i have on little issue at hand and it very serious. Franky my colleague in the office has been in some kind of shit lately. she meet Bolaji last December 2009 and everything was going on well with them, they both loved themselves and spend quality of time together after work and weekends. later last year Bolaji told her that his ex want to come back and that he was confused and does not no what to do. that even his parent are aware they were going out before the breakups between them. Now Franky was not too happy with the new development since Bolaji was not sure of the solution to the present issue on ground. Franky decided to stop seeing Bolaji December last year when she noticed that it was always all about his ex. And few months later Franky heard that Bolaji and his ex got married this year and now Bolaji want Franky back in his life pleading and begging Franky that he never wanted to take her back/marrying her but that his parent forced him to doing that becos thay have been friends from child-hold and also to cement the relationship between the two families. Now she does not know what to do since Bolaji is not giving her breathing space at all her phone keep ringing in the office and text message keep coming in. She told me that she still love him but going back to him is her problem.
To me i feel its wrong for her to go back to him since he is now a married man but considering the fact that She said she still love him what do you think is best in a situation like this?
becos that guy wound not let her rest telling her he want to be with her and stuff like that.
Pls i need matured people here pls and your contribution will be appreciated.
Thank U
I dont believe it is o.k to transmogrify into a fool because one is in love.This is a very clear case of use and dump.
and now Bolaji want Franky back in his life pleading and begging Franky that he never wanted to take her back/marrying her but that his parent forced him to doing that becos thay have been friends from child-hold and also to cement the relationship between the two familiesBolaji is a smooth LIAR.It is not possible to force a full grown adult into something as serious as marriage.I will pause at this point.tell your friend to move on.Tell her not to worry.The pain will go away.Its not going to be easy but i assure her.the pain will go away.
''NO MAN KNOWETH THE HOUR''
Posted: at 16-07-2011 11:09 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming |
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