8 Mistakes Women Make When They Are In Love

There are Crazy things women do to mess up their love lives, but they can avoid them by following some simple advice:



1. LIVE YOUR LIFE THROUGH YOUR MAN:
Women who let a man control the relationship eventually feel cheated and angry. Be the best you can be in your own right. You need to take a stand for things in your life, and in the relationship that you want. Do not wrap your whole life around his.

2. SETTLING FOR A MAN:
Desperate women settle for any man. Do not settle for anyone less than you deserve. It may take longer to find the right guy but you will not be stuck with a fool. Do not act desperate, good men can smell the desperation kms away. Just be confident, be yourself and believe that the right man will come along, because he will.

3. CONFUSING PASSION FOR LOVE:
Too many women have sex out of a feeling of emptiness or hunger for approval. The result: Disaster. Sex too soon can make you feel worthless. Wait and choose a partner you have gotten to like as a person first. Men actually like women MORE if they withhold sex for a while because they deem you Marriage material. No man wants to get involved in a serious relationship with an EASY woman.



4. DO NOT LIVE TOGETHER BEFORE MARRIAGE:
Yeah, this sounds old school, outdated and crazy. Couples who live together before marriage are one third more likely to break up within 10 years. Wait until the two of you know, love and respect each other. Then get married. Make a commitment, then move in. Do not move in without the commitment.

5. EXPECTING TOO MUCH FROM A MAN:
Women with low self esteem expect marriage to bring total fulfillment. But they are doomed to disappointment when Prince Charming does not meet expectations. Choose a compatible mate, not a man you think will solve your problems. Ask any married woman. Men can not, and do not, solve all your problems.

6. HAVING A BABY FOR THE WRONG REASON:
Women who have a child to fix a broken relationship often become trapped with a man they should dump. Make an intelligent decision about having a child. You have the power over you own body. Do NOT have a baby just to keep a man in a relationship with you. That spells DOOM and DISASTER.

7. HAVING LOW STANDARDS:
Over the years the standards and requirements of Women have lowered. Men know that and have taken advantage of it. Many women do not require anything of a man. So many standards have been lowered by women that now a man does not have to climb over a very high bar to get to her. So now you have more men who can get away with more things with more women without any repercussions. Do not accept less than you deserve. And you deserve everything.

8. NOT LOVING YOURSELF:
Many women sacrifice everything just to please a man, whether its your Boyfriend or Husband. Learn to place yourself first in life and be happy first before transferring the happiness to someone else. Dont live your life for someone else. Life is short, you need to be happy.

Posted: at 9-09-2012 05:11 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

You are right!

Posted: at 9-09-2012 07:19 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Women, women , womemw. Abeg talk abt men for once. Boring

Posted: at 9-09-2012 07:49 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

NEXT

Posted: at 9-09-2012 09:30 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

WHAT ABOUT MEN??

Posted: at 9-09-2012 09:56 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

Noted.....

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Posted: at 10-09-2012 12:51 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

SEEN

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Posted: at 10-09-2012 05:31 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

Good....Number 4 is very wrong......advisable to couple to sleep in the same house for even 3 days or a week(NOT SEX).....people fake by using makeup..nd stuff but if you live in the same house you see your partner for who they are....its better that taking Divorce later

Posted: at 10-09-2012 07:12 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

intrestn

Posted: at 10-09-2012 10:14 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

True Talk.

Posted: at 10-09-2012 10:39 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie