My friend needs an advise from any matured minded person,his mum feels dat his girl is just after his money n for that reason and others like her background. He says dat if nt d girl no other. but d girl says dat she cant go on cos she tinks d guy will end up not marryin her n if she marries him d mum will turment her stay. So guy wat advise do you hav i know Naija pals can bring a solution.
Posted: at 11-01-2009 06:25 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
luv2bnafrica at 11-01-2009 06:35 PM (16 years ago) (f)
that is a tough one but if the two love eachother the man can put his foot down to his mom about his relatinship without being disrespectful and they can move on. When two people marry that creates a new family that needs to be built and when others interfer with that its just wrong. One has to follow their heart about who they choose to love and don't let nobody come between them. I cant stand to see people break up a loving union if that is what it is, its just not right. He should sit down and talk to his mom. On the other hand some people are after money so the mother might be just worried about her son and rightfully so, but sometimes peoples fears are unfounded and should not stop two people from loving oneanother. I think sometimes people need to gather a backbone and stand up for the one they claim they love. Now that is true love
Posted: at 11-01-2009 06:35 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Tread with caution. Pray about it, talk to her and try and see what reason she has for being an opposition to Ur desire. If she has nothing strong with evident backing or she sounds like she's just been mindlessly protective, u can just avoid her and stall to see if she changes her mind... I don't know o, this thing is different from person to person. Wisdom is profitable to direct.
Posted: at 11-01-2009 06:52 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
ceejay58 at 11-01-2009 07:42 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: luv2bnafrica on 11-01-2009 06:35 PM
that is a tough one but if the two love eachother the man can put his foot down to his mom about his relatinship without being disrespectful and they can move on. When two people marry that creates a new family that needs to be built and when others interfer with that its just wrong. One has to follow their heart about who they choose to love and don't let nobody come between them. I cant stand to see people break up a loving union if that is what it is, its just not right. He should sit down and talk to his mom. On the other hand some people are after money so the mother might be just worried about her son and rightfully so, but sometimes peoples fears are unfounded and should not stop two people from loving oneanother. I think sometimes people need to gather a backbone and stand up for the one they claim they love. Now that is true love
well said.
Posted: at 11-01-2009 07:42 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
is an every day story.., when it cums to marriage u dnt xpect easy task.. d only thing u can do is to convience ur family dt she is d only woman in ur entire life.. prayer too is very important..
Posted: at 12-01-2009 12:09 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
prencess at 12-01-2009 03:50 PM (16 years ago) (f)
If am a guy I will take my time and study that girl very well because what an elderly person sits down to see if we young ones stand up we will be unable to see it so take ur time to know what ur mum saw in her that makes her to refuse ur proposal to her
Posted: at 12-01-2009 03:50 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Try and convince mumsy,if she insist on her decision,I advice you put it in prayers.She must give her consent before you go ahead with the marriage plans.
I Believe... True Friendship continues to grow... even over... the longest distance...( I need my son as much as I need my breath.)
Posted: at 12-01-2009 04:13 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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