![-]( "donuche") donuche at 7-09-2010 04:51 AM (14 years ago)  (m) Wat a senseless. Post
i no follow oooo | Posted: at 7-09-2010 04:51 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "donuche") donuche at 7-09-2010 04:54 AM (14 years ago) (m) @Post
It all boils down to the guy's personality and the level of understanding between the couples.Personally, i prefer to do my own cooking,washing and cleaning myself and only leave the kitchen duties if my girlfriend insists.
That being said, a lot of ladies usually put up their best homely behavior during the dating phase but as soon as they get married, it's a different story.For example, there is this pal of mine that dated a lady for a few years.She was the ultimate "wife material".This girl would clean the house even when it was spotless, wash dishes the minute they finish eating and iron clothes that don't necessarily need ironing.Fast forward into the marriage. . .shortly after child birth, she was always complaining of being in pains or tired from taking care of the child.My pal then decided to get a nanny who handled all cleaning,baby sitting and sometimes cooking from morning till early evening hours.Even at that, she still complains of tiredness but when it comes to gossiping with her friends, a sudden surge of energy comes from no where and they can gossip about a hairbrush for 8 hours non-stop.
lol
leave that for them because they have the anointing of gossip even when in labour. it is just their destiny any way. | Posted: at 7-09-2010 04:54 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "peaceben") peaceben at 7-09-2010 07:27 AM (14 years ago) (f) is not bad at all, is part of love for each of. at least once in a while. | Posted: at 7-09-2010 07:27 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "vivera") vivera at 7-09-2010 08:15 AM (14 years ago) (m) washing of plates does not belong to women alone, sometime men should wash | Posted: at 7-09-2010 08:15 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "safranin") safranin at 7-09-2010 08:36 AM (14 years ago) (f) I don't think I need guts to ask my signigicant other to do the dishes especially when I'm really tired to do it. I don't even need to be tired for him to do the dishes. As long as we live together, compromise is a must. | Posted: at 7-09-2010 08:36 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Eucharia") Eucharia at 7-09-2010 08:40 AM (14 years ago) (f) there is absolutely nothing wrong if men should wash plates, if there is love men can even enter inside kichen cook for his wife, some feel it is an abormination for them to wash plates then what is the work of the wife in the house ,becos they are the head of the house Rubbish. there is nothing wrong with that ok. | Posted: at 7-09-2010 08:40 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 7-09-2010 08:44 AM (14 years ago) (f) what are help mates for if he can't do it once in a while ?
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 7-09-2010 08:44 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "bomsiluv") bomsiluv at 7-09-2010 08:49 AM (14 years ago) (f) Come, I go die to wash plates? Make em helep me sometime na..................... I no see anything wrong with dat o............. | Posted: at 7-09-2010 08:49 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 7-09-2010 08:53 AM (14 years ago) (f) hehheheeeeeeeeee
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 7-09-2010 08:53 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "tambeiort") tambeiort at 7-09-2010 09:07 AM (14 years ago) (m) unless she is sick ,if not i will not do that. no matter how i love her. | Posted: at 7-09-2010 09:07 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 7-09-2010 09:18 AM (14 years ago) (f) MEN HOW WOULD U FEEL IF AFTER EATING, UR SPOUSE COMES CLOSER TO YOU AND SAY "HONEY PLS AM VERY TIRED, JUST HELP ME AND TIDY UP DE PLATES"..WILL U DO IT OR U WILL SCOLD HER AND DECIDE NOT TO GRANT HER REQUEST.....
LADIES WILL U HAVE DE GUTS TO ASK UR SPOUSE TO WASH DE PLATES WHICH YOU BOTH USED IN EATING? !!!!!!!!!!UR OPINIONS PLSSSSSSSSSSSSS
She's my Spouse yu said. We musta been Living together for a Long time, so we Already know all there is 2 know about each other initially and l must have even Prepared B.fast, Dinner or Lunch at one time during our Lives together, so what will be a Problem with Washing Plates? She wouldn't even need 2 ask me first be4 l'll know what 2 do when she can't good talk my guy | Posted: at 7-09-2010 09:18 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "anemeje") anemeje at 7-09-2010 10:09 AM (14 years ago) (m) A man can wash plate when is nescessary or when he feel like helping his wife...........but is must for those that there wife is boss in the house................they must wash or no food 4 them that day.............. [attachment deleted by admin] | Posted: at 7-09-2010 10:09 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Agatex") Agatex at 7-09-2010 11:48 AM (14 years ago) (f) Of course that I have the guts to ask him to wash his plate,at least his own plate,he must wash it!
what if he objects to that? If he objects, the plate will remain there till he'll wash it! and u think he will see u as a good wife? does washing of plate makes one a good wife? so much on this plate washing, if both parties cant wash their plate let them get a maid or better still buy a dish washer chikina!!!! | Posted: at 7-09-2010 11:48 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "oliyide") oliyide at 7-09-2010 12:19 PM (14 years ago) (m) If a man can go to wash plate in restaurants for a living why should he not be able to do so to keep his kitchen in order and be of help to the wife. Infact a man should be able to wash more than plate ... lol. | Posted: at 7-09-2010 12:19 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 7-09-2010 12:43 PM (14 years ago) (f) @Post
It all boils down to the guy's personality and the level of understanding between the couples.Personally, i prefer to do my own cooking,washing and cleaning myself and only leave the kitchen duties if my girlfriend insists.
That being said, a lot of ladies usually put up their best homely behavior during the dating phase but as soon as they get married, it's a different story.For example, there is this pal of mine that dated a lady for a few years.She was the ultimate "wife material".This girl would clean the house even when it was spotless, wash dishes the minute they finish eating and iron clothes that don't necessarily need ironing.Fast forward into the marriage. . .shortly after child birth, she was always complaining of being in pains or tired from taking care of the child.My pal then decided to get a nanny who handled all cleaning,baby sitting and sometimes cooking from morning till early evening hours.Even at that, she still complains of tiredness but when it comes to gossiping with her friends, a sudden surge of energy comes from no where and they can gossip about a hairbrush for 8 hours non-stop.
lol
Oga na real wa for you.  , i call it woman pretence. | Posted: at 7-09-2010 12:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 7-09-2010 12:45 PM (14 years ago) (f) Well,I see no reason why I should ask my husband to wash the plates.how tired can a woman be, not to be able to wash two people's plates?.which kind laziness be tht one.
Na man u be or Na shemale? | Posted: at 7-09-2010 12:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 7-09-2010 12:51 PM (14 years ago) (f) lol, from a lot of the posts I'm reading on this site I think a few Nigerian men are confusing their wives and girlfriends as maids. ok so a woman cooks for you,you eat, she probably clears the table by herself while you sit down watching T.V and drinking beer ( because thats what maids do right... errm sorry women) and then for whatever reason, she is tired and then ask that you to help with the dishes and you think she should be scolded for that  lol wow. Yes I would ask, I hope I wont find the man that I would have to ask in the first place. The unfortunate irony of your post is that you would be the first person to crucify your sister-in-law if she referred to herself as a "maid" for washing dishes. You are the same person that will drag angels from the heavens and uproot demons from hell if a daughter-in-law tried such.Pathetic! NB : When a guy doesn't play his role as the man of the house, he's called a lazy slob/failure in life but when a woman washes dishes, she's now a "maid".How wonderful.These are the "blessings" of feminism. What a pity! Harakiri, i hail u oooooooooo. | Posted: at 7-09-2010 12:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "mystangel") mystangel at 7-09-2010 01:09 PM (14 years ago) (f) sure...abi he no get hand infact he must
being mysterious is part of me--CALL ME CRAZY--am still wat i am | Posted: at 7-09-2010 01:09 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 7-09-2010 01:20 PM (14 years ago) (f) @Post
It all boils down to the guy's personality and the level of understanding between the couples.Personally, i prefer to do my own cooking,washing and cleaning myself and only leave the kitchen duties if my girlfriend insists.
That being said, a lot of ladies usually put up their best homely behavior during the dating phase but as soon as they get married, it's a different story.For example, there is this pal of mine that dated a lady for a few years.She was the ultimate "wife material".This girl would clean the house even when it was spotless, wash dishes the minute they finish eating and iron clothes that don't necessarily need ironing.Fast forward into the marriage. . .shortly after child birth, she was always complaining of being in pains or tired from taking care of the child.My pal then decided to get a nanny who handled all cleaning,baby sitting and sometimes cooking from morning till early evening hours.Even at that, she still complains of tiredness but when it comes to gossiping with her friends, a sudden surge of energy comes from no where and they can gossip about a hairbrush for 8 hours non-stop.
lol
leave that for them because they have the anointing of gossip even when in labour. it is just their destiny any way. Donuche, u r inviting the anointing of fire unpo urself and i hope u will be able to put it off when i comes on you. | Posted: at 7-09-2010 01:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "cyndi3") cyndi3 at 7-09-2010 01:24 PM (14 years ago) (f) For me,Washing of plates is no biggie, it depends on how well both of us interact & understand ourselves, I love washing the dishes except when am sick or not around..... anyway, passing with my plates for washing | Posted: at 7-09-2010 01:24 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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