So me and this guy have been talking for about a year now, but if we were to be in a relationship then it would have been 8 months. Basically we met at church, boys comes to play sometimes at my church ans we started talking. Now boy had b-day party about 8 months back and boy invited me. I went, n well the whole party boy paid extra attention to me, he always checked up on me, even tried soo many times to dance with him but i refused due to my chrisitan faith. well boy had to drop me home after party, n well the whole car ride we held hands. we cuddled n huged severally n boy somewhat tried to make his intensions known..Now after that boy at times comes to see me, we go out chill and do things as if we were together. Boy often makes comments like would you kiss me, or why dont you losen up..blablah.. so we hug, we hold hands, we cuddle i even cook for boy.. I repeatedly ask boy what we are n no answer.. he says we flow..I need help
Btw the pic describes how he acts with me. He is very kind, God fearing, sweet and loves to feel my warmth Now i need to know what are we?? do you have advice to give please and thanks. Keep it Pg. 13 please
Posted: at 3-12-2009 06:24 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
So me and this guy have been talking for about a year now, but if we were to be in a relationship then it would have been 8 months. Basically we met at church, boys comes to play sometimes at my church ans we started talking. Now boy had b-day party about 8 months back and boy invited me. I went, n well the whole party boy paid extra attention to me, he always checked up on me, even tried soo many times to dance with him but i refused due to my chrisitan faith. well boy had to drop me home after party, n well the whole car ride we held hands. we cuddled n huged severally n boy somewhat tried to make his intensions known..Now after that boy at times comes to see me, we go out chill and do things as if we were together. Boy often makes comments like would you kiss me, or why dont you losen up..blablah.. so we hug, we hold hands, we cuddle i even cook for boy.. I repeatedly ask boy what we are n no answer.. he says we flow..I need help
Btw the pic describes how he acts with me. He is very kind, God fearing, sweet and loves to feel my warmth Now i need to know what are we?? do you have advice to give please and thanks. Keep it Pg. 13 please
girl from the pic note if he is doing some ask him if he love and get his respond and check if he has any girl he treated as he do to you apart from you
Posted: at 3-12-2009 08:58 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Well 2 me, i can say u guys re in ? hp u undastd me...... If u knw he has all u need in a guy,den open up 2 him...Is just dat we take it 2 be something else wen a lady asked a guy 4 a relationship,but there's no big deal in dat.....
Posted: at 3-12-2009 11:29 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
So me and this guy have been talking for about a year now, but if we were to be in a relationship then it would have been 8 months. Basically we met at church, boys comes to play sometimes at my church ans we started talking. Now boy had b-day party about 8 months back and boy invited me. I went, n well the whole party boy paid extra attention to me, he always checked up on me, even tried soo many times to dance with him but i refused due to my chrisitan faith. well boy had to drop me home after party, n well the whole car ride we held hands. we cuddled n huged severally n boy somewhat tried to make his intensions known..Now after that boy at times comes to see me, we go out chill and do things as if we were together. Boy often makes comments like would you kiss me, or why dont you losen up..blablah.. so we hug, we hold hands, we cuddle i even cook for boy.. I repeatedly ask boy what we are n no answer.. he says we flow..I need help
Btw the pic describes how he acts with me. He is very kind, God fearing, sweet and loves to feel my warmth Now i need to know what are we?? do you have advice to give please and thanks. Keep it Pg. 13 please
great, i'm only 5 yrs old..so i cant help u
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Posted: at 3-12-2009 11:34 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
U like the boy but u dey front and confuse urself. U dont need advice. Wetin go happen don happen already even the one wey never happen. If I were boy I'd be just a lil more patient cos pay day is coming fast.
Posted: at 3-12-2009 11:50 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
JanetTosDada at 3-12-2009 05:08 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Wow you guys all make sense. Quick Question: if a guy tell you, " you make me uncomfortable because i try to make things right but you just act weird not normal and dont reciprocate back" What does that implicate??
I am very uptight and i agree i need to open up but something is holding me back The fact that i dont know what we are is killing me and the fact that boy wont answer is also killing me. Pleae continue to advice n let me know your view on this my funny and interesting relationship
Posted: at 3-12-2009 05:08 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
oh dear...if boy didnt open for u then dont let boy get into u, but always b nice to boy. and pay close attention to boy's perspectives when it comes christain faith. not all boys that goes to church are truelly God's fearing. but i hope u and boy come to fall in love and live Happily ever after!
Posted: at 3-12-2009 05:13 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
@poster...forget about what you guys presently are and focus on what you wanna be. I don't see nothing wrong with being best friends always. personally, that's better than a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. a bestfriend won't break ur heart...a boyfriend would.
JanetTosDada at 3-12-2009 11:35 PM (15 years ago) (f)
are u d only one for him? & make i pass comments.. what o you mean?? im asking for your point of view, can you please reiterate what you said. thanks...
Posted: at 3-12-2009 11:35 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
First of all, cuddle is nothing, hugging is nothing, warmth= comfort of hugging..nothing segxwal.. no impure thoughts or feeling.
Second we havent kissed, neither have i attempted to do such.
So buddy Ceejay. before you comment read facts straight n dont be sarcastic. what with the hissing?? :S
and while u were hugging him all along with ur boobs pressed right there on his chest cuddlling him, now exactly do u think was going on in his mind? holy ghost baptism huh?........... yea right.
Posted: at 4-12-2009 12:43 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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