what do i do? (Page 2)

answer his question na.. are u nt a wife material?         

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Posted: at 9-07-2012 02:26 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Sis u should know me better than all of them here na.  The guy was making a statement, was not a question becos i did not see question mark 

Posted: at 9-07-2012 03:47 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

husband dey scarce

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Posted: at 9-07-2012 04:53 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Try your best to make him happy & is he is still behaving like a todler
show him the door,he might be taking advantage of you by being apologetic all the time.

Posted: at 9-07-2012 05:44 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

 

Posted: at 9-07-2012 05:53 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Well, I was like this long time ago!  But a guy stood by me all these while.

These are the guides that will help you assist your man.

1. He is a Lion (Not a quiet person, good at argument, confronting and straightforward man)
2. He is still dwelling in the past.
3. He never actually had any meaningful friends that teach him somethings that he needs to knw
4. He hangs out with friends who never wants the best for him. They always encourage him badly (at most times)
5. He lacks understanding, some wisdom and knowledge
6. He hangs out with people that are not spiritually stable
7. He is always giving giving giving and no one ever return when he is in needs. (People always come when they needs him only -pple takes advantage of him)
8. He had sacrificed so much in his previous r/ship but never regain nothing from it.
9. He doesn't know what he wants yet
10. He is a beautiful person, but he takes things too personal and read too much meaning to everything. And assumes/jump into conclusion easily
11. He is insecure
12. He was hurt in his previous r/ship so u now his victim.
The list goes on....

Well, u need to be patient, and submissive. Whenever he brings up unnecessary argument, u need to take it slowly. Withdraw yourself, and always always and always encourage him. Help him to see things in an accurate perspectives. Ask him to calm down, and always talk to him in a lower tones(no shouting or raisin of voice on him). Prove your life for him in actions. Always pray with him concerning two of your behaviors towards each other.
DO NOT GET OUT OF YOUR WAY TO PLEASE HIM. ALWAYS B YOURSELF. BE HONEST TO HIM. ALWAYS B HAPPY AROUND HIM. DON'T JUST B HIS GF, BE HIS CLOSEST FRIEND. You guys may not married, bt at least you will touch heaven by showin him the way. Just bcos he is a man doesn't mean that he needs to know everything on his own. KU LUCK

Posted: at 9-07-2012 07:02 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

Big Whole Lie! Every man is a good husband. ShIt

Posted: at 9-07-2012 07:07 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 9-07-2012 08:14 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

correct

Posted: at 9-07-2012 08:47 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Follow wat ur hrt tells u

Posted: at 9-07-2012 10:20 PM (12 years ago) | Hero