my very close friend called me yesterday and said "my mother is a lesbian" he said he saw his mother and her best friend in her room, according to him he said "she dÃd't see me" . he needs advice from me wether to tell his father or keep it secret. pls pals what should i tell him...
Posted: at 11-02-2008 08:01 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
This is a very sentitive issues which need a critical solution and if care is not taking,it can break a home and the relationship with ur parents may not be dat cordial anymore. As 4 me,am speechless 4 now,but if u insist dat I must advice or in ur shoe as d case be,I think I can't inform my dad cos it may cause havoc in the family cos if ur father is not aware of it,another angle is if ur da is already aware and u go and waken the sleep dog? OMO na problem go gass be dat o ! I rest my case 4 now!
Posted: at 11-02-2008 09:18 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
Lesbianism, gay, bio etc, are all devillish. well talk to mom in a actively manner i guess u aint kid any longer. i bet u she will listen. make sure u relate with either ur younger or older once, i dnt really know anythin about the family, but the fact his dat she will b ashame of the children and changes will occure. mind u it takes the spirit of God to deliver one from such.
Posted: at 11-02-2008 11:19 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
Well he didn't say what he saw, so he could have possibly saw them just chillin and fixing up each other's make -ups or somthing...unless he said they were in action, then he's simply assuming that she is a lesbian.
Posted: at 12-02-2008 09:25 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
ppl are quick to assume stuff without really finding out from source if what they see or hear is true or not so he should not tell his father until he is able to verify what is really going on with his mother and her best friend.
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Posted: at 25-02-2008 11:08 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
dejifortune at 25-02-2008 11:27 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: silky4u on 25-02-2008 11:08 PM
ppl are quick to assume stuff without really finding out from source if what they see or hear is true or not so he should not tell his father until he is able to verify what is really going on with his mother and her best friend.
Good talk and the more we learn to find out the truth before jumping into conclusion, the less people we will get to hurt
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Posted: at 25-02-2008 11:27 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Motunrayooluwa at 26-02-2008 02:24 AM (16 years ago) (f)
Ok I have been left speechless....wow wow wow...ok maybe its not true cuz my girlfriends and I are pretty close and stuff....(no makeouts or sturvs like that oh) Be quick to think, and slow to judge.....never jump into conclusions until you get your facts straight
Posted: at 26-02-2008 02:24 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
I personally suspect all girls that are very close to each other these days....because I always tried to defend them as very good, but I think I was wrong....... NO OFFENSE.....
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Posted: at 26-02-2008 10:38 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
but somehow i would like to meet a bi segxwal female.....at least i can screw her and all her bisegxwal friends ..i hear it is fun ......from people that have bi segxwal girlfriend
Posted: at 26-02-2008 11:00 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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