Pls i need advice!

Date: 15-06-2011 3:52 pm (13 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- at 15-06-2011 03:52 PM (13 years ago)
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This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close
to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child.
After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it.
The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside
to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som
weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him
with the same happy news. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know
wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.

Any advice pls?  Kiss

Posted: at 15-06-2011 03:52 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- sophiebaby at 15-06-2011 03:56 PM (13 years ago)
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No be she say make he go lash outside
Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..

since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na..
let the other girl deliver her child for him.
GODS tym is d best..

Posted: at 15-06-2011 03:56 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- truenaija2 at 15-06-2011 03:57 PM (13 years ago)
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she has to accept the child ooh it was her opinion, so she shouldnt complain , secondly after sex she can lie down on the bed and cross her leg up so the sperm can go into her stomach , and she should try to reduce having stresss orr doing stressful things, cos with stress it is difficult to get pregnant
Posted: at 15-06-2011 03:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bomsiluv at 15-06-2011 04:00 PM (13 years ago)
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She use her hand go buy market wey she no fit sell. Sorry o madam no vex. Na u want am like dat.
Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 15-06-2011 04:01 PM (13 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked

Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 15-06-2011 04:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 15-06-2011 03:56 PM
No be she say make he go lash outside
Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..

since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na..
let the other girl deliver her child for him.
GODS tym is d best..

Yeah it was her idea, but i guess she was just tinkin he wud b d problem.
Now she is so happy she is pregnant, she just wanna inform all family members
and thank God,, but the man no wanna forget abt d gal at all. He wanna stay in his
marriage but also look afta d gal, his wife dusn agree at all.
Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- trolling at 15-06-2011 04:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Reminds me of Abraham and Sarah, anyways if that happened, well I gat my child already, its now left to her to be patient to conceive but that dont mean I would take the other woman as a wife,I'll just get her a place to live for her and my son and give her the option of moving on, simply becausse I'm married.
Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 15-06-2011 04:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 15-06-2011 03:56 PM
No be she say make he go lash outside
Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..


since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na..
let the other girl deliver her child for him.
GODS tym is d best..

I Tire ooo....Women Sef
Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 15-06-2011 04:04 PM (13 years ago)
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interesting.............

Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:04 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- trolling at 15-06-2011 04:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 15-06-2011 03:52 PM
This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close
to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child.
After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it.
The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside
to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som
weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him
with the same happy news. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know
wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.

Any advice pls?  Kiss

was the woman impregnated by another man? flybonita
Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 15-06-2011 04:05 PM (13 years ago)
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But one tin, how can a woman suggest tht to her husband?

Didn she realise this cud bring a lot of problem to the marriage?
Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:05 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 15-06-2011 04:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Well she sent her hubby out, probably out of impatience, now that has to this........therefore she has to live with it......take the gal in too.......

Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 15-06-2011 04:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 15-06-2011 04:04 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 15-06-2011 03:52 PM
This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close
to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child.
After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it.
The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside
to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som
weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him
with the same happy news. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know
wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.

Any advice pls?  Kiss

was the woman impregnated by another man? flybonita

Oga, no she got pregnant from her husband.
Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:08 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 15-06-2011 04:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-06-2011 03:57 PM
she has to accept the child ooh it was her opinion, so she shouldnt complain , secondly after sex she can lie down on the bed and cross her leg up so the sperm can go into her stomach , and she should try to reduce having stresss orr doing stressful things, cos with stress it is difficult to get pregnant

U r rite. Stress is a big factor wey can keep pregnancy away.
Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 15-06-2011 04:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Honestly am kinda Confuse hie

I expect her to be happy for her Husband na....Cos i dont think he Was complaining b4 she advised him to go look for another woman

Now he did Exactly what she wanted....trouble con start....women Palava

Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 15-06-2011 04:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 15-06-2011 04:02 PM
Reminds me of Abraham and Sarah, anyways if that happened, well I gat my child already, its now left to her to be patient to conceive but that dont mean I would take the other woman as a wife,I'll just get her a place to live for her and my son and give her the option of moving on, simply becausse I'm married.

Oga she's pregnant already. And he doesnt consider taking the gal as a second wife
or anytin, but he does wanna take care of tht child just like u said. Only the wife is refusin by force!
Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:11 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Ajento at 15-06-2011 04:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 15-06-2011 04:04 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 15-06-2011 03:52 PM
This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close
to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child.
After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it.
The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside
to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som
weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him
with the same happy news. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know
wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.

Any advice pls?  Kiss

was the woman impregnated by another man? flybonita

Yes, thats my question too. If she go impregnated by another man, then its a level playing field, nobody should be offended. No be pikin them be dey look for? Maybe should all even move in together ka ahia Port Harcourt na zu.
Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:11 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 15-06-2011 04:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 15-06-2011 04:01 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 15-06-2011 03:56 PM
No be she say make he go lash outside
Now the lashing result result don come out she dey provoke anyhow..

since the man loves her..she should still remain as his wife na..
let the other girl deliver her child for him.
GODS tym is d best..

Yeah it was her idea, but i guess she was just tinkin he wud b d problem.
Now she is so happy she is pregnant, she just wanna inform all family members
and thank God,, but the man no wanna forget abt d gal at all. He wanna stay in his
marriage but also look afta d gal, his wife dusn agree at all.


Thats selfishness becos her impatience led to that....she has got to agree

Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 15-06-2011 04:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 15-06-2011 04:07 PM
Well she sent her hubby out, probably out of impatience, now that has to this........therefore she has to live with it......take the gal in too.......

Madam, they waited for 4 years and nottin happend. I told her back then she had to keep
her faith, but she didn wanna listen. Now this  Undecided
Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:13 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Pepesy at 15-06-2011 04:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 15-06-2011 03:52 PM
This is a couple i know for a long time, and they are very close
to the family. They have bin married for 4 years now, and still no child.
After so many doctor appoinments and advice from the family no solution to it.
The woman was tired of this situation and she told her husband to find a woman outside
to check who got the problem. So the man did wht his wife told him and after som
weeks the girl got pregnant, as he goes home to tell his wife, she is waiting for him
with the same happy news
. He loves his wife more then anything but he doesnt know
wht to do now, bcos his wife doesnt wanna hear anytin about the other girl again.

Any advice pls?  Kiss


So, double blessing for d man nw Grin
Should we call dis impatient or what? since both of them hv proved themselves right?

Ma advice,,,, since it wz their agreement, d woman shuld allow d gal put to bed after which she goes and their marriage continues since their luv is still booming
Posted: at 15-06-2011 04:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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