Would You?

Date: 25-11-2008 11:54 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Osituga
[1] 2 3 4 ... 12
- at 25-11-2008 11:54 PM (15 years ago)
(m)
Would you mind if your bf / gf kept pictures of ex in a drawer?

Posted: at 25-11-2008 11:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
- blackberryPearl at 25-11-2008 11:55 PM (15 years ago)
(f)
i would dump their ass as soon as i find out
they need to go back to their ex
there is no two ways about that
Posted: at 25-11-2008 11:55 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- sweetrae at 26-11-2008 01:28 AM (15 years ago)
(f)
i wouldn't mind...
it is only a picture!
Posted: at 26-11-2008 01:28 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- Vixenx at 26-11-2008 01:38 AM (15 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: osituga on 25-11-2008 11:54 PM
Would you mind if your bf / gf kept pictures of ex in a drawer?

What kinda pictures? now i wouldn't mind for an ordinary pic, but why would he keep a naked pic of his ex if we're together? especially if we're living together..its a difference case if we live separately, but i think that's a bit disrespectful to be going through my draws and finding a pic of my ex's naked pic, or don't u think? Sad
Posted: at 26-11-2008 01:38 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply
- blackberryPearl at 26-11-2008 02:01 AM (15 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: sweetrae on 26-11-2008 01:28 AM
i wouldn't mind...
it is only a picture!
r u serious
Posted: at 26-11-2008 02:01 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- blessedchidon at 26-11-2008 06:43 AM (15 years ago)
(m)
just reading, keep posting
Posted: at 26-11-2008 06:43 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- princemech at 26-11-2008 09:15 AM (15 years ago)
(m)
OH SHIT I CANT TOLORATE THAT MESS
Posted: at 26-11-2008 09:15 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- godferyluvs at 26-11-2008 09:21 AM (15 years ago)
(m)
i go follow am drag niiiiiiii
Posted: at 26-11-2008 09:21 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- herdeysohjy at 26-11-2008 11:50 AM (15 years ago)
(m)
that kind thing
Posted: at 26-11-2008 11:50 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- peacetee at 26-11-2008 12:01 PM (15 years ago)
(f)
Feeling insecured can make such things bother u...or lack of trust...

Reality of the matter is, it shouldnt bother u. Even if u ask them to destroy the pictures, which can be done, there is something that cant be destroyed 'memories' .

so in answer to ur question...Nah..it wouldnt bother me. 

Posted: at 26-11-2008 12:01 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- Vixenx at 26-11-2008 12:23 PM (15 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: peacetee on 26-11-2008 12:01 PM
Feeling insecured can make such things bother u...or lack of trust...

Reality of the matter is, it shouldnt bother u. Even if u ask them to destroy the pictures, which can be done, there is something that cant be destroyed 'memories' .

so in answer to ur question...Nah..it wouldnt bother me. 

This has nothing to do with insecurity..it's called RESPECT! And as you can see i specifically said on which terms i would not like it. How would u like to be living in the same house with your boyfriend/girlfriend..and everytime u pull out the draw u see a naked pic of his or her ex? come on now. If he lived elsewhere it would be totally different and i probably wouldn't care, but this is our house that we share, so what would his ex gurl's pic be doing there with us? if he loved  and cherished her so much..why isn't he with her then? don't let love blind you oo, respect is still needed no matter what.
Posted: at 26-11-2008 12:23 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply
- osituga at 26-11-2008 03:15 PM (15 years ago)
(m)
Quote from: vixenx on 26-11-2008 12:23 PM
Quote from: peacetee on 26-11-2008 12:01 PM
Feeling insecured can make such things bother u...or lack of trust...

Reality of the matter is, it shouldnt bother u. Even if u ask them to destroy the pictures, which can be done, there is something that cant be destroyed 'memories' .

so in answer to ur question...Nah..it wouldnt bother me. 

This has nothing to do with insecurity..it's called RESPECT! And as you can see i specifically said on which terms i would not like it. How would u like to be living in the same house with your boyfriend/girlfriend..and everytime u pull out the draw u see a naked pic of his or her ex? come on now. If he lived elsewhere it would be totally different and i probably wouldn't care, but this is our house that we share, so what would his ex gurl's pic be doing there with us? if he loved  and cherished her so much..why isn't he with her then? don't let love blind you oo, respect is still needed no matter what.

So if u get the pics...wat would you do to it?
Posted: at 26-11-2008 03:15 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- peacetee at 26-11-2008 03:32 PM (15 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: vixenx on 26-11-2008 12:23 PM
Quote from: peacetee on 26-11-2008 12:01 PM
Feeling insecured can make such things bother u...or lack of trust...

Reality of the matter is, it shouldnt bother u. Even if u ask them to destroy the pictures, which can be done, there is something that cant be destroyed 'memories' .

so in answer to ur question...Nah..it wouldnt bother me. 

This has nothing to do with insecurity..it's called RESPECT! And as you can see i specifically said on which terms i would not like it. How would u like to be living in the same house with your boyfriend/girlfriend..and everytime u pull out the draw u see a naked pic of his or her ex? come on now. If he lived elsewhere it would be totally different and i probably wouldn't care, but this is our house that we share, so what would his ex gurl's pic be doing there with us? if he loved  and cherished her so much..why isn't he with her then? don't let love blind you oo, respect is still needed no matter what.

Itz all good sis..though im nt sure y u are attacking my comment, as I was only generalising.  I didnt even read ur post, i was just responding to Osi's question...

I do agree with u Respect of course is paramount from both within the r/ship and If it is a naked pic, then  I wouldnt even need to discuss it..the pic goes..that is obviously disrespecting the current relationship...

In retrospect..Osi..u should have told us wot kind of pix..my response wasnt based on an x-rated pix Wink

Posted: at 26-11-2008 03:32 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- macgreat at 26-11-2008 03:54 PM (15 years ago)
(m)
pass

Posted: at 26-11-2008 03:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- osituga at 26-11-2008 03:55 PM (15 years ago)
(m)
pass go where?
Posted: at 26-11-2008 03:55 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- Ihuoma at 26-11-2008 04:03 PM (15 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 25-11-2008 11:55 PM
i would dump their ass as soon as i find out
they need to go back to their ex
there is no two ways about that

That's my girl!!!
You said it!!!

Posted: at 26-11-2008 04:03 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- osituga at 26-11-2008 04:07 PM (15 years ago)
(m)
Quote from: Ihuoma on 26-11-2008 04:03 PM
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 25-11-2008 11:55 PM
i would dump their ass as soon as i find out
they need to go back to their ex
there is no two ways about that

That's my girl!!!
You said it!!!


Means you would do the same?
Posted: at 26-11-2008 04:07 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- Ihuoma at 26-11-2008 04:15 PM (15 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: osituga on 26-11-2008 04:07 PM
Quote from: Ihuoma on 26-11-2008 04:03 PM
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 25-11-2008 11:55 PM
i would dump their ass as soon as i find out
they need to go back to their ex
there is no two ways about that

That's my girl!!!
You said it!!!


Means you would do the same?

Yes; why would he have pictures of his ex....unless he is still thinking about her??

Posted: at 26-11-2008 04:15 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- osituga at 26-11-2008 04:18 PM (15 years ago)
(m)
Quote from: Ihuoma on 26-11-2008 04:15 PM
Quote from: osituga on 26-11-2008 04:07 PM
Quote from: Ihuoma on 26-11-2008 04:03 PM
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 25-11-2008 11:55 PM
i would dump their ass as soon as i find out
they need to go back to their ex
there is no two ways about that

That's my girl!!!
You said it!!!


Means you would do the same?

Yes; why would he have pictures of his ex....unless he is still thinking about her??

Wat bout if the pics is just for remembrance ?
Posted: at 26-11-2008 04:18 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- sa-fire at 26-11-2008 05:25 PM (15 years ago)
(f)
i would mind actually
but dat depends on how near d drawer is to his bed..

Posted: at 26-11-2008 05:25 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
[1] 2 3 4 ... 12