Wont You Let Me Work? (Page 3)

If he insists you wont work nko?...........I want to know what you will do

hum. You make me laugh.

What is it with some men who have vowed never to allow their women work?

My late uncle never let his wife work, now she is finding it hard to cope after his death (especially as the old generation bank where her husband banked all his money before his death, has made it difficult for her to withdraw money from that account which she is the 'next of kin').........When he was alife, he would vehemently refuse the wife doing anything.  'What are you lacking?', he would ask.  'I can provide for my family', he would said.  Today, she wish she was doing something before he died.


I see this same thing playing out in some families today.  Some men are scared of letting their women out of their home.  Alright, you dont want her to work for somebody else, why not open up something for her to manage?  The time when women sat at home all day, watching Africa Magic, eating and getting fat is fast over.

I ask the men, why would you stop your woman from bringing in fund into the house?  What are the men afraid of?

Ladies, would you agree to stay at home all day doing nothing and depending on a man to cater for all your needs?  If he refuses to let you do anything, how would you convince him otherwise without being termed 'STUBBORN'?

If the guy says he doesnt want his wife to do anything.......what would she do, how would she convince him otherwise?

You can never predict the mind of a man untill you see it happenning. Just pray that God give you an understanding man who will always reason wisely and with you.