why do gals like marking of territory? (Page 9)

Date: 01-06-2011 10:35 am (13 years ago) | Author: vikkyimoh
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- sophiebaby at 1-06-2011 03:20 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin Grin

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- sophiebaby at 1-06-2011 03:21 PM (13 years ago)
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pls make una no mark teritory again e don do  Grin

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- kebella at 1-06-2011 03:24 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on  1-06-2011 10:46 AM
Its a new trend of stupidity,quite alright!
For God's sake,u're nt married 2 a man until u're married 2 him!
How many bra and pant dem wan leave coz most gals cheat like it's their middle name!
If dem drop all their clothes 4 their BF house,one day,dem go waka naked!
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Posted: at 1-06-2011 03:24 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- naturalqueen at 1-06-2011 03:26 PM (13 years ago)
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If something is urs, i believe u will want  to guard it jealously. So marking your territory as a lady is not bad..so long ur man is not complaining. If he does, that means he is cheating on u....
Posted: at 1-06-2011 03:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 1-06-2011 03:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: naturalqueen on  1-06-2011 03:26 PM
If something is urs, i believe u will want  to guard it jealously. So marking your territory as a lady is not bad..so long ur man is not complaining. If he does, that means he is cheating on u....


Who told you that one ??  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

Posted: at 1-06-2011 03:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 1-06-2011 03:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Imagine!

Posted: at 1-06-2011 03:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Innoutt at 1-06-2011 03:31 PM (13 years ago)
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@ DK see what i mean ?  Grin Grin Grin Grin
Some will do it so that when you as a guy complain they may accuse you of not loving them so much or that u are seeing another lady


Well thats silly games, if girls do that.., i think they're freak !! for example... If my girl will not take me as i am, Will try as much as i can to be honest to her, make sure she lack not even a single time that she requires in our relationship,... and then she decide to play this kinda games, in other to accuse or challenge me when i will decline from that... Then i will quietly show her the exit way to try another place. As of that moment, thats my apartment, and i'm in charge of it......., i will say what i want in my house and what i don't want, I will not argue with her at all, about that... I will make sure the less privileged ones benefit from some of her clothes as a free gift, if she dare disobey me and left them behind.. and she will still go her own way for the accusing me.  

my guy DK, understand this thing, it's nt her playing games with u, na normal thing my brother. nw u will nw tell me that a girl u truly luv can't leave her things in ur house, na u go even beg her to leave them, cos u want to always feel her around, xpecially if na girl wen e be say she knw her boundaries, wen u knw hw u take manage get her, u go come tell her say anytime wen she dey come, mk she dey come with her things, my brother, u no go fit do am.. to make am worse, if she come be the type wen no gree to sleep 4 ur house till dawn b4.. bros mk we leave this thing...


I like your side of view Brother !! and i agree with you on some areas, I don't have to beg my girl to leave her things in my apartment, am i out of my mind, what will that add to our relationship ? No matter how much we claim to Love each other, she's not officially my wife to start packing in her things to my place......... everything has time and season. Like you mentioned if is a girl that knows her boundaries, that means she must be smart enough to know what and what she want, besides i don't think any mature girl in a relationship with a guy, will hesitate to at least sleep over at  the guy's place, some will even come and will not want to go out of love or should i say been worried of missing each other.... You don't have to plead a girl to leave her things in yr place, is not normal... I don't want that.

There are normal things a guy can buy and keep for his girl in case if she came over to spend the night at his place.. things like slippers to wear around the house, Night gowns, shower caps, i don't know what else she want... Really, Personally i don't buy that idea of coming and heap loads of her things in my place... what does that mean ?? is that what you guys call Love ??

Bros!!i agree with u....i guess they will reason properly.

Bro !! I wonder oo, How could a guy be pleading the girl to bring her things and keep in his place ? for what reason ? I wonder how some of us ( MEN ) reason.. is that sign of showing true Love ?? I've never seen this before and will not want such. anything she will leave behind, must be for a good reason or she forget it without knowing, and will definitely pick it up asap !!

Different women get different value and different men with different hunting method . Any time a man is convinced to have seen his choice of woman he will start applying his best hunting method. I am not surprise why men could demand for this. I can do this only when i am sure that i am in such love that can lead to marriage i.e when i am convinced that the road is clear. But no girl can force it on me, no matter how she claim to love me.
Posted: at 1-06-2011 03:31 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 1-06-2011 03:33 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin

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- thowbee at 1-06-2011 03:34 PM (13 years ago)
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am so sorry for anyone that wld even do that to someone like me...........
Posted: at 1-06-2011 03:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- okwas at 1-06-2011 03:36 PM (13 years ago)
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LOL WOMAN ANSWER THAT QUESTION?
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- sobeit at 1-06-2011 03:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  1-06-2011 02:30 PM
Quote from: sobeit on  1-06-2011 02:22 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  1-06-2011 02:14 PM
Quote from: dhowafe on  1-06-2011 02:03 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  1-06-2011 01:43 PM
Quote from: onyiis on  1-06-2011 01:33 PM
@ DK see what i mean ?  Grin Grin Grin Grin
Some will do it so that when you as a guy complain they may accuse you of not loving them so much or that u are seeing another lady


Well thats silly games, if girls do that.., i think they're freak !! for example... If my girl will not take me as i am, Will try as much as i can to be honest to her, make sure she lack not even a single time that she requires in our relationship,... and then she decide to play this kinda games, in other to accuse or challenge me when i will decline from that... Then i will quietly show her the exit way to try another place. As of that moment, thats my apartment, and i'm in charge of it......., i will say what i want in my house and what i don't want, I will not argue with her at all, about that... I will make sure the less privileged ones benefit from some of her clothes as a free gift, if she dare disobey me and left them behind.. and she will still go her own way for the accusing me.  

my guy DK, understand this thing, it's nt her playing games with u, na normal thing my brother. nw u will nw tell me that a girl u truly luv can't leave her things in ur house, na u go even beg her to leave them, cos u want to always feel her around, xpecially if na girl wen e be say she knw her boundaries, wen u knw hw u take manage get her, u go come tell her say anytime wen she dey come, mk she dey come with her things, my brother, u no go fit do am.. to make am worse, if she come be the type wen no gree to sleep 4 ur house till dawn b4.. bros mk we leave this thing...


I like your side of view Brother !! and i agree with you on some areas, I don't have to beg my girl to leave her things in my apartment, am i out of my mind, what will that add to our relationship ? No matter how much we claim to Love each other, she's not officially my wife to start packing in her things to my place......... everything has time and season. Like you mentioned if is a girl that knows her boundaries, that means she must be smart enough to know what and what she want, besides i don't think any mature girl in a relationship with a guy, will hesitate to at least sleep over at  the guy's place, some will even come and will not want to go out of love or should i say been worried of missing each other.... You don't have to plead a girl to leave her things in yr place, is not normal... I don't want that.

There are normal things a guy can buy and keep for his girl in case if she came over to spend the night at his place.. things like slippers to wear around the house, Night gowns, shower caps, i don't know what else she want... Really, Personally i don't buy that idea of coming and heap loads of her things in my place... what does that mean ?? is that what you guys call Love ??

Bros!!i agree with u....i guess they will reason properly.

Bro !! I wonder oo, How could a guy be pleading the girl to bring her things and keep in his place ? for what reason ? I wonder how some of us ( MEN ) reason.. is that sign of showing true Love ?? I've never seen this before and will not want such. anything she will leave behind, must be for a good reason or she forget it without knowing, and will definitely pick it up asap !!

Bro! u said u haven't seen b4..that's properly u didn't grown up in naija...what the poster posted here is common (or more)  with some ladies back home..well all depends from individuals..if you got your own policy and stand firm on it..it will never happen to you..there are certain circumstances that could be tolerated but not 'purposely'...any responsible ladies that embarked in such cheap trick of trying to mark some kind of territory,will suddenly loose respect from her guy..cuz it's just a sign of desperation which shouldn't be condone
Posted: at 1-06-2011 03:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 1-06-2011 03:42 PM (13 years ago)
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men wey hate dirty pants are talking

Posted: at 1-06-2011 03:42 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- interpo77 at 1-06-2011 03:45 PM (13 years ago)
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am remembering those days, if u stupidly mark ur territory in  ma houx,
i will gently remark it for u, r u payin ma houx 4 me?
Posted: at 1-06-2011 03:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- thowbee at 1-06-2011 03:47 PM (13 years ago)
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besides marking a territory shows ur lack of confidence in ur stand in the guys life as a whole...thats serious desperation and shld not be taken lightly.......any girl that exhibits such traits.....is better off alone cuz.....Confidence in oneself goes a very long way..................I will dump any gurl that tries that wit me........besides... u leave ur underwear dun mean jack to me.......
Posted: at 1-06-2011 03:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Innoutt at 1-06-2011 03:51 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: thowbee on  1-06-2011 03:34 PM
am so sorry for anyone that wld even do that to someone like me...........

easier said than done. actually, some like ice cream so much but they don't like the cup around their vicinity. territory marking is for security purpose and it is necessary where there is a clear boundary for the sake of peace. ladies should wait for the man to take the lead b/cos two cannot walk together except they agree. tha's how it is done in africa anyways. Undecided Undecided Undecided
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- dirtykid at 1-06-2011 03:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  1-06-2011 03:42 PM
men wey hate Sophie's dirty pants are talking

But i don't even wear pants.  Grin Grin

Posted: at 1-06-2011 03:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- thowbee at 1-06-2011 03:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Innoutt on  1-06-2011 03:51 PM
Quote from: thowbee on  1-06-2011 03:34 PM
am so sorry for anyone that wld even do that to someone like me...........

easier said than done. actually, some like ice cream so much but they don't like the cup around their vicinity. territory marking is for security purpose and it is necessary where there is a clear boundary for the sake of peace. ladies should wait for the man to take the lead b/cos two cannot walk together except they agree. tha's how it is done in africa anyways. Undecided Undecided Undecided

looks like u don't get it...am sorry for any gurl who wld wanna keep her stuffs in ma house.................I will jus dump her ass....without even thinking for a millisec...............You have got to be confident all the time....Know urself and knw ur worth....simple....
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- dirtykid at 1-06-2011 03:55 PM (13 years ago)
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 Cool Cool

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- sobeit at 1-06-2011 03:57 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: thowbee on  1-06-2011 03:47 PM
besides marking a territory shows ur lack of confidence in ur stand in the guys life as a whole...thats serious desperation and shld not be taken lightly.......any girl that exhibits such traits.....is better off alone cuz.....Confidence in oneself goes a very long way..................I will dump any gurl that tries that wit me........besides... u leave ur underwear dun mean jack to me.......

tell them
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- waco at 1-06-2011 03:58 PM (13 years ago)
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i was here to applogies to my sophie

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