KINGJHOE at 10-05-2011 01:34 PM (12 years ago) (m) IT IS A SOCIAL VALUE....MOST ASIAN COUNTRIES DON'T SEE IT AS AN ISSUE...RATHER A WAY OF LIFE.HOWEVER LADIES IN MIDDLE EAST THAT HAVE LOST THEIR VIRGINITY STILL GO BACK TO HOSPITAL FOR SURGICAL PROCEDURES TO GET THEIR VIRGINITY FIXED BEFORE THEIR WEDDING.HOWEVER BEHIND CLOSE DOORS,80% OF THEM GO FOR ANAL SEX WHILE THEY ARE STILL SINGLE Posted: at 10-05-2011 01:34 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Gbam!..........@ SBI
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 10-05-2011 01:36 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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@BS yes its a pity it is just going to get worst :'( :'( :'( :'(
We'll witness the unimaginable!
Live and let live! Posted: at 10-05-2011 01:37 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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Everybody knows that it's wrong, and still many are doing it!It's against God's laws, against morality and so on! But....we don't have the right to judge! Everybody is free to live their life as they want!
we dont have d right to judge ma sis....this things happens everyday, everywhere.....and d bible says be thy neighbor's keeper and its also said that if thy neighbor is doing wat is bad....it is ur duty to tell him/her that wat he/she is doing is bad cos if anything happens to d person......... Every body is free to live thier lives u say?? cos it has been enthrusted in thier care and u think d life is actually thiers.... This life is a borrowed one and it is high time we live it to give glory to d owner of it This is not gonna happen, because ppl lost the real values! We are going down! u r absolutely right dis days people have lost thier conscience very soon children wiöl b born with no conscience atall , then we will b going back to the generation of sodom and gomorrah where every bad thing is the order of the day right and accepted sodom and gomorrah you said huh?in my own opinion what's we are witnessing right now in this evil world is worst than that of sodom and gomorrah Ehen!
Live and let live! Posted: at 10-05-2011 01:38 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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sobeit at 10-05-2011 01:48 PM (12 years ago) (m) yap! this world is still existing only by God patients through Christ Jesus who died in the cross to bring us unlimited Grace and salvation.that's why God keep extending this world so we could able to take advantage of these free gifts.(from my Christain perspective though) Posted: at 10-05-2011 01:48 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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i do not think it is proper to live with a bf/fiance both morally and religiously. as a christian, am not supposed to do that because there is a 99% chance that it will lead to premarital sex which might lead to unwanted pregnancy,e.t.c. living with him does not even guarantee knowing him better because he might as well hide he true self for the time been. and no, i cant think of a way that this can be stopped it only gets worse...
Uwa thank you buh i would like for everybody to Stop usuing the word getting pregnant while staying wif your man It happens to those that're not staying together...let alone those dat're staying together I only want to hear that from someone who has never known man b4 you hia Posted: at 10-05-2011 02:08 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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Thank u Missy, but lemme ask u this question what happens in d days of mamas and fathers?? Was there anything like dating and getting to know each other b4 d marriage???
I wouldnt be wrong if i say that u are in one way or the other supporting premarital sex
I wasnt saying its a good thing to stay with someone you are not married to...To be sincere ive stayed with ma BF for 3weeks b4 And those 3 weeks was a living hell...And I thank God I did....atleast i have the chance of knowing d kind of monster he was Cos i would have ended up marrying him...and that would have bn a disaster And talking about premarital sex...that one don tey So if you can actually be sleeping with someone you're not married to...I wonder why its soooo bad to stay with him atleast for sometimes.atleast till you're satisfy he's the one Abi na who be virgin hia...apart from me Talking about ur bf...staying with him was out of the way...i will be last to tell u to stay wif ur bf....u could have implore other ways of getting to know him better...but that is by d way now....... talking about premarital sex...I quite agree with u that is has been in voke for God knows ow long But it is not good, God does not like it, It is a sin..... premarital sex and moving in with ur bf/fiance is one thing that shouldnt be done by especially d ladies cos u already assume d wifey role wen u are not one and so many take advantage of this and delay d marriage.... pls let us focus on opinions that will cause a change to our society...... Note: If i could turn back d hands of the clock, my virginity would have been d first thing i would claim and hold tight and if i had knew then wat I know now maybe no man would have cross me until i get married Yeah i understand...am not saying i would do it again, buh i didnt regret what i did And i seconded the virginity thing too ooo If only i could turn back the hands of time :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Dont cry dear...take hankie and wipe ur tears am sorry if i make u cry :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Posted: at 10-05-2011 02:09 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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Reading and Learning.
u berra come here and say something before i loose ma temper ooo meanwhile ow are u dis morning Am good fenx. 9ice topic gurl. Staying or visiting your GF/BF accord one the opportunity of knowing who you are dating or getting married to, It has both Advantages and Disadvantages. I could remember back den in squ my girlfriend house is not too far from my, she suggested to put her house for lease i told her no, dat i cant stand living as couple she thought i was up to something or cos i want to flirt around. I made her realize am human and it weakens relationship. Even after graduation i faced similar situations, i didn't allow any lady to visit me nor spend a night in my father`s house. When i eventually got my own rented apartment men come see style wey my so called chick begin dey take style bring her kaya, She started by she would like to keep few of her things so dat whenever she come visiting so tey her load pass my own wey get the house sef.. It got to a stage i asked her if we eventually get married wetin she wan bring again.lol
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Thank u Missy, but lemme ask u this question what happens in d days of mamas and fathers?? Was there anything like dating and getting to know each other b4 d marriage???
I wouldnt be wrong if i say that u are in one way or the other supporting premarital sex
I wasnt saying its a good thing to stay with someone you are not married to...To be sincere ive stayed with ma BF for 3weeks b4 And those 3 weeks was a living hell...And I thank God I did....atleast i have the chance of knowing d kind of monster he was Cos i would have ended up marrying him...and that would have bn a disaster And talking about premarital sex...that one don tey So if you can actually be sleeping with someone you're not married to...I wonder why its soooo bad to stay with him atleast for sometimes.atleast till you're satisfy he's the one Abi na who be virgin hia...apart from me Talking about ur bf...staying with him was out of the way...i will be last to tell u to stay wif ur bf....u could have implore other ways of getting to know him better...but that is by d way now....... talking about premarital sex...I quite agree with u that is has been in voke for God knows ow long But it is not good, God does not like it, It is a sin..... premarital sex and moving in with ur bf/fiance is one thing that shouldnt be done by especially d ladies cos u already assume d wifey role wen u are not one and so many take advantage of this and delay d marriage.... pls let us focus on opinions that will cause a change to our society...... Note: If i could turn back d hands of the clock, my virginity would have been d first thing i would claim and hold tight and if i had knew then wat I know now maybe no man would have cross me until i get married Yeah i understand...am not saying i would do it again, buh i didnt regret what i did And i seconded the virginity thing too ooo If only i could turn back the hands of time :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Baby stop na, its ok. Your heart is willing but the flesh is Posted: at 10-05-2011 02:12 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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Thank u Missy, but lemme ask u this question what happens in d days of mamas and fathers?? Was there anything like dating and getting to know each other b4 d marriage???
I wouldnt be wrong if i say that u are in one way or the other supporting premarital sex
I wasnt saying its a good thing to stay with someone you are not married to...To be sincere ive stayed with ma BF for 3weeks b4 And those 3 weeks was a living hell...And I thank God I did....atleast i have the chance of knowing d kind of monster he was Cos i would have ended up marrying him...and that would have bn a disaster And talking about premarital sex...that one don tey So if you can actually be sleeping with someone you're not married to...I wonder why its soooo bad to stay with him atleast for sometimes.atleast till you're satisfy he's the one Abi na who be virgin hia...apart from me Talking about ur bf...staying with him was out of the way...i will be last to tell u to stay wif ur bf....u could have implore other ways of getting to know him better...but that is by d way now....... talking about premarital sex...I quite agree with u that is has been in voke for God knows ow long But it is not good, God does not like it, It is a sin..... premarital sex and moving in with ur bf/fiance is one thing that shouldnt be done by especially d ladies cos u already assume d wifey role wen u are not one and so many take advantage of this and delay d marriage.... pls let us focus on opinions that will cause a change to our society...... Note: If i could turn back d hands of the clock, my virginity would have been d first thing i would claim and hold tight and if i had knew then wat I know now maybe no man would have cross me until i get married Yeah i understand...am not saying i would do it again, buh i didnt regret what i did And i seconded the virginity thing too ooo If only i could turn back the hands of time :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( una dey make me laf..well still reading comments. :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Posted: at 10-05-2011 02:15 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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tando at 10-05-2011 02:17 PM (12 years ago) (f) its good and bad. in most cases cohibiters end up without getting married. ur partner will expect you to behave like a real woman (cooking, laundry, cleaning, intercourse etc. He will expect you to be always at home sitting and waiting for him. if you are full time employed and tired, you cant say i'm tired today to cook etc. The best way is that he must pay the bride price if he is really serious. In most cases, when a man wants to marry, he will take someone he does not know. He is so used to to that you even lost your value. The good side is that, you are a free bird. if you have a choice to decide whether to continue staying with him after seeing his true colours. Posted: at 10-05-2011 02:17 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 02:20 PM (12 years ago) (f) MB me i tire for her pics ooo..like say d tin sef na designers
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 10-05-2011 02:20 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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it is wrong for sm peeps and its d normal thing for some peeps. i beg mk i pass
Gbam! Posted: at 10-05-2011 02:21 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 02:23 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 10-05-2011 02:23 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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yap! this world is still existing only by God patients through Christ Jesus who died in the cross to bring us unlimited Grace and salvation.that's why God keep extending this world so we could able to take advantage of these free gifts.(from my Christain perspective though)
Preach it Pastor Posted: at 10-05-2011 02:26 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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tando at 10-05-2011 02:28 PM (12 years ago) (f) passing Posted: at 10-05-2011 02:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ic Posted: at 10-05-2011 02:33 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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