I score you 10/10. You are a mother and a wife, it'll take a great mind to understand this. Well spoken.
Men s thoughts and women s thoughts are not the same {just as their body isnt either} and so, their personal creations and self experiences also differs, just as the natural duties assigned to them. so their views about love often differs too. The purpose of creations and of life is all about growth and perfecting the truths of our being {spirit} and self realization, and eventually becoming perfect just like God is. This is what marriage is in too.
Women s love and submission to a man depends on the feelings they have for him, which are often based on illusions and lies {because they often live in a dream world} and so, when certain conditions were not met from their own view, which often not possible, {and depending on the woman, after playing some mind games on him without realizing its consequence etc} then submission in terms of Gods words or that of man became a mystery. Men s view of love depends on how lovely and beautiful she is to him or her segxwal looks, how respectful, exciting, understanding especially at his lowest times, and how graceful she is to complement his ego, etc and so, when these qualities were not there {depending on the man}, he might be unfaithful and not truly love
We have to add and practice the virtue of unconditional love too, especially in marriages, {which is the only true love anyway} and reduce our overdependent on perceptions but to a person s true being {spirit}. we must learn to unlearn certain natural errors and differences, our belief systems, mindsets, etc in us {through awareness} to pave the way for an eventual growth {truth} and reducing pains and suffering {ignorance}
There is no greater minds other than the one we have within us already and so, the great minds you talking about here is our inability to understand clearly other peoples thinking patterns and their world and of which are often not necessary if we are really on the right part to our own personal growth and development.
Posted: at 15-03-2013 01:45 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie |
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