HELP!!! “ My Husband Is Not Goal Oriented & Lazy” – Overworked Wife

My hubby hasn’t worked since we met, our car has died and we are out of money to fix it.

We are very behind on our rent, and my husband has made it clear that he does not want me trying to get any kind of government assistance. Nor does he want me asking him any more work-related questions of any kind. He wants to work from home and will not consider doing any kind of other work to make ends meet. I am really trying to keep my mouth shut but am struggling as of late. We will be facing eviction soon.

My parents live very close by and are aware that my husband is either sleeping or on the computer. My mom doesn’t say anything but often offers us food, which is well-received. I make a small amount of money working from home, but it is not enough to keep us afloat.

Should I just quietly allow this to happen to us? I wouldn’t worry about it so much if our children were not so young. They are 4, 2, and 1. My husband is not a Christian, but I love him and think he is a good man, but he is making me crazy! If you have any advice on what I can do, please let me know.

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Posted: at 3-09-2014 06:13 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie

Wahala!

Posted: at 3-09-2014 07:47 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

Hold on to your faith maga go soon vomit pay. Hahaha !

Yahoo no be business or job! NA rugged onyeguy u go marry.

Posted: at 3-09-2014 08:21 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie

Eeeeeya sorry dear, that's your cross, what you gon' do huh ?

Posted: at 3-09-2014 08:35 AM (10 years ago) | Hero

U no him to be a yahoo boy from the start, so why re u complaining nw?

Posted: at 3-09-2014 09:17 AM (10 years ago) | Hero

Wow, young lady why are complaining when you know that your Oga is a guy man. All the money that you have been enjoying since more than 5 years now, can't have faith and carry your cross? Seems your mother is more refined than you because she behaves maturely and respectfully knowing too well that the young man has been in money and both of you have been benefiting. So shot up and pray and talk sense into your guy to invest money wisely when the money drop again. Try and change your husband by making him to invest wisely and quit the online job lol.

Posted: at 3-09-2014 10:16 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

Foolish woman when he get money why you no ask him to open a business for you? So you are happy enjoying the money and now you want to share his story with us? No way we no go gree ooooo

Posted: at 3-09-2014 10:54 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 Copy n paste

Posted: at 3-09-2014 11:15 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

You married him when he wasn't working....What were you expecting??

Posted: at 3-09-2014 11:41 AM (10 years ago) | Hero

hey hey ovoko,na who send you go marry lazy man?enjoy ur self 

Posted: at 3-09-2014 12:33 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero