We met 2006, after finishing my youth service year, she was in her third year in the university. She use to be a good loving lady, then she shew me love. She said she wants to take in first before marriage. Initially i was against the idea of getting preg before marriage but she said that was the only way her mum can let her go. We both agreed, she took-in in MAY 2008 and told me in JUNE. She was the one who told my people that they should start preparing for our wedding. But to my surprise, i just noticed that her character was changing suddenly. I sat her down, i told her my observation and pour out my mind. She started nagging that she know longer feel comfortable being with me again. I reported her to her friend, she turned it to be another thing. She went back to people, i mean my old woman and siblings in JULY ending. She told them that her aunt and mum said that she should not marry me. She told them that she was going to abort the pregnancy, my mum and my siblings begged her not to do that, she promised them that she will not abort it. When she left my people, she told me that i should forget about the pregnancy. By OCTOBER 4, she got married to another man of her age and from her town with that same preg. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Posted: at 2-12-2008 12:43 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
eagleseyez at 2-12-2008 12:26 PM (15 years ago) (m)
while lovin her, u shuld have tried being rational to see that she's been playing u all the way she said she cant continue wth the relationsip if u dnt get her pregnant b4 weddin....its laughable and u fell for her excuses....ladies culd be smart tho but learn to love wth reservation my brother that way u dnt act on every of her request, i feel u are used by the girl and her husband she wanted smthg wth the pregnancy
Posted: at 2-12-2008 12:26 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
SAmyrocko at 2-12-2008 12:32 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: jesica on 2-12-2008 12:16 PM
waw there is nothing again u can do she has gone and gone 4ever so move on with ur life......................4get the pregnacy
Remember he is still the biological father of the baby she is carrying and has the right over the pregnacy.... but where im confuse... you know some women could be very silly at times..... The other man might still be the owner of the pregnacy while she's pretending as if it is the first... my guy this is a very dalicate matter that needs a great attention. For me, I will advice you to forget her and move on with your life... at least let her give birth first.. then you can make a case wth her that is if you choose to do that.. Going for test to examine if the blood is really yours or that of the other man.
i wish you the best... pls, don't make a stupid mistake out of fustration.
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
Posted: at 2-12-2008 12:32 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
oh main....................another broken heart in the house.............bros sorry she has gone, am sure even if she come out her marital home u may not like to have her again so let go the case and move on with ur life 4get about the pregnacy the baby may not be urs
Posted: at 2-12-2008 12:39 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
@ Samy cant u see she is married to this other mannnnnnnn!
Am sure this man might as well be thinking that was his child? The Qs is, do u want to claim this child or let bygones be bygones? I hate to say u trusted her toooooooo easily,Never trust anyone till they earn it>
Posted: at 2-12-2008 12:46 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
SAmyrocko at 2-12-2008 12:49 PM (15 years ago) (m)
That is exactly what i asked him if will be interested in making a case with the lady... if his anwser is yes.... Its should be when she most have given to birth.
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
Posted: at 2-12-2008 12:49 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
I add to what samy has said,Then u shud go for a DNA test,to determine the paternity..................And U have to find a woman that wud LOVE,dont make same mistake twice?
Posted: at 2-12-2008 12:52 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Quite an experience. I think for now you just have to get your life back and say focus. Allow her sometimes, when she realize that she has phyuk up then she might come back to plead, remember ur blood is ur blood, ur baby will definely come back to u if really the baby is urs, Bcos i am not sure is ur, from the way she acted.
Posted: at 2-12-2008 01:10 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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