Can Married Women Have Male Friends? (Page 3)

Date: 17-06-2008 11:10 am (14 years ago) | Author: Papi Caliente
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- Buddyflex at 4-07-2008 08:53 AM (14 years ago)
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Hey my wife has always been more comfortable with male friends all her life and that didn't stop me from getting married to her. I will not say am not a jealous guy but I chose to trust her.
Posted: at 4-07-2008 08:53 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Tassara at 9-01-2009 02:50 AM (14 years ago)
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yeah, sure they can. as long they are just friends.
Posted: at 9-01-2009 02:50 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- blackberryPearl at 9-01-2009 02:51 AM (14 years ago)
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heck yes they can
Posted: at 9-01-2009 02:51 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- akjasper at 9-01-2009 03:23 AM (14 years ago)
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Was here
Posted: at 9-01-2009 03:23 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blackberryPearl at 9-01-2009 03:47 AM (14 years ago)
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ok?
Posted: at 9-01-2009 03:47 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 9-01-2009 05:39 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: vixenx on 17-06-2008 01:26 PM
Quote from: darkocean002 on 17-06-2008 11:10 AM
I see this has a threat to marriage.. dont think its a good idea.

why is it a threat?..so basically you're saying that once  married,... I should get rid of my childhood and classmates friends that are males??..I don't see anything wrong with that as long as your spouse knows about them and your history with them. I've got male friends since elementary through now and i will not even think about ditching them at all..these ppl have become like families to me and marriage would not change a thing.

babe u re absolutely stop on. God bless u child.
Posted: at 9-01-2009 05:39 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 9-01-2009 06:09 AM (14 years ago)
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this shows you the level hypocrisy among Nigerians in particular. whatever make u men think u could but ur wives cant. and that's why i ve always advice our young ladies pls don't allow yourselves to be coaxed or intimidated into marriage not anymore. if u must get married pls get married to a friend i mean ur best friend, the one who understands u, who trust u. and that's why i always say courtship is very important cos it help u to see  how compatible u both can be. yes if go into marriage when both of u re not compatible you 'll only end up merely tolerating each other and i assure one party must be suffering more in such a relationship and its mostly the women. but however i also advice u ladies pls let whatever u have with the others be strictly friendship and nothing more pls don't give ur spouse any reason to doubt or question ur faithfulness. its my opinion dont know about urs.
Posted: at 9-01-2009 06:09 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 9-01-2009 02:22 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: darkocean002 on 17-06-2008 11:10 AM
I see this has a threat to marriage.. dont think its a good idea.
if u stop them hving male friends....can u stop them hving uncles nd cousins?
Posted: at 9-01-2009 02:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- skaniexcell4ya at 17-10-2011 12:44 PM (11 years ago)
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nope..
Posted: at 17-10-2011 12:44 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- ZubairuAbana at 4-07-2012 02:54 AM (10 years ago)
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NOOOOOOOO!!! Don't ever try it, absolutely NO.
Posted: at 4-07-2012 02:54 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- solojaro at 4-07-2012 09:39 AM (10 years ago)
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Nothing is wrong if nothing is attached.
Posted: at 4-07-2012 09:39 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 4-07-2012 10:53 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on  9-01-2009 02:22 PM
if u stop them hving male friends....can u stop them hving uncles nd cousins?
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 4-07-2012 10:53 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- shilem at 4-07-2012 04:01 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: darkocean002 on 17-06-2008 11:10 AM
I see this has a threat to marriage.. dont think its a good idea.

NO OFFENSE
Posted: at 4-07-2012 04:01 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Treasure2 at 4-07-2012 04:02 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: solojaro on  4-07-2012 09:39 AM
Nothing is wrong if nothing is attached.
Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 4-07-2012 04:02 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- politica at 4-07-2012 06:54 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 18-06-2008 10:47 AM
depends on what kinda husbands u are getting.....men can be very very jealous....
i disagree wit u....cos women can be selfish or can even melt on the process, and then she will start to see what her friend is doing for her or to another gal, which her husband cannot archive Grin Grin Grin i will advice married women to mmake friends with also married once,on husband notice....not secretoooooo!!!! Grin
Posted: at 4-07-2012 06:54 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- meche34 at 6-07-2012 09:34 AM (10 years ago)
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Personally i do not take it funny..... so it is a no go area OK. Let us assume that the past has gone and ........for ever, but not in my house.
Posted: at 6-07-2012 09:34 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- Treasure2 at 6-07-2012 10:12 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: meche34 on  6-07-2012 09:34 AM
Personally i do not take it funny..... so it is a no go area OK. Let us assume that the past has gone and ........for ever, but not in my house.
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 6-07-2012 10:12 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- verah at 13-07-2012 03:08 PM (10 years ago)
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i reseve my comment till i get married cos am gettin married soon

Posted: at 13-07-2012 03:08 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mchinwendu at 13-07-2012 07:01 PM (10 years ago)
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It is not a good idea at all.  Women can not have the type of male friends she had before she got married.  Nor, can men have the type of women friends he had before he got married.  The relationship that each had with the opposite sex has to now be different to safe-guard the marriage...plain and simple.  Anyone of the opposite sex that pushes for more should be kept at a distance.  Spending time joking, playing, flirting and then spending time alone with that same person is opening the door to plenty temptation and unwanted trouble. 

The Bible asks who can put hot flames on their chest and not be burned?  The answer...no one.   
Posted: at 13-07-2012 07:01 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mallorca at 13-07-2012 07:08 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: darkocean002 on 17-06-2008 11:10 AM
I see this has a threat to marriage.. dont think its a good idea.
its very bad idea

Posted: at 13-07-2012 07:08 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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