trolling at 15-06-2011 04:28 PM (13 years ago) (m) Reminds me of Abraham and Sarah, anyways if that happened, well I gat my child already, its now left to her to be patient to conceive but that dont mean I would take the other woman as a wife,I'll just get her a place to live for her and my son and give her the option of moving on, simply becausse I'm married. Oga she's pregnant already. And he doesnt consider taking the gal as a second wife or anytin, but he does wanna take care of tht child just like u said. Only the wife is refusin by force!This man should stand his ground and stop letting his wife order him about U knw tht was actualy my first thinkin, why did the man agree with dis tin in the first place. Well maybe he believed his wife wudn make a problem afta all said and done. But still, it is not a nice idea at all. the man should secretly take care of the woman and child or maybe he should talk the girl into putting him on child support that way his child would be taken care of, seeing that his wife doesnt want him to have anythin to do wth the woman. Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Ajento at 15-06-2011 04:30 PM (13 years ago) (m) This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child. After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it. The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him with the same happy news. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.
Any advice pls?  was the woman impregnated by another man? flybonita Yes, thats my question too. If she go impregnated by another man, then its a level playing field, nobody should be offended. No be pikin them be dey look for? Maybe should all even move in together ka ahia Port Harcourt na zu. No she got pregnant frm her husband, they were just blessed for their patience u knw. But the wife cudn wait. Tht is wht got dem in dis mess.Ok, now I see. Well she has no choice, she has to live with it. She can be in denial as much as she want, the truth remains that another childs life is thrown into the mix. If i am the man, he should follow his heart and do the right thing. The other child did not ask to be brought into the world. Infact the girl should be part of their family whether living with them or not. She should get equal attention from the man including regular servicing too. Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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thowbee at 15-06-2011 04:30 PM (13 years ago) (f) girls! girls!! girls!!!.....hmmmmm.... Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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trolling at 15-06-2011 04:31 PM (13 years ago) (m) No be she say make he go lash outside Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..
since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na.. let the other girl deliver her child for him. GODS tym is d best..
Yeah it was her idea, but i guess she was just tinkin he wud b d problem. Now she is so happy she is pregnant, she just wanna inform all family members and thank God,, but the man no wanna forget abt d gal at all. He wanna stay in his marriage but also look afta d gal, his wife dusn agree at all.Thats selfishness becos her impatience led to that....she has got to agree Aunti, she dey even threaten d man with divorce if he will still hav anytin to do with dat gal.westerners get some strange ways wey our ppl don copy (no offense) but u know what its only a man that can divorce a woman not the other way roundsays who? sophie dont start wth me ooo, or else i'll go kelly hansome on you Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child. After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it. The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him with the same happy news. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.
Any advice pls?  I can't understand how was she able to ask him to go out for that thing, and also how on earth he could listen to her?So absurd! They didn't think at consequences at all?My God! So now,see awkward situation! I don't know, maybe she should let him "out" for good!The situation is too delicate, and it's understandable if she can't accept it(though. ..mostly her fault!  My dear i dont understand, i cant do such a thing. I can never have a good sleep again, thinking i send my man out to do such a thing. Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:32 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Really awkward!
Live and let live! Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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xena15 at 15-06-2011 04:35 PM (13 years ago) (f) She cnt put her hand in fire n expect nt 2 get burnt!!!!!!!
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u! Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Reminds me of Abraham and Sarah, anyways if that happened, well I gat my child already, its now left to her to be patient to conceive but that dont mean I would take the other woman as a wife,I'll just get her a place to live for her and my son and give her the option of moving on, simply becausse I'm married.
Oga she's pregnant already. And he doesnt consider taking the gal as a second wife or anytin, but he does wanna take care of tht child just like u said. Only the wife is refusin by force!This man should stand his ground and stop letting his wife order him about U knw tht was actualy my first thinkin, why did the man agree with dis tin in the first place. Well maybe he believed his wife wudn make a problem afta all said and done. But still, it is not a nice idea at all.the man should secretly take care of the woman and child or maybe he should talk the girl into putting him on child support that way his child would be taken care of, seeing that his wife doesnt want him to have anythin to do wth the woman. Honnestly i think tht will b one of the best solutions. Bcos i dont see d wife accepting it. I just hope he can succeed in tht, bcos is she find out...................... Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:37 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child. After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it. The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him with the same happy news. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.
Any advice pls?  was the woman impregnated by another man? flybonita Yes, thats my question too. If she go impregnated by another man, then its a level playing field, nobody should be offended. No be pikin them be dey look for? Maybe should all even move in together ka ahia Port Harcourt na zu. No she got pregnant frm her husband, they were just blessed for their patience u knw. But the wife cudn wait. Tht is wht got dem in dis mess.Ok, now I see. Well she has no choice, she has to live with it. She can be in denial as much as she want, the truth remains that another childs life is thrown into the mix. If i am the man, he should follow his heart and do the right thing. The other child did not ask to be brought into the world. Infact the girl should be part of their family whether living with them or not. She should get equal attention from the man including regular servicing too. Thx a lot. Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:38 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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No be she say make he go lash outside Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..
since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na.. let the other girl deliver her child for him. GODS tym is d best..
Yeah it was her idea, but i guess she was just tinkin he wud b d problem. Now she is so happy she is pregnant, she just wanna inform all family members and thank God,, but the man no wanna forget abt d gal at all. He wanna stay in his marriage but also look afta d gal, his wife dusn agree at all.Thats selfishness becos her impatience led to that....she has got to agree Aunti, she dey even threaten d man with divorce if he will still hav anytin to do with dat gal.LOL...that is becos it is over there....if it is in this part of the world where she gets almost nothing after the divorce, I would say NOTHING MEGA........she better allow the other lady be, make e no be say she come dey do wahala come loose dis baby she carry now......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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No be she say make he go lash outside Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..
since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na.. let the other girl deliver her child for him. GODS tym is d best..
Yeah it was her idea, but i guess she was just tinkin he wud b d problem. Now she is so happy she is pregnant, she just wanna inform all family members and thank God,, but the man no wanna forget abt d gal at all. He wanna stay in his marriage but also look afta d gal, his wife dusn agree at all.Thats selfishness becos her impatience led to that....she has got to agree Aunti, she dey even threaten d man with divorce if he will still hav anytin to do with dat gal.LOL...that is becos it is over there....if it is in this part of the world where she gets almost nothing after the divorce, I would say NOTHING MEGA........she better allow the other lady be, make e no be say she come dey do wahala come loose dis baby she carry now...... My dear, exactly! She is suppose to focus on her pregnancy instead of drama. Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:41 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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She cnt put her hand in fire n expect nt 2 get burnt!!!!!!!
True talk!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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ILOVEIT at 15-06-2011 06:12 PM (13 years ago) (m) This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child. After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it. The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him with the same happy news. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.
Any advice pls?  wetin d woman dey complain naa..she no know say some men like free access..n she gave him d free pass naaa...so why complaining huh  ..she should concentrate on her own pregnancy..n d man should avoid any conversation dat could lead to d other gurl!! at dis current situation
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. Posted: at 15-06-2011 06:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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ILOVEIT at 15-06-2011 06:22 PM (13 years ago) (m) oops! she no wan d other pikin in d same roof..she must b kidding..d earlier she start accepting d reality d better for her marriage..is her fault n shouldn't complain at all!
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. Posted: at 15-06-2011 06:22 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Michro at 15-06-2011 08:42 PM (13 years ago) (m) Sweet story of Abraham, Sarah & Hagar
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent Posted: at 15-06-2011 08:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 15-06-2011 08:46 PM (13 years ago) (f) ok
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 15-06-2011 08:46 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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harold634 at 15-06-2011 08:47 PM (13 years ago) (m) she has to accept the child ooh it was her opinion, so she shouldnt complain , secondly after sex she can lie down on the bed and cross her leg up so the sperm can go into her stomach , and she should try to reduce having stresss orr doing stressful things, cos with stress it is difficult to get pregnant
The red words does not guarantee pregnancy when a woman is having pregnancy problem. Posted: at 15-06-2011 08:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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harold634 at 15-06-2011 08:50 PM (13 years ago) (m) No be she say make he go lash outside Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..
since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na.. let the other girl deliver her child for him. GODS tym is d best..
Yeah it was her idea, but i guess she was just tinkin he wud b d problem. Now she is so happy she is pregnant, she just wanna inform all family members and thank God,, but the man no wanna forget abt d gal at all. He wanna stay in his marriage but also look afta d gal, his wife dusn agree at all.Who is pregnant here? your story is contradicting Posted: at 15-06-2011 08:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 15-06-2011 08:53 PM (13 years ago) (f) don mind mama she was sleeping writing
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 15-06-2011 08:53 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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harold634 at 15-06-2011 09:19 PM (13 years ago) (m) Posted: at 15-06-2011 09:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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