![-]( "pepigambit") pepigambit at 9-06-2009 06:29 PM (15 years ago)  (m) ok..nice one .........gudluk
is not something am gonna major in is just a class that invited me. A.P(advanced Placement). so i know stuff i don't wanna know
ain no stuff u dont wan na know...u shlda quit if u didnt wan knw dem...any way.......no knowledge is a waste sha.....look how we need it on naijapals.......u know | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:29 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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lol am gonna be honest, u made my day today. am gonna have to write it down in my diary.  | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:29 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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ok..nice one .........gudluk
is not something am gonna major in is just a class that invited me. A.P(advanced Placement). so i know stuff i don't wanna know ain no stuff u dont wan na know...u shlda quit if u didnt wan knw dem...any way.......no knowledge is a waste sha.....look how we need it on naijapals.......u know i guess u can say that. why r u all of a sudden being nice?  | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:30 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "jmobbz") jmobbz at 9-06-2009 06:32 PM (15 years ago) (m) long-term relationships is not good if u want to have any relationship 1yrs is okey and get married but 3 to 6yrs relationship is bad
nah dude...that's not really true in my opinion or maybe its the way you phrased it. Being in a relationship for a long time is actually productive...it gives u an idea of how marriage would be like. There's actually nothing bad about being together for 3 years+...However, a relationship is always meant to grow...so if after 6 years, it hasn't evolved into marriage atleast...then yea, there's an issue there. is called "they r tired of each other"
and honestly speaking, i don't have an answer for u.
hope that never happens to me
tired of each other? well...yea I can see how but that sucks....Again, truly, its not something they cant fix if they really want to...and Also, I hope that doesnt happen to me (never has...and hopefully never will). is called when the "SPARK" disappears. they start getting bored of each other, and they look for ways to get out of the relationship. and if that includes cheating, they do it Still doesn't add up to me....Relationships to me aren't simply about the "Spark"...the whole point of a relationship is creating a process that eventually leads to one thing--Marriage. That's how its always been...and thats why God created it. It's just nowadays that people abuse the point of relationships and now relationships have become a way for ppl to have regular sex with some1 and/or pass time. Now...this topic was about long-term relationships.. not 2 or 3 week relationships. why would someone stay in a relationship for 2 years if the "spark" isn't there. People have to understand that the whole "omg...ur the bestest boyfriend in the world blah blah" is not forever. That feeling comes and goes. There are good times when u feel like that....then there are horrible times where u feel like ur boyfriend is an A*#S. What Im trying to say is that people are suppose to DEAL with both times...not run away when the going gets too rough. and as for psychology...I took several psychology classes...as well as 3 Sociology classes including 1 Sex and Culture 3rd level Anthropology class. Currently a 3rd year junior in University. | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:32 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "SAmyrocko") SAmyrocko at 9-06-2009 06:33 PM (15 years ago) (m) lol am gonna be honest, u made my day today. am gonna have to write it down in my diary. OH MY!. WOW! UR WELCOME. nwannem nwanyi 
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:33 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "pepigambit") pepigambit at 9-06-2009 06:35 PM (15 years ago) (m) have i bein oder wise.......neva meant to b doe if i had.............hey u | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:35 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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long-term relationships is not good if u want to have any relationship 1yrs is okey and get married but 3 to 6yrs relationship is bad
nah dude...that's not really true in my opinion or maybe its the way you phrased it. Being in a relationship for a long time is actually productive...it gives u an idea of how marriage would be like. There's actually nothing bad about being together for 3 years+...However, a relationship is always meant to grow...so if after 6 years, it hasn't evolved into marriage atleast...then yea, there's an issue there. is called "they r tired of each other"
and honestly speaking, i don't have an answer for u.
hope that never happens to me
tired of each other? well...yea I can see how but that sucks....Again, truly, its not something they cant fix if they really want to...and Also, I hope that doesnt happen to me (never has...and hopefully never will). is called when the "SPARK" disappears. they start getting bored of each other, and they look for ways to get out of the relationship. and if that includes cheating, they do it Still doesn't add up to me....Relationships to me aren't simply about the "Spark"...the whole point of a relationship is creating a process that eventually leads to one thing--Marriage. That's how its always been...and thats why God created it. It's just nowadays that people abuse the point of relationships and now relationships have become a way for ppl to have regular sex with some1 and/or pass time. Now...this topic was about long-term relationships.. not 2 or 3 week relationships. why would someone stay in a relationship for 2 years if the "spark" isn't there. People have to understand that the whole "omg...ur the bestest boyfriend in the world blah blah" is not forever. That feeling comes and goes. There are good times when u feel like that....then there are horrible times where u feel like ur boyfriend is an A*#S. What Im trying to say is that people are suppose to DEAL with both times...not run away when the going gets too rough. and as for psychology...I took several psychology classes...as well as 3 Sociology classes including 1 Sex and Culture 3rd level Anthropology class. Currently a 3rd year junior in University. Remeber, that first person will not always be "IT"(the one). there are trials and errors in life, which includes in relationships. maybe u guys got together because of something about her /him u just couldn't resist. it fades away as time goes on, and u guys wanna just take a break. is called life. | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:37 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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lol am gonna be honest, u made my day today. am gonna have to write it down in my diary. OH MY!. WOW! UR WELCOME. nwannem nwanyi that means my sister in Igbo right? well, is my pleasure anytime . and Boy i've been shaking sticking and moving trying to get to u and that booty  | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:38 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "pepigambit") pepigambit at 9-06-2009 06:40 PM (15 years ago) (m) uuhh | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:40 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "SAmyrocko") SAmyrocko at 9-06-2009 06:41 PM (15 years ago) (m) Bad pikin
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:41 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "pepigambit") pepigambit at 9-06-2009 06:42 PM (15 years ago) (m) ............... | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:42 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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u think? i know | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:43 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "SAmyrocko") SAmyrocko at 9-06-2009 06:44 PM (15 years ago) (m) aight girl! have fun!.
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:44 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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aight girl! have fun!.
with u? of course | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:45 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "SAmyrocko") SAmyrocko at 9-06-2009 06:47 PM (15 years ago) (m) aight girl! have fun!.
with u? of course nope!. not wif me. im going off thats why i said so. 
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:47 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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aight girl! have fun!.
with u? of course nope!. not wif me. im going off thats why i said so. talk to u tomoorrow | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:48 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "jmobbz") jmobbz at 9-06-2009 06:48 PM (15 years ago) (m) long-term relationships is not good if u want to have any relationship 1yrs is okey and get married but 3 to 6yrs relationship is bad
nah dude...that's not really true in my opinion or maybe its the way you phrased it. Being in a relationship for a long time is actually productive...it gives u an idea of how marriage would be like. There's actually nothing bad about being together for 3 years+...However, a relationship is always meant to grow...so if after 6 years, it hasn't evolved into marriage atleast...then yea, there's an issue there. is called "they r tired of each other"
and honestly speaking, i don't have an answer for u.
hope that never happens to me
tired of each other? well...yea I can see how but that sucks....Again, truly, its not something they cant fix if they really want to...and Also, I hope that doesnt happen to me (never has...and hopefully never will). is called when the "SPARK" disappears. they start getting bored of each other, and they look for ways to get out of the relationship. and if that includes cheating, they do it Still doesn't add up to me....Relationships to me aren't simply about the "Spark"...the whole point of a relationship is creating a process that eventually leads to one thing--Marriage. That's how its always been...and thats why God created it. It's just nowadays that people abuse the point of relationships and now relationships have become a way for ppl to have regular sex with some1 and/or pass time. Now...this topic was about long-term relationships.. not 2 or 3 week relationships. why would someone stay in a relationship for 2 years if the "spark" isn't there. People have to understand that the whole "omg...ur the bestest boyfriend in the world blah blah" is not forever. That feeling comes and goes. There are good times when u feel like that....then there are horrible times where u feel like ur boyfriend is an A*#S. What Im trying to say is that people are suppose to DEAL with both times...not run away when the going gets too rough. and as for psychology...I took several psychology classes...as well as 3 Sociology classes including 1 Sex and Culture 3rd level Anthropology class. Currently a 3rd year junior in University. Remeber, that first person will not always be "IT"(the one). there are trials and errors in life, which includes in relationships. maybe u guys got together because of something about her /him u just couldn't resist. it fades away as time goes on, and u guys wanna just take a break. is called life. Ofcourse....I know that...but I'm not talking about the "first person" though...just because your in a long-term relationship doesn't mean that was the first people u decided to be with. Example...a girl could have had bullshit boyfriends...then eventually she finds 1 who is completely different from the rest and decides to embark on a real relationship with him. But I don't agree with what u said "it fades away as time goes on".. Thats Not true. The only time that happens, according to everything I have ever studied or seen with my own experience, is only if you guys were never in love at all. You can NOT...absolutely NOT be in love with someone and it just "fades"...that's B.S. Then again, its not people's fault because people in general don't even understand the meaning of love. They think love is thinking about someone everyday or wanting to be with that person...lol. Let me tell you something.... There are sooo many imitations of "love"....and almost 1/2 of the people who think they are in love are not. There is lust, there is infatuation, there is Affinity... There is Limerence...and then there is Love. People should study these and know which one there in before entering in a relationship. | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:48 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "jmobbz") jmobbz at 9-06-2009 06:50 PM (15 years ago) (m) I wanted to correct myself..... They don't need to be in love before entering in a relationship...however, just not confuse it. I mean....shoot....if they ain't in love...then yea...they have no reason to continue. | Posted: at 9-06-2009 06:50 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "olatata") olatata at 9-06-2009 07:03 PM (15 years ago) (m) Poster, dat is live 4us... About 96% do not get married 2whom we love. | Posted: at 9-06-2009 07:03 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "dunchic") dunchic at 11-06-2009 05:56 PM (15 years ago) (f) basically,d thing is there is no true luv....dats why u c pple jumping from one person to another seeking for luv....true luv doesnt see faults,it overlooks it...true luv endures no matter the situation... | Posted: at 11-06-2009 05:56 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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