if ur ex shows up after a long time wit a let's be friends policy.can u be friends wit them.mostly,when u kn u still love the person.is it a stuipd idea to say yes or no?.i mean after the bad relationship u had wit tht person.hw wuld u kn if person has changed?.do guys ever change?.lol
Posted: at 2-07-2008 06:38 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
You can still start a new relationship if both agree. Sometime you have break in relationships and its just natural you come back 2gether. I have seen a lot of it.
"Success is not a destination but a journey"
Posted: at 2-07-2008 12:03 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Buddyflex at 2-07-2008 01:48 PM (16 years ago) (m)
It is ok to be friends with your exes. just be sure of the kind of friendship so you can draw the lines on where not to cross. But if it is a come back thing, take good time to make sure that's what you want.
Posted: at 2-07-2008 01:48 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
if ur ex shows up after a long time wit a let's be friends policy.can u be friends wit them.mostly,when u kn u still love the person.is it a stuipd idea to say yes or no?.i mean after the bad relationship u had wit tht person.hw wuld u kn if person has changed?.do guys ever change?.lol
Since you know you still love your ex, it's probably a bad idea, especially if you will have an unspoken desire to get back together.
Posted: at 2-07-2008 04:07 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
vincenice at 2-07-2008 07:12 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: onyin on 2-07-2008 06:38 AM
if ur ex shows up after a long time wit a let's be friends policy.can u be friends wit them.mostly,when u kn u still love the person.is it a stuipd idea to say yes or no?.i mean after the bad relationship u had wit tht person.hw wuld u kn if person has changed?.do guys ever change?.lol
yah guys do change, and we can be friends again but no love.
Posted: at 2-07-2008 07:12 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
y not,c ow ud u can handle it,if u cant.........u l have to learn,it will help if u s friends cos u will have to accept the fact ts nofn than fwends...atm,m friends wit ma ex bfz,it dont change me.
Posted: at 3-07-2008 10:27 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
Sure I can be friends with my ex, why? people meet to part and part to meet again and be good friend we breakup does not mean we should be enemies. No matter what happened between us with time I'll forgive and move on.. after all life is all about give and take and in most cases we might be better off been great friends than lovers.
Posted: at 3-07-2008 11:42 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
olatunde1024 at 3-07-2008 01:20 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Capital YES.A friend is always needed to be a soulmate,a comforter and confident.So old friend is better than new.Never drop ur friend in the trash,becos u might need to lean on him or her one day.
Posted: at 3-07-2008 01:20 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
if ur ex shows up after a long time wit a let's be friends policy.can u be friends wit them.mostly,when u kn u still love the person.is it a stuipd idea to say yes or no?.i mean after the bad relationship u had wit tht person.hw wuld u kn if person has changed?.do guys ever change?.lol
I think you can but depends on how the relationship ended. Even with a bad ending u can still mend your friendship with that person in the long run..It's gonna be difficult to do right away..but once you've pulled yourself together, then i think you can start to form some type of friendship. People do change..and the only way is if they want the change themselves..and if u still love that person even after the break up..you can try again through the friendship and see how it goes from there.
Posted: at 3-07-2008 04:55 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
chikamama at 8-07-2008 07:12 AM (16 years ago) (f)
I´m a friend to my ex, we must be friends cause of our Daughter. But even if we will not have an Daughter we will be friends, cause i think the time that we spend into our relationship will be waste if we will not understand our self now. But first we Fight and than we sattle. (He was my first love)
Posted: at 8-07-2008 07:12 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
it all boils down to maturity on both part, i believe that people who are not in speaking terms with their ex are afraid of renewing their relationship.Its actually a two way thing, some relationship might have ended badly and in such situation they prefer to remain enemies.
Posted: at 8-07-2008 10:06 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
vincenice at 8-07-2008 02:44 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: ruchyna on 8-07-2008 10:06 AM
it all boils down to maturity on both part, i believe that people who are not in speaking terms with their ex are afraid of renewing their relationship.Its actually a two way thing, some relationship might have ended badly and in such situation they prefer to remain enemies.
remember relationship dat end badly has sweet memories.
Posted: at 8-07-2008 02:44 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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