Am i scared of relationship?

Pals,dis is what is happening to me rigth now.I met dis girl a day b4 yesterday in a bar,wit her group of frendz.I waz also wit my frendz,at about 17:59:00 hr.Throughout my stay in dat place,dis gal was wtching me.Whn i went to d mens room to deposit some gas,she followd me,and after much we exchangd numba.She called me yestaday,tellin me to meet her in dat same bar,i posted her.She called me today again,she said she wantd to c me.We hanged out today,she told me dat she just picked interest in my composure and my calmness in d bar,dat she like us to start up a r/shp.Menh,my mind flashd back t wht i went through in d handz of my ex.I told her am nt comfortable wit dis her request.She said she is serious.1 similar tin about us,is dat she is a banker,and me also.

But,1 scary thing now,is dat whneva she callz me,my mind'll skip and i'll start thinking dat females r all dsame.Plz,pals i need Ur advice b4 my past'll eat me up.Am get scared of d whole situation.Tel me somtin plz..!

Posted: at 19-04-2009 09:17 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

buchyno whats up nao?

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Posted: at 19-04-2009 10:18 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

give her a trail if you care

Posted: at 19-04-2009 10:35 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

brb or ask me later

Posted: at 19-04-2009 11:37 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

Posted: at 17-01-2010 09:45 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

this is always the problem with immaturity,

 entering relationship immatured and still coming out of one immatured, for God sake kido, what did u learn in the

last r-ship?

u sound really immatured,

 cos u cant tell us that u entered a relationship and came out of it still immatured, and nothing learned,

 THIS IS THE PROBLEM OF GOING INTO R-SHIP FOR SOME EMOTIONAL THING OR JUST TO phyuk OR JUST TO FEEL SOCIALLY COMPATIBLE,

look guy, its a terrible thing coming here to say whether u want anoda girl or not to, cos u just wasted all the lectures in the first one and now u dnt know what to do now anoda second opportunity just cameby,

Alrite enuf of the screaming come closer , draw ur seat nearer lets talk gospel now, cos no truth outside it


look my advice for u is to take a break and go and fast and pray and read the bible and get some grace and wisdom again, oh u wanna just jump out of this line, hey!!! hangon cos i wanna save ur life, so roll with me like we r on eammeus trip nigga

read the whole of Proverbs in the holy bible 3 times, bocs u have dropped the bible aside when entering an r-ship,

and the bible says "...in all thy getting(whether a chic or job) get wisdom..", so now u hav conceded one zero(1-0) in the game, go back to school of r-ship and learn,

 u graduated prematuredly and now u hav been beaten by the Ladies Football club of Nigeria(LFC),

 u ignored all ur coach advices and instruction which is the Bible n the Holy Spirit, now u look like a chicken just saved from a well.

Boi, come back to school, rite now am 26yrs, still  a virgin male,never dated, till i graduate, still in the university

of life and relationships, never hurrying till i grauduate, and i tell u even now not yet graduated, i can handle any relationship to any level and in any terrain, still yet i wanna learn more,

so boy, take a break and learn else it will be 2-0 against u, this  advice is from one that loves u.

Posted: at 17-01-2010 02:16 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

HAHAHAHA...abeg make ur past nor eat u up O!
One thing you must know is that all girls are not thesame;we have the good,
the bad and the ugly...Another thing you must know that nothing good comes
easy.OK it all depends if she loves you and you love her;love can lie at times
but feelings don't lie that i can assure you...If it is not lust then carry on but
watch carefully how it goes!!!

Posted: at 17-01-2010 02:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

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Posted: at 19-01-2010 07:59 AM (15 years ago) | Hero

though all ladies are not d same, but u just have 2 be wise...

Posted: at 19-01-2010 11:53 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

if u scared it means u r not ready,or u r a shy guy..try to mix with ppl and communicate u can see her and try treat her as ya friend first till ya shy will less...if she like u..she will even like as u shy small :-)

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Posted: at 19-01-2010 02:11 PM (15 years ago) | Hero