CONFUSED ON WHO TO SETTLE DOWN WITH

Hey Guyz, i will really appreciate if u guyz can help solve this puzzle for a friend of mine,he's so confused and don't know what to do;he is currently dating a girl of the same age with him both of them are 25 and he is been disturbed to settle down by the girl but the girl in question has some questionable characters,meanwhile in his office he also has a lady who's just a friend,the lady is somehow in love with this guy and she's about 29/30 yrs old but the lady is nice and a good wife material,though the lady is well boxed-up,but the guy is confused because of the age and financial status of the lady,the lady is more boxed up dan the guy.

please your honest opinion is needed whom do u think the guy should settle for?

Posted: at 13-04-2011 08:50 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

He should pray over it

Posted: at 13-04-2011 09:18 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Many use this platform to practice lying, they say i quote:help solve this puzzle for a friend of mine. come out plain to say the truth, or tell ur so called friend to register also to benefit from naija pal. afterall he is ur friend. the truth

Posted: at 13-04-2011 01:51 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Hmmm Complicated post...brb

Posted: at 13-04-2011 04:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

What does he know about about love and settling down at 25? Does he fink marriage is something dat u just jump into wifout experience? Very funny! he should go and read his books and fink of better fins to do for now, when he is old enough to settle he wouldn't come to naija pals asking for opinions, he would have gained enough experience to help him choose who he wants after all na im dey date the gal not naija pals...

he is the one wearing the shoes, so he should know where it hurts, here in naija pals, the best these people can do is to do a guess work.
So, go home, settle down, map out want u want in the next five years, work towards it and make urself useful to ur family and to the society. Love tins, should be later tins!

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Posted: at 14-04-2011 02:50 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

stop beating around the bush. you know age is not an issue here. he is not married to the age mate. Love still plays a role in marriage. is he ready to marry at 25? if so, let him go for the girl he is most in love wif! but, come to think of it...are u sure its nt the money that draws him to the ''boxed up'' girl?

Posted: at 14-04-2011 03:12 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

I have a feeling the guy wants to "eat his cake and still have it" Why the confusion? If he doesn't know what he wants from the woman he is going to marry, tell him to wait till he is sure of what he wants. Choosing a wife/husband is about weighing one's options against what one wants.

By the way, please educate me a bit. Does "boxed up" mean fat, or fat wallet?

Posted: at 14-04-2011 11:08 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie