She was given a very tempting offer, What should she do? (Page 4)

Date: 11-08-2011 7:19 pm (11 years ago) | Author: Darky
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- cyril4christ at 12-08-2011 11:16 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 12-08-2011 10:57 AM
interesting

u mean u re interested in the offer ?
Posted: at 12-08-2011 11:16 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dan_Fulani at 12-08-2011 11:17 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: babyleslie on 12-08-2011 01:10 AM
That's what the English calls "SURROGATE MUM" e don te' wey dat kind thing dey happen.

True. Being a surrogate mother is commom in some western cultures.
Young females "volunteer" to help childless couples. They do get paid
for their efforts.

dan fulani
Posted: at 12-08-2011 11:17 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- joyc_baby at 12-08-2011 11:25 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: tayyibtk on 12-08-2011 10:15 AM
Its really a great trial from God Almighty and i pray she passes tru it Insha Allah. I guess we all knw its immoral and also a great sin to have sex with a man or a woman who is engaged to oda. I wish her the very best.

you are right, any thing that has merit must have demerit, so let  her consider the good and bad side of it. Money is not every thing, wait upon the lord,  the creator of all things,(both wealth, child and prosperity)God will give  you a job and and your own husband. (what profit will u gain that you accept the money and lose the blessing that God prepared for you.)  Man can give  u money with right hand and take it back with left hand which will lead u to death. Be wise my dear. Make your choice,
Posted: at 12-08-2011 11:25 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- Lilliansteve at 12-08-2011 11:27 AM (11 years ago)
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BAD IDEA,TEMPTING OFFER WHERE GOD DEY.THE COUPLES DON'T KNOW GOD,IF THEY DO,GOD WILL SURPRISE THEM.IF THE LADY AGREE,SHE WILL NEVER HAVE A CHILD OF HER OWN TILL SHE DIES.IF SHE SAYS YES,SHE WILL BE BARREN FOR LIFE.SHE WILL REGRET IT FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE,THAT'S WHAT THE SPIRIT OF GOD TOLD ME TO TELL HER.THE VOICE OF GOD -THE VOICE OF A MAN.THE COUPLE SHOULD WAIT ON THE LORD.
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- precious44 at 12-08-2011 11:28 AM (11 years ago)
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yeye offer
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- crusifixo at 12-08-2011 11:34 AM (11 years ago)
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take the damn job..........the child is urs with them or with you.................
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- DonMatt at 12-08-2011 11:41 AM (11 years ago)
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though the money is tempting but the offer is right....she owns the shoe let her wear it...good luck.
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- HISJOY at 12-08-2011 11:45 AM (11 years ago)
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yeye post
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- Dan_Fulani at 12-08-2011 11:46 AM (11 years ago)
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I think she should do what her values and morals allow her to do.
If she is desperate for the money and opportunity, she will take the
offer. Economic conditions in Nigeria is such that most women will
jump at that proposal.
Wish her luck.

dan fulani
Posted: at 12-08-2011 11:46 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- moniconyez at 12-08-2011 11:48 AM (11 years ago)
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Posted: at 12-08-2011 11:48 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- skyleo at 12-08-2011 11:50 AM (11 years ago)
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Since the two of them agree on it, definitely that woman can not bear a child again. Though am not saying she should accept the offer but am very sure that she is going to be the real wife at the end, because the man will not want to stop on just a child. Secondly if the lady's character encourages the man, then deal sealed.    
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- Dan_Fulani at 12-08-2011 11:52 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Eucharia on 12-08-2011 09:13 AM
so i be baby factory, man go fcuk me finish take my baby give me money and send me away right. I dey crazy .No to that offer

What you see as an indecent proposal, other see as opportunity.
Everybody has her opinion and moral values. I know many
ladies here who will gladly accept that proposal in a second.

dan fulani
Posted: at 12-08-2011 11:52 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dan_Fulani at 12-08-2011 11:54 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: crusifixo on 12-08-2011 11:34 AM
take the damn job..........the child is urs with them or with you.................

You do not waste time , you get right to the point. I like that.
Your advice is that she accept the offer.

dan fulani
Posted: at 12-08-2011 11:54 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dan_Fulani at 12-08-2011 11:57 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sweetypeters on 12-08-2011 08:42 AM
i go accept the offer o...no be pikin dem want, no wahala

Most female here share your views...........they will accept
the offer. You are not alone.

dan fulani
Posted: at 12-08-2011 11:57 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dan_Fulani at 12-08-2011 12:00 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: exter on 12-08-2011 10:39 AM
for me i will take the offer and in future i will deal with the couple.

Another YES vote. It appears that more ladies here
will accept the offer.

dan fulani.
Posted: at 12-08-2011 12:00 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Greggiyke at 12-08-2011 12:04 PM (11 years ago)
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It's risky for the lady. What makes her think they're gonna keep their own part of the agreement after all.
People can be wick enough to make sure she don't survive after child birth. Be wise young lady.
Most girls of nowadays are so conscious of money, that's why the spend the latter part of their lives in misery and unhappiness.
Let the couple adopt, they are so self, they can't give anything for free.  
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- luther4real at 12-08-2011 12:07 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: kattie77 on 11-08-2011 11:51 PM
The offer is very very tempting but its not wise to do it cos there will be some problems in d future,if dey are so desperate 4 a child dey should go and adopt

dats right!
Posted: at 12-08-2011 12:07 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Emmandazie at 12-08-2011 12:10 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Dan_Fulani on 12-08-2011 11:57 AM
Quote from: sweetypeters on 12-08-2011 08:42 AM
i go accept the offer o...no be pikin dem want, no wahala

Most female here share your views...........they will accept
the offer. You are not alone.

dan fulani

Because these females have money lenses in their eyes and money brains.
Let them replace that with moral values.
Posted: at 12-08-2011 12:10 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- queenrukky at 12-08-2011 12:21 PM (11 years ago)
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bad idea....i dnt tink a lovin mother will leave her child
Posted: at 12-08-2011 12:21 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 12-08-2011 12:23 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: cyril4christ on 12-08-2011 11:16 AM
Quote from: giftmurphy on 12-08-2011 10:57 AM
interesting

u mean u re interested in the offer ?
really????is dat wat u fink??didnt even read d context...so u might be d one interested........so r u?
Posted: at 12-08-2011 12:23 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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