Would you mind if your bf / gf kept pictures of ex in a drawer?
What kinda pictures? now i wouldn't mind for an ordinary pic, but why would he keep a naked pic of his ex if we're together? especially if we're living together..its a difference case if we live separately, but i think that's a bit disrespectful to be going through my draws and finding a pic of my ex's naked pic, or don't u think?
Posted: at 26-11-2008 01:38 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
peacetee at 26-11-2008 12:01 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Feeling insecured can make such things bother u...or lack of trust...
Reality of the matter is, it shouldnt bother u. Even if u ask them to destroy the pictures, which can be done, there is something that cant be destroyed 'memories' .
so in answer to ur question...Nah..it wouldnt bother me.
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Posted: at 26-11-2008 12:01 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Feeling insecured can make such things bother u...or lack of trust...
Reality of the matter is, it shouldnt bother u. Even if u ask them to destroy the pictures, which can be done, there is something that cant be destroyed 'memories' .
so in answer to ur question...Nah..it wouldnt bother me.
This has nothing to do with insecurity..it's called RESPECT! And as you can see i specifically said on which terms i would not like it. How would u like to be living in the same house with your boyfriend/girlfriend..and everytime u pull out the draw u see a naked pic of his or her ex? come on now. If he lived elsewhere it would be totally different and i probably wouldn't care, but this is our house that we share, so what would his ex gurl's pic be doing there with us? if he loved and cherished her so much..why isn't he with her then? don't let love blind you oo, respect is still needed no matter what.
Posted: at 26-11-2008 12:23 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Feeling insecured can make such things bother u...or lack of trust...
Reality of the matter is, it shouldnt bother u. Even if u ask them to destroy the pictures, which can be done, there is something that cant be destroyed 'memories' .
so in answer to ur question...Nah..it wouldnt bother me.
This has nothing to do with insecurity..it's called RESPECT! And as you can see i specifically said on which terms i would not like it. How would u like to be living in the same house with your boyfriend/girlfriend..and everytime u pull out the draw u see a naked pic of his or her ex? come on now. If he lived elsewhere it would be totally different and i probably wouldn't care, but this is our house that we share, so what would his ex gurl's pic be doing there with us? if he loved and cherished her so much..why isn't he with her then? don't let love blind you oo, respect is still needed no matter what.
So if u get the pics...wat would you do to it?
Posted: at 26-11-2008 03:15 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
peacetee at 26-11-2008 03:32 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: vixenx on 26-11-2008 12:23 PM
Quote from: peacetee on 26-11-2008 12:01 PM
Feeling insecured can make such things bother u...or lack of trust...
Reality of the matter is, it shouldnt bother u. Even if u ask them to destroy the pictures, which can be done, there is something that cant be destroyed 'memories' .
so in answer to ur question...Nah..it wouldnt bother me.
This has nothing to do with insecurity..it's called RESPECT! And as you can see i specifically said on which terms i would not like it. How would u like to be living in the same house with your boyfriend/girlfriend..and everytime u pull out the draw u see a naked pic of his or her ex? come on now. If he lived elsewhere it would be totally different and i probably wouldn't care, but this is our house that we share, so what would his ex gurl's pic be doing there with us? if he loved and cherished her so much..why isn't he with her then? don't let love blind you oo, respect is still needed no matter what.
Itz all good sis..though im nt sure y u are attacking my comment, as I was only generalising. I didnt even read ur post, i was just responding to Osi's question...
I do agree with u Respect of course is paramount from both within the r/ship and If it is a naked pic, then I wouldnt even need to discuss it..the pic goes..that is obviously disrespecting the current relationship...
In retrospect..Osi..u should have told us wot kind of pix..my response wasnt based on an x-rated pix
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Posted: at 26-11-2008 03:32 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac