What should i do, does he really love me? (Page 2)

Date: 20-09-2009 6:00 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Toluwani
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- toluwany at 21-09-2009 12:26 PM (14 years ago)
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mac..am really sad oooooo Sad
Posted: at 21-09-2009 12:26 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- macgreat at 21-09-2009 01:10 PM (14 years ago)
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Pele

Posted: at 21-09-2009 01:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Toks-E at 21-09-2009 02:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: toluwany on 20-09-2009 06:00 PM
  Am in a relationship wit someone who comfesses he loves me.The problem that keeps disturbing me is his nonchalant  attitude towards the relationship...he neva bother to kn were i stay even when he is in town cos he stays in a different town & i dont know were he stays neither.wen ever i bring up the mather wit him,he always says NOT YET TIME....i have tried many times to opt out of the relationship....bt he always comes begging requiring for time.we both meet in school & he will be thru this year.WAT SHOULD I DO?

so sad..i dont really fink he cares abt u

but try nd move on sha...shyte happens

Posted: at 21-09-2009 02:08 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- toluwany at 21-09-2009 02:56 PM (14 years ago)
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thankz toks
Posted: at 21-09-2009 02:56 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- macgreat at 21-09-2009 05:00 PM (14 years ago)
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she's sad

Posted: at 21-09-2009 05:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mandla at 21-09-2009 06:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Its really difficult to say wether this guy really loves you or not.....you are the best to judge that.....like there maybe other ways to tell whether he loves you or not by what happens when you too are together......

Not wanting to c where you live may be a manifestation of some insecurity about where he himself lives...once he sees where you live .....it will obviously be his turn to let you c where he lives { could be that he is not happy with where he lives}....or there is something else he doesn't want you to c there or in its vicinity.

If u have tried to end up the relationship and he has come up begging you not to call it quits then maybe there is a reason behind this issue of seeing where who lives....

My own advice will be....to sit him down when you both have time for a real talk.....heart-to-heart like..... tell him you want honest-talk ...no bullshit! Let him know how you feel about him...even though he may know that already....tell him what it means to you this thing of "seeing where each other lives"...how important it is to you.....how you interpret his not bothering to know where you live or letting you know where he lives{like thinking he is not serious at all abt the relationship}...your fears and thoughts about this issue....just open up to each other....ask him when will it be time...what is he waiting for?...get answers to your worries from the horse's mouth...dont let him go if you aint'satisfied with what he tells you

If he really cares....then he ought to change his attitude after a good heart-to-heart talk......if he doesn't change then........leave him girl.....he ain't for you?

I wish you luck.........
Posted: at 21-09-2009 06:04 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- macgreat at 21-09-2009 06:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Acticle

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- luvvy at 21-09-2009 06:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: toluwany on 20-09-2009 06:00 PM
  Am in a relationship wit someone who comfesses he loves me.The problem that keeps disturbing me is his nonchalant  attitude towards the relationship...he neva bother to kn were i stay even when he is in town cos he stays in a different town & i dont know were he stays neither.wen ever i bring up the mather wit him,he always says NOT YET TIME....i have tried many times to opt out of the relationship....bt he always comes begging requiring for time.we both meet in school & he will be thru this year.WAT SHOULD I DO?

not only him loves u, i love you too..... no need to kno ur where about
Posted: at 21-09-2009 06:32 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 21-09-2009 06:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Guyman no send u.
Posted: at 21-09-2009 06:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- luvvy at 21-09-2009 06:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 21-09-2009 06:38 PM
Guyman no send u.

 Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 21-09-2009 06:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- macgreat at 21-09-2009 06:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Posted: at 21-09-2009 06:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- lilgemli at 21-09-2009 09:40 PM (14 years ago)
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i don't think he cares,if he does he would have been eager to no your hse n all sorts of things about you,its a 2 way thing like they said n he might care but 'cos of some reasons he doesn't want you to no his hse.spend some real tym with im n av a nice talk,u shld feel it if he really loves you.ciao...
Posted: at 21-09-2009 09:40 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xter at 21-09-2009 10:18 PM (14 years ago)
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hmmmmmmm........9ice 1 abi tuface 1

Posted: at 21-09-2009 10:18 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Uzzy at 22-09-2009 02:46 AM (14 years ago)
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~~passing~~

Posted: at 22-09-2009 02:46 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 22-09-2009 02:48 AM (14 years ago)
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leapfrogging

Posted: at 22-09-2009 02:48 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Uzzy at 22-09-2009 02:52 AM (14 years ago)
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~~dancing around~~

Posted: at 22-09-2009 02:52 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 22-09-2009 02:57 AM (14 years ago)
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dancing gogo with u

Posted: at 22-09-2009 02:57 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Uzzy at 22-09-2009 03:24 AM (14 years ago)
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~~dancing salsa with u~~

Posted: at 22-09-2009 03:24 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 22-09-2009 03:26 AM (14 years ago)
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dancing ballt with u

Posted: at 22-09-2009 03:26 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- simele at 22-09-2009 09:01 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: toluwany on 20-09-2009 06:00 PM
  Am in a relationship wit someone who comfesses he loves me.The problem that keeps disturbing me is his nonchalant  attitude towards the relationship...he neva bother to kn were i stay even when he is in town cos he stays in a different town & i dont know were he stays neither.wen ever i bring up the mather wit him,he always says NOT YET TIME....i have tried many times to opt out of the relationship....bt he always comes begging requiring for time.we both meet in school & he will be thru this year.WAT SHOULD I DO?

if that is the only problem knowing his house is the any problem but if he care and do things you want then give him time
Posted: at 22-09-2009 09:01 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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