She left me again....I need to move forward but I can't..HELP

Date: 03-09-2009 12:55 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Timothy Kadashi
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- at 3-09-2009 12:55 PM (15 years ago)
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Knew this girl for long as a friend but finally something happened and we started dating even though she told me of her boyfriend...who doesn't show much affections toward her, she said. I left one and wanted to go on with my life and get settled as a young adult hopefully next year.... I gave her my best which I never gave others that came my way. but she turned me down when he came into town briefly..I took it, which I wont most times and told myself it was just one of those things in life..... we continued like noting really happened and finally his parents(the guy) came for introduction and she said yes now, making believe it was her parents idea. People, I'm not buying that...crab. Now we're no longer together but i still LOVE her....What can I do? where do start from again? I need to move on but............MY HEART BLEEDS. Counting on you my friends.

Posted: at 3-09-2009 12:55 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- onchedu at 3-09-2009 01:00 PM (15 years ago)
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Karma. Now Ur even. That's one way to lok at it. U have a clean slate. What will U do with it?

Another way to look at it is, she wasn't Urs in the first place and there's someone better for U. Some things in life happen so we can learn from em not just what won't work but what will work.

Sorry my friend, but life has it's ups and downs. U just hit down hard. Good thing is when U hit rock bottom there's no place left to go but up. The pains will come but if U want to U will be happy again.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 01:00 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 3-09-2009 01:07 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: teemonkadash on  3-09-2009 12:55 PM
Knew this girl for long as a friend but finally something happened and we started dating even though she told me of her boyfriend...who doesn't show much affections toward her, she said. I left one and wanted to go on with my life and get settled as a young adult hopefully next year.... I gave her my best which I never gave others that came my way. but she turned me down when he came into town briefly..I took it, which I wont most times and told myself it was just one of those things in life..... we continued like noting really happened and finally his parents(the guy) came for introduction and she said yes now, making believe it was her parents idea. People, I'm not buying that...crab. Now we're no longer together but i still LOVE her....What can I do? where do start from again? I need to move on but............MY HEART BLEEDS. Counting on you my friends.
Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes ::)eya..sorry ohhh shit like this happened..not just only you it happened to alot of people....you just ave to  take heart and learn to move on..i know is not gonna be easy but you just ave to learn to forget all about her..all the affections,watsoever you both used to shared together.....but don't go and rush into another relationship for now,just give yourself some time to be fully recover from the heartbreak...don't worry everythings has his own time....just be patience and always pray for God to give you the one tht will love and will never try to hurt you. Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 3-09-2009 01:07 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 3-09-2009 01:15 PM (15 years ago)
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Another way to look at it is she's going to get what's coming to her. She used U to fill in the blanks for a guy who wasnt treating her right.

She probably loves him and did so even when she was with U, but U sef suppose know as girl love be na.

It could be the guy just thot to himself "This girl is in my paws, why don't I just marry her sef?" and decided to do so. The thing is if he wasnt treating her right or satisfying her needs before they get married he most likely would be worse of doing so after they marry.

Count Ur blessings my bro. She was cheating on her soon to be future husband with U. What makes U feel she wouldnt have cheated on U with him had U should the oportunity present itself?
Posted: at 3-09-2009 01:15 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- ktalent at 3-09-2009 02:25 PM (15 years ago)
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Move on.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 02:25 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- emmyG at 3-09-2009 02:37 PM (15 years ago)
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move in wit .... my comment is pointless sowi
Posted: at 3-09-2009 02:37 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 3-09-2009 05:20 PM (15 years ago)
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guy move on!!! their are still other clean chicks waiting to be loved
Posted: at 3-09-2009 05:20 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- zie85er at 3-09-2009 05:31 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: teemonkadash on  3-09-2009 12:55 PM
Knew this girl for long as a friend but finally something happened and we started dating even though she told me of her boyfriend...who doesn't show much affections toward her, she said. I left one and wanted to go on with my life and get settled as a young adult hopefully next year.... I gave her my best which I never gave others that came my way. but she turned me down when he came into town briefly..I took it, which I wont most times and told myself it was just one of those things in life..... we continued like noting really happened and finally his parents(the guy) came for introduction and she said yes now, making believe it was her parents idea. People, I'm not buying that...crab. Now we're no longer together but i still LOVE her....What can I do? where do start from again? I need to move on but............MY HEART BLEEDS. Counting on you my friends.
u r counting on us?/......lmaooo

sorry bro...u don loss b dat
Posted: at 3-09-2009 05:31 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 3-09-2009 06:50 PM (15 years ago)
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she don loss b dat..
Posted: at 3-09-2009 06:50 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 3-09-2009 06:55 PM (15 years ago)
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her parents cant make her choose for herself.  i think u should move on. if she comes back on time then she is yours. try to love her for free, dont love her for marriage. ku-luck!
Posted: at 3-09-2009 06:55 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 3-09-2009 06:58 PM (15 years ago)
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kluck ku
Posted: at 3-09-2009 06:58 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osituga at 3-09-2009 07:42 PM (15 years ago)
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move forward move forward move forward move forward
Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:42 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 3-09-2009 07:42 PM (15 years ago)
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u said it like 4 tymes...mh ...u don go everywere b dat
Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:42 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osituga at 3-09-2009 07:45 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: pepigambit on  3-09-2009 07:42 PM
u said it like 4 tymes...mh ...u don go everywere b dat

hmmm
Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:45 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 3-09-2009 07:47 PM (15 years ago)
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awon omo ti gbo
Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:47 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osituga at 3-09-2009 07:48 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: pepigambit on  3-09-2009 07:47 PM
awon omo ti gbo

??
Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:48 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 3-09-2009 07:49 PM (15 years ago)
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dat na yoruba ....
Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:49 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osituga at 3-09-2009 07:51 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: pepigambit on  3-09-2009 07:49 PM
dat na yoruba ....

i know na...but meaning ?
Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:51 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 3-09-2009 07:53 PM (15 years ago)
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..I need to move forward but I can't..HELP.......................e means say shildren don hear
Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:53 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osituga at 3-09-2009 07:56 PM (15 years ago)
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shildren children
Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:56 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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