Am in a relationship wit someone who comfesses he loves me.The problem that keeps disturbing me is his nonchalant attitude towards the relationship...he neva bother to kn were i stay even when he is in town cos he stays in a different town & i dont know were he stays neither.wen ever i bring up the mather wit him,he always says NOT YET TIME....i have tried many times to opt out of the relationship....bt he always comes begging requiring for time.we both meet in school & he will be thru this year.WAT SHOULD I DO?
Posted: at 20-09-2009 06:00 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
I don't think he's really into you, coz once he's done with school and stops coming to campus u r never gonna see him again and he has made that damn sure by not letting u know where he stays. I might be wrong though maybe he's just not ready, but i don't know what he is not ready 4 since its not like u r pressuring him into marriage or anything.
Posted: at 20-09-2009 10:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
@poster this what we call love that ends at maingate!! He is not in love but lust wif u!!! He shld want to know everything abt u including where u stay and the rest os the lot!!!
Get up and run!!!
Posted: at 20-09-2009 10:36 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Simple, ultimatum, which could end in two ways either way you win. if he ends up taking you home gud 4 u, if he decides he's still not ready then goodbye to him that way you don't have to wait till he finishes school and discards you himself, you be the one to free him.
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:29 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
anonymous2 at 21-09-2009 11:47 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: toluwany on 20-09-2009 06:00 PM
Am in a relationship wit someone who comfesses he loves me.The problem that keeps disturbing me is his nonchalant attitude towards the relationship...he neva bother to kn were i stay even when he is in town cos he stays in a different town & i dont know were he stays neither.wen ever i bring up the mather wit him,he always says NOT YET TIME....i have tried many times to opt out of the relationship....bt he always comes begging requiring for time.we both meet in school & he will be thru this year.WAT SHOULD I DO?
u need to be very careful,wit all uve said,then i dont think he loves u,cos some1 dat loves u would be interested in knowing all about,and for him to say its not yet time ,then just watch out!
Dnt like me? Have a sit with the rest of the bitches waitin for me to give a 4k
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:47 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac