i need ur help plsss wise one's (Page 4)

Date: 14-07-2011 5:20 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Oyindamola betty Aroguma
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- 50scent at 15-07-2011 04:07 PM (12 years ago)
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foul play  Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad

Posted: at 15-07-2011 04:07 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- drnoel at 16-07-2011 07:41 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on 14-07-2011 05:39 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 14-07-2011 05:29 PM
What does he NEED her again for?.........to be a MISTRESS?......


according to wht she told me She said that Bolaji told her that he did not love her that he just want to please his parent that he need Franky now most in his life that since after the wedding things has not been right with him again.

Story, but she really has 2 define the relationship now and be strict about the ground rules she sets. Cos these ground rules may protect her later and help her be happy in the crazy situation she is getting into...

Posted: at 16-07-2011 07:41 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 16-07-2011 09:50 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on 15-07-2011 08:41 AM
Quote from: kebella on 14-07-2011 09:30 PM
matters of the heart.....................i hop Franky no what she's putting herself into.............d boi only want her on bed.......as his mistress........how can someone marry out of pity...............pls spare me the jargon..........Bola dey enjoy his marriage welle maybe his wife is not segxwally active on bed lik Franky....


i have told her this too.

if she stil insist ...............let her be afterall yu 've done what yu shud do as a frd............the rest is hers........

Posted: at 16-07-2011 09:50 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- oohio2007 at 16-07-2011 11:09 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on 14-07-2011 05:20 PM
i have on little issue at hand and it very serious. Franky my colleague in the office has been in some kind of shit lately. she meet Bolaji last December 2009 and everything was going on well with them, they both loved themselves and spend quality of time together after work and weekends. later last year Bolaji told her that his ex want to come back and that he was confused and does not no what to do. that even his parent are aware they were going out before the breakups between them. Now Franky was not too happy with the new development since Bolaji was not sure of the solution to the present issue on ground. Franky decided to stop seeing Bolaji December last year when she noticed that it was always all about his ex. And few months later Franky heard that Bolaji and his ex got married this year and now Bolaji want Franky back in his life pleading and begging Franky that he never wanted to take her back/marrying her but that his parent forced him to doing that becos thay have been friends from child-hold and also to cement the relationship between the two families. Now she does not know what to do since Bolaji is not giving her breathing space at all her phone keep ringing in the office and text message keep coming in. She told me that she still love him but going back to him is her problem.

   To me i feel its wrong for her to go back to him since he is now a married man but considering the fact that She said she still love him what do you think is best in a situation like this?
 becos that guy wound not let her rest telling her he want to be with her and stuff like that.

Pls i need matured people here pls and your contribution will be appreciated.

  Thank U

I dont believe it is o.k to transmogrify into a fool because one is in love.This is a very clear case of use and dump.and now Bolaji want Franky back in his life pleading and begging Franky that he never wanted to take her back/marrying her but that his parent forced him to doing that becos thay have been friends from child-hold and also to cement the relationship between the two families
Bolaji is a smooth LIAR.It is not possible to force a full grown adult into something as serious as marriage.I will pause at this point.tell your friend to move on.Tell her not to worry.The pain will go away.Its not going to be easy but i assure her.the pain will go away.

Posted: at 16-07-2011 11:09 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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