What is u'r View on Living Together Lovers / Partner? (Page 8)

Date: 04-03-2010 11:47 am (14 years ago) | Author: John F Kennedy
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- princeoke at 8-03-2010 07:00 AM (14 years ago)
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African females 2day wit the kind of love they re lookin 4,that they have learnt 4rm the western world has made how relationship into marriage should go into sin in the face of God who form the union and took the woman 2 the man as help meet not love in world success but His kingdom growth in producing their kind 2 live after them in God's will and not their will and with this lack of true knowledge families in our generation 2day no longer stay 2gether 2 create their kind.and i tell u God is mad me Africans who He gave His culture and tradition but violet them by takin the white man's culture of the devil.turn Africans 2 ur real God not the white man's gods.
Posted: at 8-03-2010 07:00 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- pink_lady_69 at 8-03-2010 08:20 AM (14 years ago)
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WHAT IS THE HURRY?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh??
Y can't yu just wait until yu both r legally and spiritually marrieddddd!!!!
Living tugeda before he even propsed/after he has proposed is Stupidity at its peak (oshisco)..coz den yu d gurl try nd pretend to b d best wife ever by do sum ovasabi chores dt yu wer not requested to do, nd shaggin each oda... eventually if d gurl is pregnant am 100% sure d guy will kick her out.
Until a man weds yu(girl) nd brings yu into yur matrimonial home..consider evryfin abt movin in nd den marryin yu as  bullshittin!
"UNNECCESARY TEMPTATION TO SIN".
Posted: at 8-03-2010 08:20 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- nk4love at 8-03-2010 08:34 AM (14 years ago)
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NO,cause it will make the lovers/partner to get tired of each other so quick when they get married ,staying apart brings understanding,feelings ,Hungary 4 each other and mostly strong LOVE.  
Posted: at 8-03-2010 08:34 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Don-Hab at 8-03-2010 08:49 AM (14 years ago)
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staying apart is more matured, it brings trust  and ability to spend a day without ur spouse
Posted: at 8-03-2010 08:49 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- civilian at 8-03-2010 09:04 AM (14 years ago)
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Let's drop all these religious philosophies that had turned to be practically zero. No lovers that would get to know each other better while living seperately. There are experiences that can come once in a lifetime, if you are not there, storey cannot make it up for you. A visitng lover is always careful in not to offending you. And you cannot see all he or she possess until both live together. My advice is, let us encourage courtship of living together, but while eating the cake, let's remember that it is still in hire purchase.
Posted: at 8-03-2010 09:04 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Ify4life at 8-03-2010 09:34 AM (14 years ago)
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no it is not good thing to do

Posted: at 8-03-2010 09:34 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ify4life at 8-03-2010 09:43 AM (14 years ago)
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that is ture there is no Joseph in our time

Posted: at 8-03-2010 09:43 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ramotgb at 8-03-2010 09:51 AM (14 years ago)
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they dnt  need to live together now is not good cos wat if they dnt eventually made it to the altar wat will be there fate o
Posted: at 8-03-2010 09:51 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dguy at 8-03-2010 10:32 AM (14 years ago)
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But to be real - this is a real No - No - No....

In reality, it doesn't work quite well and theres HIGH tendency of .............. (immorality)

Posted: at 8-03-2010 10:32 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- famous5 at 8-03-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago)
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PREACH PREACHER
Posted: at 8-03-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- nk4love at 8-03-2010 12:47 PM (14 years ago)
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NO s not right,cause it will make the lovers/partner to get tired of each other so quick when they get married ,staying apart brings understanding,feelings ,Hungary 4 each other and mostly strong LOVE.  
Posted: at 8-03-2010 12:47 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- segunolaobaju at 8-03-2010 01:07 PM (14 years ago)
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To be sincere and Biblically  we all knw dat it is  wrong and a  bad attitude being staying together without been married, u are death sprirtualy and  there so many disadvantages about the whole thing, u might end up as just his bed warmer n when he is done dats when he will knw u ar not  d right person he wants, flimsy excusees will start coming up, It is not advicable especially for the women, Becareful n beware don't play with ur dignity as a man or a woman.
Posted: at 8-03-2010 01:07 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- eddybabs at 8-03-2010 01:51 PM (14 years ago)
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passing...........
Posted: at 8-03-2010 01:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- humblej at 8-03-2010 02:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: holamidey on  8-03-2010 01:35 PM
I'm gonnna find it difficult to pay for wat I've already eaten.
lol, it goes back to why ppl refuted the idea cos many will see it as.. i have seen it all and next question is...., what is new about her / him again that would attract me into marriage!

Posted: at 8-03-2010 02:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- rasky47 at 8-03-2010 02:28 PM (14 years ago)
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i think is good to live seperately and wait for the D day, that will give it value but communication is very important
Posted: at 8-03-2010 02:28 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- innokat at 8-03-2010 03:09 PM (14 years ago)
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is the best way to marriage because it helps to develop whether you want to continue the marriage vow or not rather than divorce after marriage coupled with its psychological trauma.
Posted: at 8-03-2010 03:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- longy at 8-03-2010 03:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Sentiments apart! we all know it's morally and biblically wrong for unmarried couples to live together...it breeds distrust, heartbreak and spiritual backwardness but the flesh!!! make God help us. However, i agree with Humlej...effective communication is key.
Posted: at 8-03-2010 03:50 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- eoadex2003 at 8-03-2010 03:57 PM (14 years ago)
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not living 2gether bis somehow better
Posted: at 8-03-2010 03:57 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gab-boy at 8-03-2010 04:03 PM (14 years ago)
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I do not see anything wrong with lovers living together provided the love one another. I think time has come when we should consider scrapping this idea that a man and woman shall live together, have and bring up their children only when they are married. Consider a lot of men that cannot afford the expensive marriage rites and white weddings etc. This is 21th century guys, so let us embrace the western style on this one. peace!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: at 8-03-2010 04:03 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- monesty at 8-03-2010 04:34 PM (14 years ago)
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You people are just talking canally biblicaly it's ungodly, unholy and does not glorified God. lets pick it from this angle, asuming 2 lover living together in thier own ignorant and they have do and undo, and at the end of every thing that lady now your future wife ordain by God Himself. What will you do? So living 2geda when not yet married is a TABOO bcos the sister or the brother might not met him or her. so who ever fall victim should think twice.
Posted: at 8-03-2010 04:34 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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