You're dating another Naijapals Member. Does she/he read your posts? (Page 2)

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Assuming you're in a relationship beyond just casually dating someone, do you worry that the one you're dating is reading your posts?

Whether or not you let people know you're with someone or you don't, do you have any ground rules about your posts?

Do you have any reservations about what you post?

Do you find you decline to post in some things?

Do you find yourself sending a message through your post?

Do you think she/he is sending messages to you through a post?

What if you're naturally flirtatious, how do you make sure she/he knows it's nothing to worry about?

Do you worry if you may be being too flirtatious?


I guess, for me, how I present myself in posts won't differ that much, because it is who I am, but I know I'd try not to inadvertently cause hurt. Sometimes you don't know you have. So do you make conscious choices about your posts, taking that into consideration?

Or do you feel 'I am who I am, take it or leave it, you fell for that now don't change the rules'.

For me, I don't ascribe to that one, because there are changes and accommodations that should be made when you're with someone but I do know some who do, and there is merit in it.

and lastly...

have you had to deal with any fall-out from a post?

Keeping secrets might affect a relationship.... You should be able to defend anything you post on Naijapals anywhere cos at end of the day, its internet you never know who will be reading it....

Be surprised you even wake up and see your post on CNN or BBC

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