Am i scared of relationship? (Page 2)

Pals,dis is what is happening to me rigth now.I met dis girl a day b4 yesterday in a bar,wit her group of frendz.I waz also wit my frendz,at about 17:59:00 hr.Throughout my stay in dat place,dis gal was wtching me.Whn i went to d mens room to deposit some gas,she followd me,and after much we exchangd numba.She called me yestaday,tellin me to meet her in dat same bar,i posted her.She called me today again,she said she wantd to c me.We hanged out today,she told me dat she just picked interest in my composure and my calmness in d bar,dat she like us to start up a r/shp.Menh,my mind flashd back t wht i went through in d handz of my ex.I told her am nt comfortable wit dis her request.She said she is serious.1 similar tin about us,is dat she is a banker,and me also.
But,1 scary thing now,is dat whneva she callz me,my mind'll skip and i'll start thinking dat females r all dsame.Plz,pals i need Ur advice b4 my past'll eat me up.Am get scared of d whole situation.Tel me somtin plz..!