When it comes to love and relationship

(m) at 16-08-2009 08:36AM (10 years ago)

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WHY IS IT THAT WHEN IT CAMES TO OPPOSITE SEX RELATIONSHIP, THE FEMALE ALWAYS RELY ON MALE, SHE WILL LIKE TO HAVE EVERY THING FROM HER GUY, I THINK THIS IS NOT FAIR. IN RELATIONSHIP/LOVE ALLOT OF THINGS ARE INVOLVED TO MAKE IT STRONG, LIKE CARING, SARCRIFY TO MENTION JUST A FEW. AND THE FEMALE WILL EXPECT ALL THIS TO BE DONE BY THE MALE, IS UNFAIR AND SOME FEMALES BEFORE THEY ACCEPT TO GO INTO RELATIONSHIP WITH MALE THEY WILL CHECK YOUR BANK STATEMENT OF ACCOUNT TO KNOW IF YOU CAN PROVIDE ALL THEIR NEEDS, THIS IS CHEAT. FEMALES CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE, AND TRY TO LOVE BACK YOUR GUY NOT HIS MONEY


onchedu (m) at 16-08-2009 10:28AM
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eddybabs (m) at 16-08-2009 10:50AM
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onchedu (m) at 16-08-2009 11:21AM
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Welcome to the "property market." Stop complaining bout how things are run here and just get what U want with what U have. It's a nasty world. Wake up.
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erikaakpan (f) at 16-08-2009 11:25AM
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soooo...u are pretty much calling us selfish  Undecided Undecided

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MrDon (m) at 16-08-2009 11:37AM
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well start dating boys then
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MrDon (m) at 16-08-2009 11:46AM
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passing
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esonu (m) at 16-08-2009 01:46PM
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Huh?

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DONN (m) at 16-08-2009 03:01PM
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   Am Joe by name but known as DONN. Am in love with this lady called Sandra and i knew or believed she love me in return. She school in an institution, some miles away from where i work. I pay her school fees and accommodation, i sent her monthly allowances, i spent reasonable amount of money for her to make her desire hair style.
   I visit her time to time and things have been going on well, she understand me when i don't have and she bear with me. We have been dating for almost six months now. My parents knows her but they only dislike her code of dressing, my parents been an S.U, so but its OK by me been a social guy the way she is too.
   But House please i needed your advice all at this junction. I visited this lady without her notice and to my surprise what i saw was beyond my imagination. I lodge at a guest house close to where i rent her house to monitor her movement and what she was doing, you know lady are not to be relay upon, sorry for this, all ladies in the house. 
   To my surprised, it was at about 10pm as i stroll down her street, three(3) guys just cross my way and asked me if knew SANDRA? I reply boldly and said yes off cos she is my girl friend. The next thing as a slap on my face, before i could get myself back to my right position,  one of them used the knife in his hand on me and before i knew it my body are full f blood. The next place i would find myself was the school general hospital, and as am writing this post now, am having stitches on my mount, But yet i still love her while my parent did not want to see her anymore.
   So House i want you all to advice me as am really confused.
 
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luvvy (m) at 16-08-2009 03:15PM
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Quote from: stanley22 on 16-08-2009 08:36AM
WHY IS IT THAT WHEN IT CAMES TO OPPOSITE SEX RELATIONSHIP, THE FEMALE ALWAYS RELY ON MALE, SHE WILL LIKE TO HAVE EVERY THING FROM HER GUY, I THINK THIS IS NOT FAIR. IN RELATIONSHIP/LOVE ALLOT OF THINGS ARE INVOLVED TO MAKE IT STRONG, LIKE CARING, SARCRIFY TO MENTION JUST A FEW. AND THE FEMALE WILL EXPECT ALL THIS TO BE DONE BY THE MALE, IS UNFAIR AND SOME FEMALES BEFORE THEY ACCEPT TO GO INTO RELATIONSHIP WITH MALE THEY WILL CHECK YOUR BANK STATEMENT OF ACCOUNT TO KNOW IF YOU CAN PROVIDE ALL THEIR NEEDS, THIS IS CHEAT. FEMALES CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE, AND TRY TO LOVE BACK YOUR GUY NOT HIS MONEY

if u re not ready or capable of some of this things then u re not enough to hav a girlfriend sorry to say i ll be right back
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esonu (m) at 16-08-2009 03:18PM
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Quote from: DONN on 16-08-2009 03:01PM
   Am Joe by name but known as DONN. Am in love with this lady called Sandra and i knew or believed she love me in return. She school in an institution, some miles away from where i work. I pay her school fees and accommodation, i sent her monthly allowances, i spent reasonable amount of money for her to make her desire hair style.
   I visit her time to time and things have been going on well, she understand me when i don't have and she bear with me. We have been dating for almost six months now. My parents knows her but they only dislike her code of dressing, my parents been an S.U, so but its OK by me been a social guy the way she is too.
   But House please i needed your advice all at this junction. I visited this lady without her notice and to my surprise what i saw was beyond my imagination. I lodge at a guest house close to where i rent her house to monitor her movement and what she was doing, you know lady are not to be relay upon, sorry for this, all ladies in the house. 
   To my surprised, it was at about 10pm as i stroll down her street, three(3) guys just cross my way and asked me if knew SANDRA? I reply boldly and said yes off cos she is my girl friend. The next thing as a slap on my face, before i could get myself back to my right position,  one of them used the knife in his hand on me and before i knew it my body are full f blood. The next place i would find myself was the school general hospital, and as am writing this post now, am having stitches on my mount, But yet i still love her while my parent did not want to see her anymore.
   So House i want you all to advice me as am really confused.
 

why did u post this under someones post? anyway, have u confirmed the reason why the guys got u panel beated? did u investigate if they are her boy friends? make enquiries before asking for wht to do!!

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ogunfunmi (f) at 16-08-2009 04:24PM
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 Huh? Huh? Huh?
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HOPEA23 (f) at 16-08-2009 05:17PM
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Quote from: stanley22 on 16-08-2009 08:36AM
WHY IS IT THAT WHEN IT CAMES TO OPPOSITE SEX RELATIONSHIP, THE FEMALE ALWAYS RELY ON MALE, SHE WILL LIKE TO HAVE EVERY THING FROM HER GUY, I THINK THIS IS NOT FAIR. IN RELATIONSHIP/LOVE ALLOT OF THINGS ARE INVOLVED TO MAKE IT STRONG, LIKE CARING, SARCRIFY TO MENTION JUST A FEW. AND THE FEMALE WILL EXPECT ALL THIS TO BE DONE BY THE MALE, IS UNFAIR AND SOME FEMALES BEFORE THEY ACCEPT TO GO INTO RELATIONSHIP WITH MALE THEY WILL CHECK YOUR BANK STATEMENT OF ACCOUNT TO KNOW IF YOU CAN PROVIDE ALL THEIR NEEDS, THIS IS CHEAT. FEMALES CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE, AND TRY TO LOVE BACK YOUR GUY NOT HIS MONEY
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emmyG (f) at 16-08-2009 05:19PM
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passing ..and not reading capital letters
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blackberryPearl (f) at 16-08-2009 05:21PM
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NO COMMENT
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around_d_corner (m) at 16-08-2009 05:27PM
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Quote from: stanley22 on 16-08-2009 08:36AM
WHY IS IT THAT WHEN IT CAMES TO OPPOSITE SEX RELATIONSHIP, THE FEMALE ALWAYS RELY ON MALE, SHE WILL LIKE TO HAVE EVERY THING FROM HER GUY, I THINK THIS IS NOT FAIR. IN RELATIONSHIP/LOVE ALLOT OF THINGS ARE INVOLVED TO MAKE IT STRONG, LIKE CARING, SARCRIFY TO MENTION JUST A FEW. AND THE FEMALE WILL EXPECT ALL THIS TO BE DONE BY THE MALE, IS UNFAIR AND SOME FEMALES BEFORE THEY ACCEPT TO GO INTO RELATIONSHIP WITH MALE THEY WILL CHECK YOUR BANK STATEMENT OF ACCOUNT TO KNOW IF YOU CAN PROVIDE ALL THEIR NEEDS, THIS IS CHEAT. FEMALES CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE, AND TRY TO LOVE BACK YOUR GUY NOT HIS MONEY
if they will understand..... but some gal are real gud.........dey doesn't check all that
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naturalqueen (f) at 11-06-2012 10:40AM
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if u really wanted to know her secrets, u wouldn't have told those guys she is ur girlfriend..........
Na u expose urself. You would have denied and see what they will do.... or who u will see with her.
Those guys could be sent by her family to monitor her and fight whoever is intruding in her studies. They could also be sent from another of her lover. You can never tell. So u phyuk up by exposing ur identity when u have a mission........
Be careful next time!
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mizcollins1 (f) at 11-06-2012 10:59AM
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boi plz!!! everyone is not the same!!
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