Lack of intimacy in a family

Date: 19-07-2011 6:34 pm (12 years ago) | Author: aadex kebella
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- at 19-07-2011 06:34 PM (12 years ago)
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Its really sad when your pastor ask a question and you stand without a response. Like women don dey scatter my head LOL

Lack of intimacy in a family? What are the causes?
How can one develop intimacy in the family?

It is my assignment given to me by my pastor please help me out
Be right back


Posted: at 19-07-2011 06:34 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- sexweezy at 19-07-2011 06:38 PM (12 years ago)
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Women will help u out anyway funny man  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 19-07-2011 06:38 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wandepope at 19-07-2011 08:31 PM (12 years ago)
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intimacy,intimacy....hmmmm...have you heard of STEPP?
S--sleep together
E--eat together
T--think together
P--play together
P--pray together.....i think thats enough ways to develop intimacy for a nuclear family.

causes of LACK OF INTIMACY --PTFD
P--priorities:some dont think family should be onthe top on priority list
T--trust:where trust is lacking there can never be intimacy
F--family upbringing:some say that is how it was with their father and mother
D--devil.

i would get back to you as soon as i can remember any new thing
Posted: at 19-07-2011 08:31 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xena15 at 19-07-2011 09:26 PM (12 years ago)
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I no follow abeg!

Posted: at 19-07-2011 09:26 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 20-07-2011 08:38 AM (12 years ago)
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wandepope thanks noted  Wink Wink

Posted: at 20-07-2011 08:38 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 20-07-2011 08:44 AM (12 years ago)
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okk
Posted: at 20-07-2011 08:44 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 20-07-2011 08:50 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on 19-07-2011 09:26 PM
I no follow abeg!

Oya follow make i dash u suya inside room  Grin

Posted: at 20-07-2011 08:50 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wandepope at 20-07-2011 08:58 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 20-07-2011 08:38 AM
wandepope thanks noted  Wink Wink
you are welcome anytime Wink
the things that destoy already existing intimacy JUFS
J--jelousy;common within children especially when preference is given to a particular sex.
U--unforgiveness:this destroys intimacy as fast as the wink of the eye.common between husband and wife,parent and children,
F--fear:the fear that being too close may result in damages that cant be repaired,common in people who xperienced blackmail,divorce
S--secrets:

i will be back when i think of mmore
Posted: at 20-07-2011 08:58 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 50scent at 20-07-2011 09:09 AM (12 years ago)
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wandepope Thanks man, i go pose dey answer those question on sunday  Cheesy

Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:09 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 20-07-2011 09:11 AM (12 years ago)
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wandepope is on fire
Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:11 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wandepope at 20-07-2011 09:16 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 20-07-2011 09:09 AM
wandepope Thanks man, i go pose dey answer those question on sunday  Cheesy

yeah guy pose well...but if the people start to see you as Marriage/relationship counsellor you go answer question tire oh  Smiley
Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:16 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 50scent at 20-07-2011 09:17 AM (12 years ago)
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FlyMamacita So u dont have anything to contribute

Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:17 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wandepope at 20-07-2011 09:17 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 20-07-2011 09:11 AM
wandepope is on fire

please increase the gas pressure or add kerosine... Smiley
Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:17 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 20-07-2011 09:23 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: wandepope on 20-07-2011 09:17 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 20-07-2011 09:11 AM
wandepope is on fire

please increase the gas pressure or add kerosine... Smiley

Shocked Shocked ok ooo na ur own request  Tongue
Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:23 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 20-07-2011 09:25 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: wandepope on 20-07-2011 09:16 AM
Quote from: 50scent on 20-07-2011 09:09 AM
wandepope Thanks man, i go pose dey answer those question on sunday  Cheesy
yeah guy pose well...but if the people start to see you as Marriage/relationship counsellor you go answer question tire oh  Smiley

No worry if a man seek my counsel i will call on you
but if a woman, i know what to do i'm good at that  Cheesy

Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:25 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wandepope at 20-07-2011 09:28 AM (12 years ago)
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the ways to restore intimacy AFPCP

A--apology: "i am sorry" is not said by who did wrong but who wants to make it right.
F--forgivness:from the heart goes a long way to dissolve the hurt
P--prayer:very essential and should be done b4 apology because the heart of man is in the HANDS OF GOD and only HIM can give grace
C--counselling:p;ease dont involve any in-law in this,go to a pastor or a profffessional counsellor
P--practice:this is where STEPP comes in again

will be back when i rememeber more
Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:28 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 20-07-2011 09:34 AM (12 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:34 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wandepope at 20-07-2011 09:35 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 20-07-2011 09:34 AM
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
is all well?
Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:35 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 20-07-2011 09:37 AM (12 years ago)
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i wonder if u get stop button too  Tongue
Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:37 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wandepope at 20-07-2011 09:41 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 20-07-2011 09:37 AM
i wonder if u get stop button too  Tongue

do you know if it is my job? Smiley...marriage counselling/lecture cost a lot of money for just 7 days...but its free.but now  i press the stop button Smiley
Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:41 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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