What should i do, does he really love me?

Date: 20-09-2009 6:00 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Toluwani
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- at 20-09-2009 06:00 PM (15 years ago)
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  Am in a relationship wit someone who comfesses he loves me.The problem that keeps disturbing me is his nonchalant  attitude towards the relationship...he neva bother to kn were i stay even when he is in town cos he stays in a different town & i dont know were he stays neither.wen ever i bring up the mather wit him,he always says NOT YET TIME....i have tried many times to opt out of the relationship....bt he always comes begging requiring for time.we both meet in school & he will be thru this year.WAT SHOULD I DO?

Posted: at 20-09-2009 06:00 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- xter at 20-09-2009 06:31 PM (15 years ago)
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maybe or maybe not he needs time
Posted: at 20-09-2009 06:31 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessing2006 at 20-09-2009 10:10 PM (15 years ago)
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When a guy is truly in love, he is anxious to know where the girl lives.

It's debatable if he genuinely in love with you.
Posted: at 20-09-2009 10:10 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- temi07 at 20-09-2009 10:17 PM (15 years ago)
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I don't think he's really into you, coz once he's done with school and stops coming to campus u r never gonna see him again and he has made that damn sure by not letting u know where he stays. I might be wrong though maybe he's just not ready, but i don't know what he is not ready 4 since its not like u r pressuring him into marriage or anything.
Posted: at 20-09-2009 10:17 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 20-09-2009 10:19 PM (15 years ago)
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nope.
Posted: at 20-09-2009 10:19 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Uzzy at 20-09-2009 10:36 PM (15 years ago)
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@poster
this what we call love that ends at maingate!! He is not in love but lust wif u!!! He shld want to know everything abt u including where u stay and the rest os the lot!!!
Posted: at 20-09-2009 10:36 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Asuquo1 at 20-09-2009 10:47 PM (15 years ago)
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we need wisdom to succeed in every thing we do in this life. be wise and find out for yourself wether he loves you or not.
Posted: at 20-09-2009 10:47 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- toluwany at 21-09-2009 09:35 AM (15 years ago)
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so wat do u guys think i should do?
Posted: at 21-09-2009 09:35 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- temi07 at 21-09-2009 11:29 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: toluwany on 21-09-2009 09:35 AM
so wat do u guys think i should do?
Simple, ultimatum, which could end in two ways either way you win. if he ends up taking you home gud 4 u, if he decides he's still not ready then goodbye to him that way you don't have to wait till he finishes school and discards you himself, you be the one to free him.
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:29 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- macgreat at 21-09-2009 11:35 AM (15 years ago)
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OKay
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:35 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 21-09-2009 11:36 AM (15 years ago)
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ok miss bad adviser.......but some guys are afraid to take their gfriend hom bcos there house may not look so 9ce
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:36 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- toluwany at 21-09-2009 11:36 AM (15 years ago)
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thanks temi
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:36 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- toluwany at 21-09-2009 11:40 AM (15 years ago)
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xter.....am nt intrested on aw their house looks lik....d house is nt my headache.
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:40 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- xter at 21-09-2009 11:42 AM (15 years ago)
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well ok
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:42 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- anonymous2 at 21-09-2009 11:47 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: toluwany on 20-09-2009 06:00 PM
  Am in a relationship wit someone who comfesses he loves me.The problem that keeps disturbing me is his nonchalant  attitude towards the relationship...he neva bother to kn were i stay even when he is in town cos he stays in a different town & i dont know were he stays neither.wen ever i bring up the mather wit him,he always says NOT YET TIME....i have tried many times to opt out of the relationship....bt he always comes begging requiring for time.we both meet in school & he will be thru this year.WAT SHOULD I DO?
u need to be very careful,wit all uve said,then i dont think he loves u,cos some1 dat  loves u would be interested in knowing all about,and for him to say its not yet time ,then just watch out!
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:47 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- temi07 at 21-09-2009 11:47 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 21-09-2009 11:36 AM
ok miss bad adviser.......but some guys are afraid to take their gfriend hom bcos there house may not look so 9ce
Thank you, but how can one not be able to point to their partner's house, something is fishy?
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:47 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 21-09-2009 12:13 PM (15 years ago)
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he has his reasons, nowadays many things happen and  are beyond xplanation
Posted: at 21-09-2009 12:13 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- toluwany at 21-09-2009 12:16 PM (15 years ago)
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Posted: at 21-09-2009 12:16 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- macgreat at 21-09-2009 12:20 PM (15 years ago)
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Why the sad Face? Huh?
Posted: at 21-09-2009 12:20 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 21-09-2009 12:21 PM (15 years ago)
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sealed lips
Posted: at 21-09-2009 12:21 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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