Why so people marry so late (Page 3)

well i dont know of late marriage beacuse i married
my first hubby at the age of 5, second at the age of 8, third at the age of 12, so the last will
be at the age of 26 i think i tried cus i no go pass 26 without marrying again

Posted: at 22-02-2010 05:34 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I have a rather different view; Our society, customs and traditions demand so much from their young men. Imagine going to get married to a woman of your dream and was asked to pay :

1. huge dowry  (the lady's parents will take that opprtunity to recorver all the money they've spent on her with interest. )
2. elder's cut,
3. traditional marriage,
4. court registry, 
5. bachelors party
6. church marriage

You finished sec. school at 17-20, UNI. at 25-29 (due to strikes)
After UNI. you join unemployment market at least 2-3 yrs.
When you get a new job, family pressure is all around waiting... no financial help from the government.

Nna, make I stop here...make decades of anger no kom tear my brain.

Posted: at 16-03-2010 11:14 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

yes cos the two parties really need to be matured i all manners

Posted: at 17-03-2010 12:44 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Marriage is a serious bizness,u dnt jump in n out like every other friendship cuz both families are involve

Posted: at 17-03-2010 03:31 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Marriage is not an avenue for boys and girls but for mature minds

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Posted: at 19-03-2010 08:16 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Is a matter of choice and maturity.Bcos marriage requires 3 maturity level,maturity in age,maturity in WISDOM,maturity in finances.Think of the above b4 you jump into marriage bcos is sacred.

Posted: at 19-03-2010 05:14 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie