u've been datin aguy for the past three years but later u got to know he was deceiving u, in a short words you were jilted but u did not tell him after some months you met another guy, he was so caring that you realy love him that same months d first guy called u asking u why you did not call him and u later told him all wat happen, how he jilted you and he was denying telling u it's not true but later he apologized that it's was true teeling you to forgive him, after some weeks the second guy asked you for a hand in marriage. Wat will you do between the both of them??/
Posted: at 5-04-2011 03:37 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 5-04-2011 03:39 PM (13 years ago) (f)
What was the jilting for?
Live and let live!
Posted: at 5-04-2011 03:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
u've been datin aguy for the past three years but later u got to know he was deceiving u, in a short words you were jilted but u did not tell him after some months you met another guy, he was so caring that you realy love him that same months d first guy called u asking u why you did not call him and u later told him all wat happen, how he jilted you and he was denying telling u it's not true but later he apologized that it's was true teeling you to forgive him, after some weeks the second guy asked you for a hand in marriage. Wat will you do between the both of them??/
Don't tell me you just meet a guy just like that after one Month, he asked your hand in marriage ? is that what you're trying to feed me up with ? Then i will tell you is not true, you've been double dating while with that other guy at least for 1 year inside the 3yrs both of you have been together, Now you wanna lay the blame on the guy so you can grab your newly one month Lover ... hmmm i c
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Posted: at 5-04-2011 03:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
d first guy but now i don't fink i love him anymore
Why ? Do you think the new guy is bed of roses ? Jilted or no Jilted, Relationship is full of ups and down, is a game for matured minds. Learn to make what you have the best, You never can value what you have now until you loose that for no reason.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 5-04-2011 03:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
u've been datin aguy for the past three years but later u got to know he was deceiving u, in a short words you were jilted but u did not tell him after some months you met another guy, he was so caring that you realy love him that same months d first guy called u asking u why you did not call him and u later told him all wat happen, how he jilted you and he was denying telling u it's not true but later he apologized that it's was true teeling you to forgive him, after some weeks the second guy asked you for a hand in marriage. Wat will you do between the both of them??/
Don't tell me you just meet a guy just like that after one Month, he asked your hand in marriage ? is that what you're trying to feed me up with ? Then i will tell you is not true, you've been double dating while with that other guy at least for 1 year inside the 3yrs both of you have been together, Now you wanna lay the blame on the guy so you can grab your newly one month Lover ... hmmm i c
extacly it's a year, so wat advice can u give
Posted: at 5-04-2011 03:54 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
chiglamour4u at 5-04-2011 03:55 PM (13 years ago) (f)
u just said u dnt love the first guy any more so which other advice u need follow ur heart if u thing the second guy is good for u fine. hw well do u think u know this second guy for just one month. i will advice u take it slow so u wnt mk a mistake cos marriage is nt like the relationship where u were jilted
Posted: at 5-04-2011 03:55 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 5-04-2011 03:57 PM (13 years ago) (f)
@poster, the first guy, is he the serious type?.......i mean, have you guys defined ur relationship?..........do u have any idea where it could lead?........if the 2nd guy didnt show up on the scene, would you have thought twice about the 2nd guy?........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 5-04-2011 03:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
u just said u dnt love the first guy any more so which other advice u need follow ur heart if u thing the second guy is good for u fine. hw well do u think u know this second guy for just one month. i will advice u take it slow so u wnt mk a mistake cos marriage is nt like the relationship where u were jilted
thanks
Posted: at 5-04-2011 03:58 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
chiglamour4u at 5-04-2011 04:00 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Malikemi on 5-04-2011 03:58 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 5-04-2011 03:55 PM
u just said u dnt love the first guy any more so which other advice u need follow ur heart if u thing the second guy is good for u fine. hw well do u think u know this second guy for just one month. i will advice u take it slow so u wnt mk a mistake cos marriage is nt like the relationship where u were jilted
correction think thanks
ur welcome
Posted: at 5-04-2011 04:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
u've been datin aguy for the past three years but later u got to know he was deceiving u, in a short words you were jilted but u did not tell him after some months you met another guy, he was so caring that you realy love him that same months d first guy called u asking u why you did not call him and u later told him all wat happen, how he jilted you and he was denying telling u it's not true but later he apologized that it's was true teeling you to forgive him, after some weeks the second guy asked you for a hand in marriage. Wat will you do between the both of them??/
Don't tell me you just meet a guy just like that after one Month, he asked your hand in marriage ? is that what you're trying to feed me up with ? Then i will tell you is not true, you've been double dating while with that other guy at least for 1 year inside the 3yrs both of you have been together, Now you wanna lay the blame on the guy so you can grab your newly one month Lover ... hmmm i c
extacly it's a year, so wat advice can u give
You see that now, is a year, and you've been cheating on the first guy without him knowing, I can also tell you, thats the reason why the Jilted thing came in between both of you, Some people has got this sensing ability that enable them to sense a kinda danger ahead, as long as they're honest and faithful, Maybe this 2nd guy has confused you to the limit that you don't seems to know who really Love you.
My advice ? The Choice is yours, If you prefer the new fish in the net to the old fish you know too well, go on and enjoy your new fish and make the old fish to understand you've made your choice. But remember what goes around, comes around i hope u understand what i mean.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 5-04-2011 04:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
I think both of you are no saint. Why not talk.... both of you should talk things through You'll have a better understanding of what went wrong Maybe you're the problem.... you made him cheat Maybe he's the problem
I KNOW ONE THING.... WATCH THE NEW GUY IS NO SAINT Ask YOURSELF who YOU really are .... a DISTROYER, TRYIST, MOLDER OR A BUILDER Whichever you fall into depend solely on the outcome of your TALK with the OLD guy
ASK THE NEW GUY WHAT HE WANTS ..... IS IT MARRIAGE OR MANAGE?
Posted: at 5-04-2011 04:24 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
chiglamour4u at 5-04-2011 04:27 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: patienceudosen on 5-04-2011 04:24 PM
I think both of you are no saint. Why not talk.... both of you should talk things through You'll have a better understanding of what went wrong Maybe you're the problem.... you made him cheat Maybe he's the problem
I KNOW ONE THING.... WATCH THE NEW GUY IS NO SAINT Ask YOURSELF who YOU really are .... a DISTROYER, TRYIST, MOLDER OR A BUILDER Whichever you fall into depend solely on the outcome of your TALK with the OLD guy
ASK THE NEW GUY WHAT HE WANTS ..... IS IT MARRIAGE OR MANAGE?
SO IN GET THE ONE WEY BE MANAGE LOL NICE ONE FOR THE POSTER
Posted: at 5-04-2011 04:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I think both of you are no saint. Why not talk.... both of you should talk things through You'll have a better understanding of what went wrong Maybe you're the problem.... you made him cheat Maybe he's the problem
I KNOW ONE THING.... WATCH THE NEW GUY IS NO SAINT Ask YOURSELF who YOU really are .... a DISTROYER, TRYIST, MOLDER OR A BUILDER Whichever you fall into depend solely on the outcome of your TALK with the OLD guy
ASK THE NEW GUY WHAT HE WANTS ..... IS IT MARRIAGE OR MANAGE?
Tell me something ladies, so there's the ones una dey call Manage ?
Please could you define or give us some characteristics of the "MANAGE" thing I'm highly interested
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 5-04-2011 04:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero