I have one reason why the marriage might not work.
The memory of the rape can never be wipe away from the girl's brain. The hurt and pain will always comes around any moment she's having same sex with the Guy and that might increase the hatred she has for the guy unless the girl really want to less go or maybe she is out of options. | Posted: at 23-09-2010 10:21 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "phemzy2") phemzy2 at 23-09-2010 10:22 AM (14 years ago)  (m) In a REAL rape, there is no enjoying, but only trauma on all levels!
Real rape? why is the woman contemplating either to marry her rapist or not? | Posted: at 23-09-2010 10:22 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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I have one reason why the marriage might not work.
The memory of the rape can never be wipe away from the girl's brain. The hurt and pain will always comes around any moment she's having same sex with the Guy and that might increase the hatred she has for the guy unless the girl really want to less go or maybe she is out of options.
yes ooo, na difficult tin to hav sex again, lets not talk abt sex with tht animal | Posted: at 23-09-2010 10:24 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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It depends.
What makes the guy rape her in the first place
Is the girl aware of the rapist (i.e. can she recognize him)
What makes the girl love and want to marry him
every good question but what i can say the girl recognise him ,is not girl that is coming but the guy who want to marry her but the girl is consider base on. 1...the guy is now a change person with too much money 2....she is till single ( d girl at ago 28) 3....the guy is also single What is money? Can money buy Money? And if truly money do buy love it will never work in this case. This case is more or less a murder. He deny the girl her right to decide what she want and what she don't. At that time of this bad scene, if the guy have to kill the girl in order to have her, he will... There should be no reason in the world to allow such marriage if not the guy is putting his life in danger. The girl may accept to marry him in order to gain way to retaliate. | Posted: at 23-09-2010 10:43 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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In a REAL rape, there is no enjoying, but only trauma on all levels!
Real rape? why is the woman contemplating either to marry her rapist or not? I was talking to Xter!He got my point! And about your question, there is nothing to contemplate! The marriage with such a guy is out of question!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 23-09-2010 10:59 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "phemzy2") phemzy2 at 23-09-2010 11:32 AM (14 years ago) (m) I understand what you mean about real rape What if the woman enjoy the rape that is why she is going back to marry him? | Posted: at 23-09-2010 11:32 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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I understand what you mean about real rape
What if the woman enjoy the rape that is why she is going back to marry him?
Enjoying the rape?  Do you hear how it sounds that? Absolutely any woman who has her brain in its place can't enjoy a rape! Oh,plz!!!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 23-09-2010 11:35 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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rubbish | Posted: at 23-09-2010 11:40 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "phemzy2") phemzy2 at 23-09-2010 11:44 AM (14 years ago) (m) It sounds really bad but it is either the woman marry her rapist or not. Also you are to advice and give reasons why she should or shouldn't marry her rapist. What do you support? | Posted: at 23-09-2010 11:44 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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rubbish
You can say that again!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 23-09-2010 11:45 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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It sounds really bad but it is either the woman marry her rapist or not.
Also you are to advice and give reasons why she should or shouldn't marry her rapist.
What do you support?
What does it seem that I support? Oh,come on!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 23-09-2010 11:46 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "phemzy2") phemzy2 at 23-09-2010 11:59 AM (14 years ago) (m) Maybe he was initiated into a secret cult and the initiation process is to rape the woman. He has also explained to the woman that he was under duress to rape her. Finding out that the woman was a virgin and he don't know how to make it up to her, so he decided to apologise and beg for forgivness. After a long time of courtship she is now contemplating to marry her rapist or not. She also have found something genuine in his life (the qualities of a good guy: gentle, cool, etc.) What will you say? | Posted: at 23-09-2010 11:59 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Maybe he was initiated into a secret cult and the initiation process is to rape the woman. He has also explained to the woman that he was under duress to rape her. Finding out that the woman was a virgin and he don't know how to make it up to her, so he decided to apologise and beg for forgivness. After a long time of courtship she is now contemplating to marry her rapist or not.
She also have found something genuine in his life (the qualities of a good guy: gentle, cool, etc.)
What will you say?
I can't believe that u're still supporting that crap! A raped woman doesn't give a damn on the reasons the guy could have for such a monstrous act! The last thing that she needs is that animal in her life!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "phemzy2") phemzy2 at 23-09-2010 12:12 PM (14 years ago) (m) @Bittersweet Common, just look at it the other way round Maybe it wasn't intentional | Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:12 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "bomsiluv") bomsiluv at 23-09-2010 12:16 PM (14 years ago) (f) but the guy mean it,with repented heart
Repented what? A tiger doesn't lose it's stripes.............. he is who he is. She should not even think of marrying that beast. the guy is saying that he is ready to pay all the damages (quote) Pay for damages abi? I'll pretend to luv him back and after dat, poison him with otapiapia. Dat beast doesn't deserve to live. | Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:16 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@Bittersweet
Common, just look at it the other way round
Maybe it wasn't intentional
He couldn't keep his pants on,unintentionally? Oh,poor guy,the gnomes came and manipulated the whole stuff,right? Plz,plz and plz! >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Live and let live! | Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "hotguy77") hotguy77 at 23-09-2010 12:22 PM (14 years ago) (m) mayba he was desiring her but she was ignoring him. Perhaps he really loves her and wants to make her happy and if she sees the sincerety in him the man treat her like egg and she will enjoy the relationship. Women have forgiving hearts. Let her not dwell on the past rather think of the beautiful future | Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:22 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "phemzy2") phemzy2 at 23-09-2010 12:25 PM (14 years ago) (m) but the guy mean it,with repented heart
Repented what? A tiger doesn't lose it's stripes.............. he is who he is. She should not even think of marrying that beast. the guy is saying that he is ready to pay all the damages (quote) Pay for damages abi? I'll pretend to luv him back and after dat, poison him with otapiapia. Dat beast doesn't deserve to live. That is too horrible | Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:25 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "phemzy2") phemzy2 at 23-09-2010 12:30 PM (14 years ago) (m) mayba he was desiring her but she was ignoring him.
Perhaps he really loves her and wants to make her
happy and if she sees the sincerety in him the man treat
her like egg and she will enjoy the relationship. Women
have forgiving hearts. Let her not dwell on the past rather
think of the beautiful future
Bittersweet check that out. | Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:30 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Bulls**t!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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