Single mothers should not be sigmatized in the society (Page 10)

@ elusakin   well it's not about pity...it's about the unborn children...the innocent kids for who none of this is their fault so we should see beyond the reasons of just being vindictive outrightly.

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Posted: at 23-08-2009 08:34 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

This post is still alive

Posted: at 23-08-2009 03:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Thank you fireman.

Posted: at 23-08-2009 03:39 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Single parents should look for single parents for partners, if it takes them a longer time to get a complete single person. What is wrong in that? or is that not also an option?

Posted: at 23-08-2009 05:43 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

stimatisation of single mothers should stop instead they should be encourage cos they are not the only one to blame for if, it takes two to have a child.so what happen to d man

Posted: at 23-08-2009 07:06 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Your really searching ain't u?

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Posted: at 23-08-2009 09:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

How do you propose that the local government handle single mothers in Nigeria?  Where will they get the funding from?

Posted: at 24-08-2009 01:01 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hi guys, as a single mother I also feel that it is not right to stigmatize single mothers.  Well, in my country people are viewing it differently nowadays because there are so many single parents in South Africa (having children out of wedlock).  The best way to look at it is to see how it happened for one to be in that kinda situation.

I fell in love with an Igbo man in 2005 and when I fell pregant he told me how he had a wife back home and I should have an abortion, this I refused.  Had a beautiful baby girl and she's now 3 years old and her father has never contributed towards her wellbeing.  I am facing all the responsibilities by myself.  I was hopelessly in love with the man to an extent that I did not think of  any complications when my child was conceived.  At the time of my pregnancy some relatives did say how stupid I was and all that but at least my family was very supportive.

I don't regret having my daughter she brings me all the joy in world and its just unfortunate that she doesn't know her roots. to all single mothers just stay positive and don't think of people who stigmatize us because it will only hurt our feelings and stop us from moving forward.

Posted: at 24-08-2009 01:50 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

WELL ANY LADY THAT STIGMATIZE ANOTHER; WILL SOON OR LATER FALL IN INTO THE SAME HOLE. DO NOT STIGMATIZE. THEY DON'T WENT IT EITHER. SOME ARE VITIMS OF CIRCUMTANCE!

Posted: at 24-08-2009 03:54 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

yea the deserve respect like every other persom out there

Posted: at 24-08-2009 05:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac