrong in doing that for their women....
Know ur man well and know what to request/demand from him.

the issue here is that he always ask her to make braids because according to her he likes braids  Grin Grin
that does not give her d right to ask him to loose it for her

ma man likes ghana braids or weaving buh dat does nt gives me d right to call him to come and loose it for me
even for d fact that i know he always loose it for me....i dont make it as his duty

Ble..thumb up !!!
Kiss Kiss Kiss
Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 5-04-2011 12:19 PM (13 years ago)
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blessing the horny hair loose asker.. heheheh

Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:19 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:19 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  5-04-2011 12:15 PM
Quote from: onyiis on  5-04-2011 11:56 AM
Quote from: blessedme on  5-04-2011 11:54 AM
Quote from: onyiis on  5-04-2011 11:47 AM
Quote from: pholake on  5-04-2011 11:35 AM
There's a need for a woman to understand her man well and his likes and dislikes.....
Some men may be caring and loving but still view such tasks as debasing......while some see nothing wrong in doing that for their women....
Know ur man well and know what to request/demand from him.


the issue here is that he always ask her to make braids because according to her he likes braids  Grin Grin
that does not give her d right to ask him to loose it for her

ma man likes ghana braids or weaving buh dat does nt gives me d right to call him to come and loose it for me
even for d fact that i know he always loose it for me....i dont make it as his duty





Supposing you really neede him to help u ...................will u ask him ?
i will not directly ask...i will just like "honey my hair is due for loose, i want to go and loose it and if he is willing to do it
definitely he will do it


Well, i dont know "how" she did the asking but all i know is that she asked  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:19 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Bennygoodman at 5-04-2011 12:20 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmmm
reading some 1daful coments
Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:20 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  5-04-2011 12:19 PM
blessing the horny hair loose asker.. heheheh


sophie !!! sophie !!!

Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 5-04-2011 12:21 PM (13 years ago)
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DP i dey feel u jare
Sophie abeg free me jor
ow u dey na?Huh??
Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  5-04-2011 12:11 PM
I don't know ,I think guys should be let out of everything which it's about our beautifying!
Let him see only the results!


Maybe she felt since he likes it , he should be part of it  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 5-04-2011 12:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  5-04-2011 12:21 PM
DP i dey feel u jare
Sophie abeg free me jor
ow u dey na?Huh??

hehehe i dey ooooo

BENNYGOODMAN Abeg come loose my hair for me i wan go retourch am now

Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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