My friend is going through tough time because his fiance insisted on her getting pregnant before he will take her to the alter.
My friend is a devoted christian and the bible reject the issue of sex before marriage. Also, their churches reject pregnancy before wedding. And the issue of court wedding is ruled out between them.
So what do u adviced?
Posted: at 10-09-2008 03:16 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
Edebiesther at 10-09-2008 03:48 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Your friend should stand her ground and pray that God touches the heart of her fiancee. Pregnacy before marriage is not a crime but the lady (your friend) will lose respect that can never be gotten again.
Posted: at 10-09-2008 03:48 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
Your friend should stand her ground and pray that God touches the heart of her fiancee. Pregnacy before marriage is not a crime but the lady (your friend) will lose respect that can never be gotten again.
Pregnacy before marriage is not a crime! common poster its not morally right, would u get pregnant b4 marryin ur luv?
Posted: at 11-09-2008 10:29 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
philomena87 at 11-09-2008 10:33 AM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: JOYCOOL on 10-09-2008 03:16 PM
My friend is going through tough time because his fiance insisted on her getting pregnant before he will take her to the alter.
My friend is a devoted christian and the bible reject the issue of sex before marriage. Also, their churches reject pregnancy before wedding. And the issue of court wedding is ruled out between them.
So what do u adviced?
u have said it all the bible said as we know the bible is the word of GOD.. so as its been said from the both ... she shouldnt mind tat fiance of hers and move on wit or witout him she doesnt make him put her in sin .. or disobey God..
Posted: at 11-09-2008 10:33 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
philomena87 at 11-09-2008 02:53 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Sheeroz on 11-09-2008 12:42 PM
Hold on a min! Mary the mother of Jesus was knocked up b4 she was married....if she ever even got married after that anyway. So what is up wit dat?
funny u ...
u dont have to say tat cos she didnt do tat wit flesh which is recognize as sin .. although joseph is her husband already... but she was concieved by the HOLY SPIRIT.. she didnt sex.....
Posted: at 11-09-2008 02:53 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My friend is going through tough time because his fiance insisted on her getting pregnant before he will take her to the alter.
My friend is a devoted christian and the bible reject the issue of sex before marriage. Also, their churches reject pregnancy before wedding. And the issue of court wedding is ruled out between them.
So what do u adviced?
wel, if she does not want to, then she shuld not do tht .is he marryin her cos he loves her or cos he wants a baby?.she shuld try tlk to him.
Posted: at 11-09-2008 02:58 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
If her fiance cannot resepct her wishes, which kin relationship be that? D grl should stand her ground and not lose focus. What if they do now and the guy doesn't marry her? Nothing is wrong with a baby out of wedlock sha!
Posted: at 11-09-2008 03:05 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
My friend is going through tough time because his fiance insisted on her getting pregnant before he will take her to the alter.
My friend is a devoted christian and the bible reject the issue of sex before marriage. Also, their churches reject pregnancy before wedding. And the issue of court wedding is ruled out between them.
So what do u adviced?
u have said it all the bible said as we know the bible is the word of GOD.. so as its been said from the both ... she shouldnt mind tat fiance of hers and move on wit or witout him she doesnt make him put her in sin .. or disobey God..
She said fiance not boyfriend ooo. move on without him. Is it as easy as that?
One united!!!
Posted: at 11-09-2008 03:26 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
philomena87 at 11-09-2008 04:23 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: C-boy on 11-09-2008 03:26 PM
Quote from: philomena87 on 11-09-2008 10:33 AM
Quote from: JOYCOOL on 10-09-2008 03:16 PM
My friend is going through tough time because his fiance insisted on her getting pregnant before he will take her to the alter.
My friend is a devoted christian and the bible reject the issue of sex before marriage. Also, their churches reject pregnancy before wedding. And the issue of court wedding is ruled out between them.
So what do u adviced?
u have said it all the bible said as we know the bible is the word of GOD.. so as its been said from the both ... she shouldnt mind tat fiance of hers and move on wit or witout him she doesnt make him put her in sin .. or disobey God..
She said fiance not boyfriend ooo. move on without him. Is it as easy as that?
IN MY CASE YES... how will he force me to do such tin..... and not acceptin my own desire... and respect my religion as for me anytin tat will cause me to sin even if tas is love i will give it up completely i dont care cos as far tis world is concern...
Posted: at 11-09-2008 04:23 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
wait a minute....... has she slept with him befor? cos maybe he has dicovered that the gurl in question, ever since they have been sleeping together, has never requested for abortion money n probably the guy is wondering if she is capable of getting pregnant after marriage. or what do u think?
Posted: at 11-09-2008 05:29 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
mrsafrica at 11-09-2008 08:00 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: JOYCOOL on 10-09-2008 03:16 PM
My friend is going through tough time because his fiance insisted on her getting pregnant before he will take her to the alter.
My friend is a devoted christian and the bible reject the issue of sex before marriage. Also, their churches reject pregnancy before wedding. And the issue of court wedding is ruled out between them.
So what do u adviced?
Actually, in britian the christian church does not frown upon sex b4 marrige now like it did many years ago, as long as you no what you are doing, most ppl try b4 you buy so to speak.... I believe my self that you be married b4 having children, even now ppl still have children b4 marrige, i think its all about preference, than rule... follow your heart and you will no what to do.... Be true to yourself.... xx
Posted: at 11-09-2008 08:00 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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