How long should people COURTSHIP?

Date: 31-03-2012 4:12 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Andrea MsChocolate
- at 31-03-2012 04:12 PM (12 years ago)
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Courtship in a r/ship, how long should it be?
Many people have argued dat courtship shud be within d period of 3-6 months while some say it shud be 6 to 1yr.. Some even say 1-2yrz or even more.
I want us to knw dat no human is a perfect being & no matter how long u courtship, u cnt knw everytin about ur partner.
I beliv dat d longer u courtship in ur relationship, d longer d chances of gettin married is being delayed
& delay as we all know is dangerous.
D truth is: dis feeling of "My Kind of Man/Woman" is only in our head
sometimes in reality, dey jst dnt exist..
There are boys/gurls who wants a tall/avrg, fat/slim, rich/intelligent etc person but all their life, d only people dat took dem serious are jst d opposite!
Lets try 2 identify wat we want wen we see one & more importantly build around it like a brick!
Courtship shudn't be 2 long 2 avoid temptations & trials & i want us 2 knw dat it is not all Courtship dat leads to Marriage.. So why shud anyone Courtship for years wen @d end of d day, u jst might end up busy doing nothing?
However, share ur thoughts wit me on how long u think people shud Courtship in a R/ship?

Posted: at 31-03-2012 04:12 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
- wandepope at 31-03-2012 04:17 PM (12 years ago)
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As long as they are still deciding wether or not to get married.
Posted: at 31-03-2012 04:17 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Andreagurl at 31-03-2012 04:24 PM (12 years ago)
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Okay!
Posted: at 31-03-2012 04:24 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- wandepope at 31-03-2012 04:29 PM (12 years ago)
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But don't let any guy spend your whole youthful days deciding,if he cannot decide early enough and he doesn't want you to help him decide just know you have to move on to someone that is quick at making good and perfect decisions.
Posted: at 31-03-2012 04:29 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Andreagurl at 31-03-2012 04:33 PM (12 years ago)
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Hmmm... Lukz lyke u grab wat i waz driving at!
I lyke dat!
Quote from: wandepope on 31-03-2012 04:29 PM
But don't let any guy spend your whole youthful days deciding,if he cannot decide early enough and he doesn't want you to help him decide just know you have to move on to someone that is quick at making good and perfect decisions.
Posted: at 31-03-2012 04:33 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Adikpe at 31-03-2012 04:41 PM (12 years ago)
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It can be months and it can be years, what matter is the end-product (Marriage).
Posted: at 31-03-2012 04:41 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Andreagurl at 31-03-2012 04:54 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Adikpe on 31-03-2012 04:41 PM
It can be months and it can be years, what matter is the end-product (Marriage).

dats gud doe...but is there any guarantee dat d end product wil be <MARRIAGE?>
Posted: at 31-03-2012 04:54 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- zeigbo at 31-03-2012 05:11 PM (12 years ago)
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Hmmm

Posted: at 31-03-2012 05:11 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Andreagurl at 31-03-2012 05:14 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: zeigbo on 31-03-2012 05:11 PM
Hmmm

Wat? Did i burst ur bubble?
Posted: at 31-03-2012 05:14 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- jossy4reall at 31-03-2012 06:40 PM (12 years ago)
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In genuine courtship a minimum of five yrs is ok

Posted: at 31-03-2012 06:40 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 1-04-2012 05:51 PM (12 years ago)
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Court until the magistrate retire  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 1-04-2012 05:51 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- cutelizzy at 1-04-2012 05:58 PM (12 years ago)
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4 less than a year or less i walk out.
Posted: at 1-04-2012 05:58 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- giftmurphy at 3-04-2012 01:52 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: wandepope on 31-03-2012 04:17 PM
As long as they are still deciding wether or not to get married.
Cool Cool Cool
Posted: at 3-04-2012 01:52 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 3-04-2012 01:53 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Adikpe on 31-03-2012 04:41 PM
It can be months and it can be years, what matter is the end-product (Marriage).
When it takes longer, it does not mature to end product.
Posted: at 3-04-2012 01:53 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 3-04-2012 01:54 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Andreagurl on 31-03-2012 04:54 PM
dats gud doe...but is there any guarantee dat d end product wil be <MARRIAGE?>
Ask him again bc many many never get to end product.
Posted: at 3-04-2012 01:54 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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