A woman married to a man and they have stayed for 8 years with no issue.
Suddenly, the company where the man works decided to send him abroad for further training while leaving the woman behind.
A day came when her friend took her out to party. In the course of the scene, she met her old boyfriend who was also married but with kids and some chemistry was drawn between them.
And when the party was at its peak, the woman wasn’t herself and went high to Kilimanjaro after she’d drank to stupor and the man (her ex) seeing that she was at Kilimanjaro decided to take her to Jerusalem for no good reason.
After 3 month, she felt strange and decided to call the ex. Both of them went to the hospital where the doctor confirmed to them that she is 3 month pregnant.
Her ex-boyfriend didn’t hesitate in telling her he want to keep the baby and possibly having her in his life. (Whereas, he already has a wife with children behind)
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Now her husband will be returning back to the country this coming June.
What advice do you have for her or if you were in her shoe, what would you do?
To bear the dangers of aborting the baby knowing fully well that the ex- wouldn’t welcome it?
To bear and keep the baby just for yourself or keeping the baby for both you and your ex or for you and your awaiting husband?
Common sense is indeed not common.
Posted: at 9-05-2013 11:42 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
Shydaimma at 10-05-2013 12:38 AM (10 years ago) (f)
Sad story bt interestin. Abortion is out of this, she shouldn't even think of it . The best thing to do is to wait on the husband and tell him what exactly happened, confess to her husband. As for her ex, he is married with kids. That she is pregnant for him doesn't mean she should come between him and his wife and kids. If the husband comes back and ve heard the whole story, is up to him to decide if he wanna take the woman and the child or throw her out. If he throws the woman out, I pray for her for God's strenght in carryin the baby and raising it. Ofcourse the father of the child (her ex) can assits but she shouldn't come between him and his wife and kids. She should beg her husband day and night who knows he might have change of heart. She shouldnt just go after been thrown out, she should keep comin and begging for forgiveness. Some men no matter how much they love their wife, will react aggressively. But that doesnt mean they dont love their wife. So beggin him can change his heart. Some will relunctantly refuse to accept her and the baby. Well men are different. Let her just wait and see wht her husby will do.
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Posted: at 10-05-2013 12:38 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
Jeninflower at 10-05-2013 01:37 AM (10 years ago) (f)
D first comment have said it all.d only option is for her to wait for her hubby to dicede,den she can no wat's up to her.is some how sad.i just wish her gud luck
Posted: at 10-05-2013 01:37 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
Biafranwar at 10-05-2013 01:41 AM (10 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Shydaimma on 10-05-2013 12:38 AM
Sad story bt interestin. Abortion is out of this, she shouldn't even think of it . The best thing to do is to wait on the husband and tell him what exactly happened, confess to her husband. As for her ex, he is married with kids. That she is pregnant for him doesn't mean she should come between him and his wife and kids. If the husband comes back and ve heard the whole story, is up to him to decide if he wanna take the woman and the child or throw her out. If he throws the woman out, I pray for her for God's strenght in carryin the baby and raising it. Ofcourse the father of the child (her ex) can assits but she shouldn't come between him and his wife and kids. She should beg her husband day and night who knows he might have change of heart. She shouldnt just go after been thrown out, she should keep comin and begging for forgiveness. Some men no matter how much they love their wife, will react aggressively. But that doesnt mean they dont love their wife. So beggin him can change his heart. Some will relunctantly refuse to accept her and the baby. Well men are different. Let her just wait and see wht her husby will do.
You are really interesting, from your advise I can feel the level of your maturity. God bless u
Posted: at 10-05-2013 01:41 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
adebukilomo at 10-05-2013 02:30 AM (10 years ago) (f)
She should not even consider abortion as an option,I pray d husband understand and look at d better side of things,who knows after this they might start aving there own children. And even if not,d child should be given love as theirs',,after all couple adopt children they don't even have any idea of the source,,woman brazen up,d deed is done,stay healthy to av ur baby alive,,God help u.
Posted: at 10-05-2013 02:30 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
kingcalors at 10-05-2013 04:33 AM (10 years ago) (m)
The legal husband should buy the ex- boyfriend a Brand new jeep, build a house for him in VI and beg him with a cheque of 20 million Naira because what he couldnt achieve within 8 solid years, her ex did it within a twinkle of an eye. The ex should reluctantly accept all these and allow a sleeping LION to ..... bcos these gifts are on a platter of aluminum
Posted: at 10-05-2013 04:33 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sweat3107 at 10-05-2013 04:34 AM (10 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Shydaimma on 10-05-2013 12:38 AM
Sad story bt interestin. Abortion is out of this, she shouldn't even think of it . The best thing to do is to wait on the husband and tell him what exactly happened, confess to her husband. As for her ex, he is married with kids. That she is pregnant for him doesn't mean she should come between him and his wife and kids. If the husband comes back and ve heard the whole story, is up to him to decide if he wanna take the woman and the child or throw her out. If he throws the woman out, I pray for her for God's strenght in carryin the baby and raising it. Ofcourse the father of the child (her ex) can assits but she shouldn't come between him and his wife and kids. She should beg her husband day and night who knows he might have change of heart. She shouldnt just go after been thrown out, she should keep comin and begging for forgiveness. Some men no matter how much they love their wife, will react aggressively. But that doesnt mean they dont love their wife. So beggin him can change his heart. Some will relunctantly refuse to accept her and the baby. Well men are different. Let her just wait and see wht her husby will do.
These are the type of people we need in our lives.people that can give you good advice.Shydaimma you are a genius.keep it up.Regards.
Posted: at 10-05-2013 04:34 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
She shld keep d baby. Abortion is not an option for somebody luking for baby for 8yrs . Wen husband cums bak, she shld tell him to go for check up to kn if he is d one dat can't perform cus d man family mite be thinking she is d one not knowning its their son.
Posted: at 10-05-2013 06:40 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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