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Quote from: xter on 18-10-2010 10:26 AM
Naija mentality! Must d guy always pay?
a man mustnt pay at all timebut not to come up wit some funny surprises all in d name of
"must a guy pay always"
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Quote from: xter on 18-10-2010 10:26 AM Naija mentality! Must d guy always pay? a man mustnt pay at all timebut not to come up wit some funny surprises all in d name of "must a guy pay always"
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:38 AM Quote from: Teeteeylaryor on 18-10-2010 10:22 AM Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:15 AM Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:05 AM Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 09:49 AM Isn't she an Independent Woman? sophie paying her bills is no problemif she is.. she shouldnt ask y.. but rada pay the bills but not on that act, there is suppose to an agreement lane btw d two of them wat if the girl wasnt interested in watching movie u dont just pick up someone and engage her in some unnecessary expenses must an agreement be made on who pays the bills when going out with ur man? as a lady u musn't go out with an empty purse either on a date nor with ya b.f put some cash in that purse but gals always top ur purse neva depend on the guy to pay all atleast he shold ve inform d girl 1st c'mon.. bleesing.. must u be informed b4 u pay d bills Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:35 AM i still disagree wif u this is absolutely uncalled for everything has to reach a mutual agreement girl if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine! sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise and beside for 16months that was their first outing and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:48 AM Quote from: xter on 18-10-2010 10:26 AM Naija mentality! Must d guy always pay? a man mustnt pay at all timebut not to come up wit some funny surprises all in d name of "must a guy pay always" i dont see such as a funny surprise. u musnt be pushed or told b4 u foot the bills.. Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:50 AM Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:38 AM Quote from: Teeteeylaryor on 18-10-2010 10:22 AM Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:15 AM Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:05 AM Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 09:49 AM Isn't she an Independent Woman? sophie paying her bills is no problemif she is.. she shouldnt ask y.. but rada pay the bills but not on that act, there is suppose to an agreement lane btw d two of them wat if the girl wasnt interested in watching movie u dont just pick up someone and engage her in some unnecessary expenses must an agreement be made on who pays the bills when going out with ur man? as a lady u musn't go out with an empty purse either on a date nor with ya b.f put some cash in that purse but gals always top ur purse neva depend on the guy to pay all atleast he shold ve inform d girl 1st c'mon.. bleesing.. must u be informed b4 u pay d bills its never adviceable to go on dates with an empty purse but for curtsy's sake , things should be done properly "Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:51 AM Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:35 AM i still disagree wif u this is absolutely uncalled foreverything has to reach a mutual agreement girl if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine! sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise and beside for 16months that was their first outing and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink i'm picturing this story of urs in anoda direction.. i see the babe as the stingy type. yes.. i think the guy is trying to see if she can try to take up some responsibilities on her own. Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:50 AM Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:38 AM Quote from: Teeteeylaryor on 18-10-2010 10:22 AM Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:15 AM Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:05 AM Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 09:49 AM Isn't she an Independent Woman? sophie paying her bills is no problemif she is.. she shouldnt ask y.. but rada pay the bills but not on that act, there is suppose to an agreement lane btw d two of them wat if the girl wasnt interested in watching movie u dont just pick up someone and engage her in some unnecessary expenses must an agreement be made on who pays the bills when going out with ur man? as a lady u musn't go out with an empty purse either on a date nor with ya b.f put some cash in that purse but gals always top ur purse neva depend on the guy to pay all atleast he shold ve inform d girl 1st c'mon.. bleesing.. must u be informed b4 u pay d bills what if ma purse is not full enough to foot d bills what if ma atm card is not wif me at dat moment, what happens to me huh? look money is no body's friend u know u dont just bomb me wif unnecessary expenses and called that surprise or watever this is just like u takin me out and at d end of d day u leave me in d middle of no where
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I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u Replytht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn  @ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:57 AM Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:51 AM Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:35 AM i still disagree wif u this is absolutely uncalled foreverything has to reach a mutual agreement girl if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine! sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise and beside for 16months that was their first outing and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink i'm picturing this story of urs in anoda direction.. i see the babe as the stingy type. yes.. i think the guy is trying to see if she can try to take up some responsibilities on her own. heheheheheeeeeeeeeee you know you can only force a horse to the stream but you cant force it to drink water . If she is really stingy ............... using that method will not make her pay , she may descide to go back home after all she didnt just choose to see the movie . Meanwhile , why would a guy do that on their "very first outing" having been dating for abaut 16 months ? Personally i dont see the point he is trying to prove by that action "Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:07 AM I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u tht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn @ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic thank God someone is on ma side now. flymama i think u understand ma point too... it doesnt make sense naaaaa thanks for da compliment Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:57 AM Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:51 AM Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:35 AM i still disagree wif u this is absolutely uncalled foreverything has to reach a mutual agreement girl if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine! sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise and beside for 16months that was their first outing and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink i'm picturing this story of urs in anoda direction.. i see the babe as the stingy type. yes.. i think the guy is trying to see if she can try to take up some responsibilities on her own. the girl is not a stingy chap, she is only being a girl ok forget d fact dat everything is mordenized and lets face d fact a guy is taking u on a first date, den he should inform u to foot ya bills and not to cook up a surprise shit for u, if i want to give ma guy treat i will invite him and foot his bills hmm and not d other way round
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM They have been dating for more than 16 months and then He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl Until they are married, the guy is not under any obligation to meet her financial needs! A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:07 AM I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u u dnt c a problem in him at d counter wif u, brought out huge of money in ya presencetht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn @ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic pay for his ticket, tuck d remaining inside his pocket and then order u to pay ya own?
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:07 AM I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u tht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn @ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic Its not like taking turns , its all abaut responsibility .Wy invite somebody to a movie when you can't foot his/her bills? Then you better go see the movie alone . but if you really needs his/her company and you cant afford to pays the bills for both of you then find out from him/her if he is ready for such unplanned expenses . Its arrogance to take someone out on such occassions , bring out huge amount of money for her to see, then you pay for only your bills and ask her to pay for herself "Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
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@ sophie, i dey ur side ooo Reply@onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time and neva got anytin back? @ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ??
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 11:15 AM Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:07 AM I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u u dnt c a problem in him at d counter wif u, brought out huge of money in ya presencetht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn @ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic pay for his ticket, tuck d remaining inside his pocket and then order u to pay ya own? they r not married abi? Who knws he has bin payin for d last 16 months?
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Quote from: onyiis on 18-10-2010 11:16 AM Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:07 AM I dont c d problem? Doesnt mean cos d guy pay for u tht he like u more... And is not romantic at all to make agreement be4 u go out, like tonite i go pay tomorrow is ur turn @ sophiebaby, i like ur new pic Its not like taking turns , its all abaut responsibility .Wy invite somebody to a movie when you can't foot his/her bills? Then you better go see the movie alone . but if you really needs his/her company and you cant afford to pays the bills for both of you then find out from him/her if he is ready for such unplanned expenses . Its arrogance to take someone out on such occassions , bring out huge amount of money for her to see, then you pay for only your bills and ask her to pay for herself her own pocket?? when somebody ask u out, tht mean he/she gotta pay for it?? Or u hav to start talkin abt who go pay for it? tht not kool at all... like i said be4, who knws d guy is not bin payin for d last 16 months ??
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 11:12 AM Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-10-2010 10:57 AM Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:51 AM Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 10:35 AM i still disagree wif u this is absolutely uncalled foreverything has to reach a mutual agreement girl if u want to give ya guy a good treat from ya purse, fine! sure! as a lady u dont ve to go out wif an empty purse but to some extent and beside no lady goes out wit a guy and ve the mindset of footing the bills except proven otherwise and beside for 16months that was their first outing and she equally went wif cash but marvelled at what d guy did imagine u and ya guy at d counter to buy ticket and he brought out some huge amount of money paid for his ticket and tuck d rest of d cash back to his pocket and then ask u to pay for your own and get yaself a drink i'm picturing this story of urs in anoda direction.. i see the babe as the stingy type. yes.. i think the guy is trying to see if she can try to take up some responsibilities on her own. the girl is not a stingy chap, she is only being a girl ok forget d fact dat everything is mordenized and lets face d fact a guy is taking u on a first date, den he should inform u to foot ya bills and not to cook up a surprise shit for u, if i want to give ma guy treat i will invite him and foot his bills hmm and not d other way round Quote from: blessedme on 18-10-2010 09:40 AM They have been dating for more than 16 months and then He took her to the movies and asked her to pay for her entrance ticket and cold drink for herself and even transport herself down home they've been dating for more than sixteen months(1yr/4mths) and u are telling me crap? since de've been dating, outing for the first tym to the movies doesn't require who pays d bills.. since he opted her footing her bills, den she should.. shey be she wan go MOVIES.. abi she no dey work? or she no get orientation? how much be drink? coke/fanta highest 100 naira ticket highest 800/1500.. atleast she shld get some cash in her purse.. Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-10-2010 11:16 AM @ sophie, i dey ur side ooo @onyiis, who said he is tryin to proof anytin?? maybe he has bin payin all dis time and neva got anytin back? @ blessedme, 'She is only bein a girl' na wa for tht statement ooo, c'mon dear tht na rubbish...only bein a gal? wht does tht mean ?? The story said that was their very first outing and moreover he is spending without getting anyhing back so he sees their relationship as an investment ? "Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
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