He lost interest in me or may be in sex (Page 7)

Quote from: jerry357 on 29-07-2011 10:45 PM

better divorce, time is not on your syd really he may be gay

you want to marry her?

Posted: at 30-07-2011 07:00 AM (12 years ago) | Grande Master

All u have 2 do first, is to know if he is having another relationship......I cant say it all just try to call me on this number 08066397146

Posted: at 30-07-2011 07:42 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

guy..U b fat thief...

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Posted: at 30-07-2011 07:44 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Keep on praying, he will change 1day

Posted: at 30-07-2011 08:11 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

Sex is an important aspect of marriage if carelessly treated could result to divorce it. If you are sure your man love you, make him jealous. Get one of your female friends to always discuss sex or relative affairs on phone when he is around. Make him jealous, make him think you are having extra-marital affairs. If he truly love you, he will rush back to your horny port to reclaim his kingship..Goodluck

Posted: at 30-07-2011 08:16 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

tell him to go to the hospital with u.

Posted: at 30-07-2011 08:45 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

This can mean so many different things.
He may be experiencing some physical problems, and he is embarrassed to talk abt it.
So always make him feel comfortable whn having a conversation, or u can go for professional help.

He may have something bothering him outside of the marriage. Maybe pressure frm his job,
financial struggles, anytin.
Give ur support, always be there for him, show respect and find ways for him to relax.

What about passion? Maybe this is missing frm ur r/s... Do what u can do to bring variety into ur experience.
Encourage him anytime he does somtin right tht excites u.

Maybe he is havin an affair. But b4 u jump to conclusions u must hav definite proof.
If at all ur suspicions are confirmed, u have to decide, either together or with the help of a therapist, whether u want to work towards saving ur marriage or would prefer parting ways.

Reevaluate ur own atractiveness. Hav u bin takin ur own looks and appereance for granted?

Posted: at 30-07-2011 08:51 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

You are the one to find out whether he is impotent or not and not his friends as you said. You have to do something unusual to him such as:

1. You have to be romantic: many women feels that men should make the first move, yes, supposed it is the responsibility of the man to make the first move, but when it is not coming forth, you as a woman should make the move and see what happens thereafter.

2. Surprisingly strip yourself naked before him: he is your husband and you are his wife, so don't feel shy about it. You know, man's segxwal interest is atimes stimulated by sighting. But mind you, do it with wisdom, don't just go to his front and pull off your dresses. Do it when you are both having a leisure time together (watching TV, or just relaxing etc), start by robbing his beard, gradually start pulling off your cloths. While you are doing that, note his response/reaction. If he react well, then go ahead by start pulling off his own dresses and on and on. Before you know the rest will be history. (And if he doesn't have an arousal, then you should know that he is impotent, but God forbid).

3. If the ones above doesn't work out, then I think you have to convince him to see a doctor because that will mean his problem is beyond just a lost of segxwal interest.

4. If he refuse to see a doctor, then summon him for a family meeting with his parents and or his relatives for him to see the need to have a child after 5 years of marriage. Hope these will help you. BEST OF LUCK.

Posted: at 30-07-2011 09:29 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

some men are just workaholics ............so they get home stressed and fagged out

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Posted: at 30-07-2011 09:42 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

You guys are here talking about the man may be this or my be be that, may be when you hear the side story of this man , you will even  pity him.

Posted: at 30-07-2011 09:43 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie