No Sex In Your Relationship (Page 3)

Date: 28-08-2010 12:18 pm (13 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- FlyMamacita at 30-08-2010 10:56 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bhl72 on 30-08-2010 10:50 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 28-08-2010 12:47 PM
I also think it is not gonna get better later...only if he has problems with sex before marriage...

But then i wud doubt his honesty, cuz no sex before marriage is no sex... not once a month...

Hmmmm, do u rily think there r guys who dont love sex ?

there are many of us who do not see it as something worth the while
I guess a lot of women, if not most of them think tht a man can not do without sex
Posted: at 30-08-2010 10:56 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 30-08-2010 10:57 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Agatex on 30-08-2010 10:54 AM
passing
Where r u goin ?
Posted: at 30-08-2010 10:57 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyiis at 30-08-2010 01:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 30-08-2010 10:40 AM
Yeah well, i dont like d topic u knw..

I can help my friends with many tins, but ur sexlife hmmm 2 personal  Undecided


I understand your feelings ......................;;;;;; its a very sensitive matter because you advise could be missinterpreted most times
Posted: at 30-08-2010 01:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- agabs at 30-08-2010 02:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 28-08-2010 05:44 PM
awwww Agabs... thank u so much for d information dear !!!

It is very very useful ! Well, i will surely discuss it with her tonight...

Hmmmm wetin u talk abt bring her to ur place  Grin  Grin bad boiiii
Another man's wife? Chai,  Solomon will be very disappointed in me. I find it difficult to cross my catechism.
I was joking, easier said than done.

Posted: at 30-08-2010 02:08 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- solojaro at 30-08-2010 02:57 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 28-08-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 28-08-2010 12:18 PM
I hav a desperate friend of mine, who came to ask me for advice last night...

She is in a relationship for almost 3 years now, they love each other very much and plan to get married soon...

But d big problem for her is.... Her bf is not rily into sex... It cud happen once or twice a month but not more...
She talked to him already 2 much, and all he does is make promisses he doesnt keep...He said he will change, but notin happens...

She realy wanna stay with him, but is scared tht eventualy she will cheat on him (she is not a cheating type)...
In her mind she feel insecure, cuz she dont understand why he doesnt wanna? She is a very beautiful woman, a good 'wife', she tried so many things already.... and nothin works...

My question now, cud u stay in a relationship like tht? And pls any advice for d woman ??


If the guy doesn't want it now, when that burning passion is supposed to be there,can you imagine how will be later?
If she needs it more than he can offer, maybe she should reconsider that relationship!
[/u]Becuse they may be a problem of segxwal satisfaction from the man to the woman in the future, and may lead the the woman to look some where for that satisfaction.which will cause a lot of problem for that marriage.
Posted: at 30-08-2010 02:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- goddyboy at 30-08-2010 05:52 PM (13 years ago)
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OK. with time he will pick up
Posted: at 30-08-2010 05:52 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- FlyMamacita at 30-08-2010 06:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 30-08-2010 01:54 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 30-08-2010 10:40 AM
Yeah well, i dont like d topic u knw..

I can help my friends with many tins, but ur sexlife hmmm 2 personal  Undecided


I understand your feelings ......................;;;;;; its a very sensitive matter because you advise could be missinterpreted most times
exactly... and i dont wanna b d cause of more problems Smiley
Posted: at 30-08-2010 06:22 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 30-08-2010 06:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: agabs on 30-08-2010 02:08 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 28-08-2010 05:44 PM
awwww Agabs... thank u so much for d information dear !!!

It is very very useful ! Well, i will surely discuss it with her tonight...

Hmmmm wetin u talk abt bring her to ur place  Grin  Grin bad boiiii
Another man's wife? Chai,  Solomon will be very disappointed in me. I find it difficult to cross my catechism.
I was joking, easier said than done.


Smiley they not married yet...but anyway u r right
Posted: at 30-08-2010 06:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Bettychy at 30-08-2010 06:35 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 28-08-2010 05:38 PM
Quote from: Bettychy on 28-08-2010 03:56 PM
I still struggle so hard to believe the Naijapals phrase "sex is not love" even in a relationship. Maybe we `ll in due time redefine the phrase & get it`s real meaning.

A relationship that has lasted for three years and there had never been a time when the male partner was segxwally active. A period in any relationship, when the desire for sex is almost uncontrollable especially by the men and yet, not for any defined reason rather accompanied with pleads of change  (in Nigeria???)

There`s definitely a problem somewhere.
I wouldn`t be in for such
its not like he didn touch her in these 3 years.... they had sex...but not as she wish...

d problem is, tht d guy dont wan understand d problem... cuz he dont c problem in it....

Well d way she is thinking there cant b a guy who dont like sex, d same way he is thinking there cant b a woman who love sex so much


Exactly my piont!
You`re a girl, it doesn`t really matter whether or not you live in our beloved country Nigeria, but you know how partners especially the male partners behave at this stage of any love relationship (with the burning passion & desire for sex like they`re gonna eat you alive). And he doesen`t see it as a problem; that makes it more tragic & complicated.

My mind tells me he`s not healthy. It could be mentally, psychologically, socially or otherwise.
Posted: at 30-08-2010 06:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 30-08-2010 09:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Well my first thought was d same like urs...tht he's not healthy  Undecided
Posted: at 30-08-2010 09:40 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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