what will be your reaction?

Date: 30-07-2009 1:51 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Akinsiku Ademola
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- at 30-07-2009 01:51 PM (14 years ago)
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I will like the house to make their contribution to this article, This is actually directed to the ladies, For a man knowing fully well dat he cudn't perform to have a child but refused to relate it to his wife not until after 15 years of marriage. What shud the lady do in that circumstance? and for the guys is it compulsory u engage a lady when u know u are incapable of making children? 

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- Toks-E at 30-07-2009 01:54 PM (14 years ago)
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Posted: at 30-07-2009 01:54 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sampamdemmie at 30-07-2009 01:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on 30-07-2009 01:54 PM
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this is not a comment.


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- diplomatik at 30-07-2009 11:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on 30-07-2009 01:54 PM
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Posted: at 30-07-2009 11:49 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- temi07 at 30-07-2009 11:50 PM (14 years ago)
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i will very nicely tell him there is no problem , wait for him to go out and jejely pack my belongings and find my square root. That's all folks.
Posted: at 30-07-2009 11:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 31-07-2009 08:36 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sampamdemmie on 30-07-2009 01:51 PM
I will like the house to make their contribution to this article, This is actually directed to the ladies, For a man knowing fully well dat he cudn't perform to have a child but refused to relate it to his wife not until after 15 years of marriage. What shud the lady do in that circumstance? and for the guys is it compulsory u engage a lady when u know u are incapable of making children? 


go to the doctor

Posted: at 31-07-2009 08:36 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 31-07-2009 12:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sampamdemmie on 30-07-2009 01:51 PM
I will like the house to make their contribution to this article, This is actually directed to the ladies, For a man knowing fully well dat he cudn't perform to have a child but refused to relate it to his wife not until after 15 years of marriage. What shud the lady do in that circumstance? and for the guys is it compulsory u engage a lady when u know u are incapable of making children? 


If you love her so much,, lt'll be good to discuss lt with her..
solution might come out. lt isn't fair to hide lt from her.

Posted: at 31-07-2009 12:06 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- temi07 at 31-07-2009 04:14 PM (14 years ago)
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If a man can lie to you for 15 years about something that important, he can kill you.
Posted: at 31-07-2009 04:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- erikaakpan at 31-07-2009 04:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sampamdemmie on 30-07-2009 01:51 PM
I will like the house to make their contribution to this article, This is actually directed to the ladies, For a man knowing fully well dat he cudn't perform to have a child but refused to relate it to his wife not until after 15 years of marriage. What shud the lady do in that circumstance? and for the guys is it compulsory u engage a lady when u know u are incapable of making children? 

well the fact that they are already married and took vows she still has to follow them. jus becos they cant have kids doesnt mean that they should divorce. They can adopt if they want. And if a guy knows he cant have children its advisable to let the female know. dnt have her expecting to have children whenever u kno u cant

Posted: at 31-07-2009 04:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 31-07-2009 05:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: temi07 on 30-07-2009 11:50 PM
i will very nicely tell him there is no problem , wait for him to go out and jejely pack my belongings and find my square root. That's all folks.
is dat the best decision

Posted: at 31-07-2009 05:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- around_d_corner at 31-07-2009 05:13 PM (14 years ago)
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is hard.......to tell.but is bad 4 the guy to ve kept it secret 4 long......... whatever 4 mi will ve to let her know real.we both will seek 4 solutions  togada
Posted: at 31-07-2009 05:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- temi07 at 31-07-2009 05:20 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 31-07-2009 05:05 PM
Quote from: temi07 on 30-07-2009 11:50 PM
i will very nicely tell him there is no problem , wait for him to go out and jejely pack my belongings and find my square root. That's all folks.
is dat the best decision
One thing i really don't like is walking on eggshells, look @ this situation like its from a typical Nigerian family, what happens if shes been married with no kid for 15 years?
Posted: at 31-07-2009 05:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- around_d_corner at 31-07-2009 05:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: temi07 on 31-07-2009 05:20 PM
Quote from: esonu on 31-07-2009 05:05 PM
Quote from: temi07 on 30-07-2009 11:50 PM
i will very nicely tell him there is no problem , wait for him to go out and jejely pack my belongings and find my square root. That's all folks.
is dat the best decision
One thing i really don't like is walking on eggshells, look @ this situation like its from a typical Nigerian family, what happens if shes been married with no kid for 15 years?
u know is too bad... coz  it was the guy inability.and he kept it to his self............not lettin his spouse to know wahtsup.........
Posted: at 31-07-2009 05:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 31-07-2009 08:59 PM (14 years ago)
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hehehe
Posted: at 31-07-2009 08:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- KOSI_THE_CHAMP at 31-07-2009 09:03 PM (14 years ago)
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if i love him and he loves me more i will stay for him,
every problem have a solution no matter how u solve it,
Posted: at 31-07-2009 09:03 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- pepigambit at 31-07-2009 09:05 PM (14 years ago)
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even it mean chekin yellow page
Posted: at 31-07-2009 09:05 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- McBona at 1-08-2009 01:21 AM (14 years ago)
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This's a sensitive notion. . . hmm!  Well, every Man 'ld always desire to have a Family, even the impotent.   Engaging a gurl! as for the impotent?!  The fact is to let her know Ur condition before bringing about the issue of engagement to her.  On her accord upon this; definitely/, automatically both of U will bear the burdens & know how to go bout it.


"HONESTY IS D 1st CHAPTER OF D BOOK OF WISDOM"
Posted: at 1-08-2009 01:21 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- temi07 at 1-08-2009 02:41 AM (14 years ago)
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I must be like the only heartless one in here or something coz immediately i read 15 years i started seeing red lol.
Posted: at 1-08-2009 02:41 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- McBona at 1-08-2009 02:42 AM (14 years ago)
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kai!!
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- onchedu at 1-08-2009 04:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Hard one there. Very hard one. Can't understand how a lie can be kept for like 15yrs or thot of in the first place. This is just damn wrong.

Posted: at 1-08-2009 04:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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