The lady is very Greedy to have stayed with him after knowing he is involved in drugs...
Who Jah Blessed, No Man Cursed...... | Posted: at 20-06-2011 12:04 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Innoutt") Innoutt at 20-06-2011 12:14 AM (12 years ago)  (m) I am thinking She is still in the marriage bcuz of the money flowing but she dont like his kind of biz
she need to make up her mind on wat she wanted and stick to it
TRUE. She loves the money and good life. No question about that.
It does not matter that it is "dirty" money. And that the drug her man is peddling
will ruin people's lives. She pretends she cares but deep down really don't.
She lives for the moment and pretends there is no tomorrow.
She thinks like HOPEA23....that black men risk it
dan Fulani I DISAGREE WITH YOU FOR IGNORING THE STORY AND JUDGING BY IMAGINATION. STOP JUMPING INTO CONCLUSION BY GUESSING;JUST LEAVING THE WHOLE STORY AND TAKING THE WHOLE TIME TO DEFEND THE LAW THAT DOES NOT SPARE ANYBODY NOR NEED OUR HELP, AND IT'S NOT PRESENTED TO YOU. WHETHER YOU REMIND HIM OR NOT, IN DUE TIME THE RESULT MUST COME WITHOUT ANY PERSONS PERMISSION OR PRAYER. IF YOU STILL HAVE TIME, YOU CAN ADDRESS HER AS SOMEBODY THAT HAVE PROBLEM AND LEAVE THE CONSEQUENCES FOR GOD, TIME AND LAW TO JUDGE. WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO GIVE OUR BEST BEFORE WE CAN LEAVE THE REST TO NEMESIS.  | Posted: at 20-06-2011 12:14 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Innoutt") Innoutt at 20-06-2011 12:34 AM (12 years ago) (m) Na Long throat Keep the Woman there... No other Excuse
As for the Things We do for Money, people do what Their Hearts Allow them
Thank you for being honest. GREED is the word. She love da money!
Just as the guy (boyfriend) is not a good role model to anyone, she too
is not a person to look up to. She did have sex and get pregnant for a
criminal. If he is good enough to have a baby for, while not marry the
criminal/drug dealer? She too lacks some good character traits.
Remember the saying " birds of the same feather fly together"
She could be a good woman..but we are yet to see any good judgement
from her. Okay..she worries about her family/child...but why stay with a
criminal. She is privy to the fact he is a drug dealer ......................
dan fulani SOME TIMES, SOME EVIL DOERS WILL HAVE A CHANGE OF HEART TO STOP THEIR EVIL AND MAKE A CHANGE, BUT SOME MORALIST WHO HAVE NEVER SINNED WILL BE A GREAT PROBLEM FOR THEM B/COS THEY HAVE NEVER EXPERIENCED SUCH CHANGE ALL THROUGH THEIR LIFE, AND THEY NEVER MAKE TIME TO REASON ON THE POSSIBILITY OF SUCH CHANGE OTHER THAN MAINTAINING THEIR RIGHTEOUS WAYS WITHOUT MINDING ANYBODY. THIS IS ANOTHER PROBLEM FOR EVIL DOERS; NOT KNOWING HOW TO GET OUT OF THEIR PROBLEM AS SOME WOULD WANT TO STOP AND BE FREE, WITHOUT CREATING PROBLEM FOR THEMSELVES. THE QUESTION IS WHAT (intelligent) quotient IS THIS LADY ASKING FOR IN OTHER TO SOLVE HER PUZZLE WITHOUT HURTING HER BABY AND BECOMING THE 'SUSPECTABLE' BETRAYAL OF THE DRUG DEALER THAT MADE HER A LUCKY WOMAN WITH HUSBAND. I SEE A PROBLEM HERE.  | Posted: at 20-06-2011 12:34 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "LOYOLAR") LOYOLAR at 20-06-2011 12:44 AM (12 years ago) (m) You sure say your friend really wanted the guy to stop? Sebi the money dey flow nah? If she realy wanted the guy to stop and the guy didn't stop, she could have left before kasala go burst. | Posted: at 20-06-2011 12:44 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Innoutt") Innoutt at 20-06-2011 12:46 AM (12 years ago) (m) Nobody can be a black man just bcos he is a heartless criminal. You are wrong if that is you definition of black. i guess you want to stir-up mixed reactions.  | Posted: at 20-06-2011 12:46 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Innoutt") Innoutt at 20-06-2011 12:50 AM (12 years ago) (m) No crime has ever been committed in the area of love for another  But where the issue of drugs are involved to secure extra money then it becomes a problem..  Drug business is highly profitable i must say but the repercussions are not worthy to bare unfortunately As for moi staying in a relationship with a guy who has his hands soiled wouldn't be best i don't want my licence to practice to be revoked | Posted: at 20-06-2011 12:50 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Innoutt") Innoutt at 20-06-2011 01:19 AM (12 years ago) (m) You sure say your friend really wanted the guy to stop? Sebi the money dey flow nah? If she realy wanted the guy to stop and the guy didn't stop, she could have left before kasala go burst.
Not my friend though, but 'K A S A L A' is certainly going to borse sooner or later and nobody can confirm how sincere the lady's story is and it is wrong to make justice by guess, hence it is better to address the story if there is such concern and leave their head-arch for them. She claim that the man refused to stop, and she want to be free without making her baby a victim of divorce-trauma. And she is not convinced to rush into divorce yet. SHE IS IN NEED OF HUSBAND UNLIKE OTHER LADIES. Nobody know her mind so it's better to follow her story. Nobody is praying that the drug dealer should continue till the consequences come!. Frankly speaking i wish him change of heart so he can be a responsible father, good husband, and good meaning of manhood. But his child's mother is not comfortable!!!!!!!!!!! | Posted: at 20-06-2011 01:19 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 20-06-2011 08:49 AM (12 years ago) (f) She shuld keep on disturbing d dude until he gives up | Posted: at 20-06-2011 08:49 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ajanni") ajanni at 20-06-2011 09:05 AM (12 years ago) (m) Hell nah...I told him once he didn't listen ..so the best thing is walk out...as a humble being I'm don't like wahala.
very good of you | Posted: at 20-06-2011 09:05 AM (12 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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![-]( "2slimshady") 2slimshady at 20-06-2011 10:58 AM (12 years ago) (f) When she talked to the guy and he promised to stop and he didnt stop,she was too quick to have a baby for the guy despite the fact that she loves the guy,but this question should have come earlier than this,now a baby is involved. Why does she needs any advice now? does she want the baby to be raise in a broken home? she should have known what to do | Posted: at 20-06-2011 10:58 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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My friend started dating this guy 4 yrs ago, they lived together for 2 months
when she found out d guy is into drug business. She told him she no like tins like dat but they both agreed
one day he wud stop. After 1.5 yrs she born their first child, the guy is working but still cant stand
the temptation of dat drug money. She is concerned abt the problems this tin can bring and wants him
to stop before anytin worse happen, he refuse to listen.
Guys --> Can u bring ur family in such danger? If ur short in cash, this will b ur solution to d problem?
Ladies --> Can u stay with a guy like dis?
NO, I cannot take that risk and bring such danger to my family.
No amount of money is worth that risk. It is a one way ticket to
self destruction. It would bring down the whole family and everyone
associated with the dealer. Riches from dealing in drugs never last
long and always ends badly.
In some countries drug dealers are executed, in others they go to jail
for a long time. Consider the shame and dishonor a drug dealer
brings to the family.
No, I cannot be short of cash. I made sure of that by staying in school
and obtaining good education and marketable skills to provide for my family.
dan fulani | Posted: at 20-06-2011 11:20 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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lol e got nottin to do wit d color naaa  | Posted: at 20-06-2011 11:21 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Na Long throat Keep the Woman there... No other Excuse
As for the Things We do for Money, people do what Their Hearts Allow them
She is there bcos she loves him.....she no lack money (rich parents)Then Dat's What l Call Stupid Love People like dat are the Ones dat Give this Love thing all the Embarrassing Names it has attached to it | Posted: at 20-06-2011 11:22 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Ilegal quick money making is very tempting and difficult to quit till the criminal is caught and given a long term punishment. She has been enjoying the benefit of that deal right from the begining of her relationship with the guy, she could have quit ealier than now, why not before? why now? She kept herself in that relationship because of the money she was getting from the guy. At this point in time, She has a choice to make despite having kid 4 the man, if the man refuses to stop, she should quit or else she will be punish along with her criminal lover when the consequenses visit them.
Dats true, it is too tempting to stop. Even he got busted already a few times b4
he still dusn care abt d risk involved. Well mayb he does care but he no just wan stop.
She rily love d guy u knw, dats why she wanted to hav a child frm him, thinkin he wud do wht he promissed. | Posted: at 20-06-2011 11:24 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Obviously the guy doesn't think at the consequences of his actions, so..NO,I could never stay with such a person!
I pity the woman, she moved their relationship to the next level,just full of hope,which in this case,it was a mistake!  She was exactly full of hope dat everytin wud just work out fine, and for him being
a father he wud realise to stop this nonesense....but he didn. | Posted: at 20-06-2011 11:26 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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No crime has ever been committed in the area of love for another But where the issue of drugs are involved to secure extra money then it becomes a problem.. Drug business is highly profitable i must say but the repercussions are not worthy to bare unfortunately As for moi staying in a relationship with a guy who has his hands soiled wouldn't be best i don't want my licence to practice to be revoked  | Posted: at 20-06-2011 11:26 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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My friend started dating this guy 4 yrs ago, they lived together for 2 months
when she found out d guy is into drug business. She told him she no like tins like dat but they both agreed
one day he wud stop. After 1.5 yrs she born their first child, the guy is working but still cant stand
the temptation of dat drug money. She is concerned abt the problems this tin can bring and wants him
to stop before anytin worse happen, he refuse to listen.
Guys --> Can u bring ur family in such danger? If ur short in cash, this will b ur solution to d problem?
Ladies --> Can u stay with a guy like dis?
NO, I cannot take that risk and bring such danger to my family.
No amount of money is worth that risk. It is a one way ticket to
self destruction. It would bring down the whole family and everyone
associated with the dealer. Riches from dealing in drugs never last
long and always ends badly.
In some countries drug dealers are executed, in others they go to jail
for a long time. Consider the shame and dishonor a drug dealer
brings to the family.
No, I cannot be short of cash. I made sure of that by staying in school
and obtaining good education and marketable skills to provide for my family.
dan fulani You have a nice concern for family image and recommendable respect for the law but it is doubtful if you can hear the cry of a baby which is presented as the boil-in-the-neck for the lady if i av followed the story right. She is already in danger now but she is concerned for her baby and she don't want to rush divorce. I think she is asking for prudent advice to handle the simultaneous-equation and come out without hurting her child.  | Posted: at 20-06-2011 11:28 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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my name is kebella ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 20-06-2011 11:28 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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