![-]( "trolling") trolling at 15-06-2011 04:14 PM (13 years ago)  (m) This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close
to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child.
After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it.
The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside
to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som
weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him
with the same happy news. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know
wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.
Any advice pls?  was the woman impregnated by another man? flybonita | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Honestly am kinda Confuse hie
I expect her to be happy for her Husband na....Cos i dont think he Was complaining b4 she advised him to go look for another woman
Now he did Exactly what she wanted....trouble con start....women Palava
He wasnt complaining but ofcos a lot of heat from d family dey come!
Afta 4 years he also wanted to knw where d problem dey com frm. But this whole situation got
outa hand, and now the wife doesnt wanna hear anytin abt d gal at all. | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:14 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 15-06-2011 04:16 PM (13 years ago) (m) Reminds me of Abraham and Sarah, anyways if that happened, well I gat my child already, its now left to her to be patient to conceive but that dont mean I would take the other woman as a wife,I'll just get her a place to live for her and my son and give her the option of moving on, simply becausse I'm married.
Oga she's pregnant already. And he doesnt consider taking the gal as a second wife
or anytin, but he does wanna take care of tht child just like u said. Only the wife is refusin by force!This man should stand his ground and stop letting his wife order him about | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Sheree") Sheree at 15-06-2011 04:16 PM (13 years ago) (f) There's nothing she can do about it now, the child from the other woman has come to stay. Hope she deals with it because she asked for it. We should be so careful for what we wish for, they might just come to pass. | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close
to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child.
After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it.
The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside
to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som
weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him
with the same happy news. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know
wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.
Any advice pls? was the woman impregnated by another man? flybonita Yes, thats my question too. If she go impregnated by another man, then its a level playing field, nobody should be offended. No be pikin them be dey look for? Maybe should all even move in together ka ahia Port Harcourt na zu.
But the wife cudn wait. Tht is wht got dem in dis mess. | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:16 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Ajento") Ajento at 15-06-2011 04:17 PM (13 years ago) (m) Reminds me of Abraham and Sarah, anyways if that happened, well I gat my child already, its now left to her to be patient to conceive but that dont mean I would take the other woman as a wife,I'll just get her a place to live for her and my son and give her the option of moving on, simply becausse I'm married.
Oga she's pregnant already. And he doesnt consider taking the gal as a second wife
or anytin, but he does wanna take care of tht child just like u said. Only the wife is refusin by force!Then if she is refusing to be reasonable, the man should kick her ass out and take the girl. After all it was her idea born out of impatience. Selfish devil! | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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No be she say make he go lash outside
Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..
since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na..
let the other girl deliver her child for him.
GODS tym is d best..
Yeah it was her idea, but i guess she was just tinkin he wud b d problem.
Now she is so happy she is pregnant, she just wanna inform all family members
and thank God,, but the man no wanna forget abt d gal at all. He wanna stay in his
marriage but also look afta d gal, his wife dusn agree at all.Thats selfishness becos her impatience led to that....she has got to agree | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:17 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Honestly am kinda Confuse hie
I expect her to be happy for her Husband na....Cos i dont think he Was complaining b4 she advised him to go look for another woman
Now he did Exactly what she wanted....trouble con start....women Palava
He wasnt complaining but ofcos a lot of heat from d family dey come!
Afta 4 years he also wanted to knw where d problem dey com frm. But this whole situation got
outa hand, and now the wife doesnt wanna hear anytin abt d gal at all. brb then | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 15-06-2011 04:19 PM (13 years ago) (f) she has to accept the child ooh it was her opinion, so she shouldnt complain , secondly after sex she can lie down on the bed and cross her leg up so the sperm can go into her stomach , and she should try to reduce having stresss orr doing stressful things, cos with stress it is difficult to get pregnant
U r rite. Stress is a big factor wey can keep pregnancy away.
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![-]( "Adikpe") Adikpe at 15-06-2011 04:21 PM (13 years ago) (m) The woman should blame herself for not waiting for God's time. She should be happy because she initiated what had happened. | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close
to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child.
After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it.
The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside
to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som
weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him
with the same happy news. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know
wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.
Any advice pls? was the woman impregnated by another man? flybonita nothin spoil na,let the man introduce the woman to the wife and let peace reign, the man should tell the other woman the situation of things and tell her she can either be his concubine or she can move on by marrying another man but you women should understand that the men carry the seed, so the baby is the man's not the woman, women just incubate the seed, if they were married then technically they both own the baby, if u dig wat im saying
him with divorce if she find out he got anytin to do wit d woman. She said, now everytin is ok
they dont need her anymore, she no care if d gal is pregnant or not. She even talk sey
mayb na an oda man dey impregnante the gal.  | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:21 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Reminds me of Abraham and Sarah, anyways if that happened, well I gat my child already, its now left to her to be patient to conceive but that dont mean I would take the other woman as a wife,I'll just get her a place to live for her and my son and give her the option of moving on, simply becausse I'm married.
Oga she's pregnant already. And he doesnt consider taking the gal as a second wife
or anytin, but he does wanna take care of tht child just like u said. Only the wife is refusin by force!This man should stand his ground and stop letting his wife order him about
in the first place. Well maybe he believed his wife wudn make a problem afta all said and done.
But still, it is not a nice idea at all. | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 15-06-2011 04:23 PM (13 years ago) (m) No be she say make he go lash outside
Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..
since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na..
let the other girl deliver her child for him.
GODS tym is d best..
Yeah it was her idea, but i guess she was just tinkin he wud b d problem.
Now she is so happy she is pregnant, she just wanna inform all family members
and thank God,, but the man no wanna forget abt d gal at all. He wanna stay in his
marriage but also look afta d gal, his wife dusn agree at all.Thats selfishness becos her impatience led to that....she has got to agree westerners get some strange ways wey our ppl don copy (no offense) but u know what its only a man that can divorce a woman not the other way round | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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There's nothing she can do about it now, the child from the other woman has come to stay. Hope she deals with it because she asked for it. We should be so careful for what we wish for, they might just come to pass.
My dear na u talk am,, we shud b so careful wht we wish for. And always put our faith in God. | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:24 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 15-06-2011 04:25 PM (13 years ago) (f)  nobody is going to b hapy abt somthing like dat , but she should try and put the girl in her shoes , if that girl was her daughter or sister wil she treat her like that | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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No be she say make he go lash outside
Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..
since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na..
let the other girl deliver her child for him.
GODS tym is d best..
Yeah it was her idea, but i guess she was just tinkin he wud b d problem.
Now she is so happy she is pregnant, she just wanna inform all family members
and thank God,, but the man no wanna forget abt d gal at all. He wanna stay in his
marriage but also look afta d gal, his wife dusn agree at all.Thats selfishness becos her impatience led to that....she has got to agree westerners get some strange ways wey our ppl don copy (no offense) but u know what its only a man that can divorce a woman not the other way round  | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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No be she say make he go lash outside
Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..
since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na..
let the other girl deliver her child for him.
GODS tym is d best..
Yeah it was her idea, but i guess she was just tinkin he wud b d problem.
Now she is so happy she is pregnant, she just wanna inform all family members
and thank God,, but the man no wanna forget abt d gal at all. He wanna stay in his
marriage but also look afta d gal, his wife dusn agree at all.Thats selfishness becos her impatience led to that....she has got to agree westerners get some strange ways wey our ppl don copy (no offense) but u know what its only a man that can divorce a woman not the other way round | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:27 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 15-06-2011 04:28 PM (13 years ago) (f) No be she say make he go lash outside
Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..
since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na..
let the other girl deliver her child for him.
GODS tym is d best..
Yeah it was her idea, but i guess she was just tinkin he wud b d problem.
Now she is so happy she is pregnant, she just wanna inform all family members
and thank God,, but the man no wanna forget abt d gal at all. He wanna stay in his
marriage but also look afta d gal, his wife dusn agree at all.Thats selfishness becos her impatience led to that....she has got to agree westerners get some strange ways wey our ppl don copy (no offense) but u know what its only a man that can divorce a woman not the other way roundsays who?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:28 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close
to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child.
After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it.
The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside
to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som
weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him
with the same happy news. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know
wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.
Any advice pls? I can't understand how was she able to ask him to go out for that thing, and also how on earth he could
listen to her?So absurd! They didn't think at consequences at all?My God!
So now,see awkward situation!
I don't know, maybe she should let him "out" for good!The situation is too delicate, and it's understandable
if she can't accept it(though. ..mostly her fault!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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nobody is going to b hapy abt somthing like dat , but she should try and put the girl in her shoes , if that girl was her daughter or sister wil she treat her like that dats exactly wht my bf was talkin abt...nobody dey wish for dis kain tin to happen, but
no turning back nw. | Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:28 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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