![-]( "Pearlyluv") Pearlyluv at 19-11-2010 11:46 AM (14 years ago)  (m) Better to err on the side of caution. RUN !!!!!!! | Posted: at 19-11-2010 11:46 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "onums") onums at 19-11-2010 11:49 AM (14 years ago) (m) una don phyuk? | Posted: at 19-11-2010 11:49 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 19-11-2010 11:50 AM (14 years ago) (f) a stitch in time they say saves nine
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 19-11-2010 11:50 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "tonarela") tonarela at 19-11-2010 12:09 PM (14 years ago) (m) http://well it better u stop it and try to persuade to see the danger ahead if u people dont stop ur relationship,again it is an abormination please dont bring more curse into ur life.cos i know that for this 3yrs u have been sleeping with each other. now that u have know that u people are klose relatives call off the relationship i know it is not easy but u have to do it for the good of ur future which will be bright,this is my avice for u take it and God will give the grace to do it right today. | Posted: at 19-11-2010 12:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "AMISCO1") AMISCO1 at 19-11-2010 12:19 PM (14 years ago) (f) It is very painful, such a long time relationship but u know what it is better now. cut off the relationship immediately, stop seeing him for a while and stop picking his calls for a while. it wil surely hurt u but after a while things who work out normal again. Go back on your two kneel to seek for forgiveness from God because of what u guys have shared in the past. | Posted: at 19-11-2010 12:19 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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I met my guy at the University. We are deeply in love now and have been dating for 3 years. For some weeks now we have discovered that we are cousins, he is the son of one of my dad's sisters. Unfortunately for me and my siblings we grew up without knowing who my dad's family was. This is because they were against my parents marriage, just because my mum wasn't Nigerian. We've always lived in my mum's country till 7 years ago when my dad decided to come back to Nigeria and took us along. His father died few months ago and surprisingly my name was mentioned in his will though he had never seen me. I think this is because i was named after him and probably he knew that. On the day that his will was read, the world dropped on me. I came to know my guy was my cousin. His mum is my dad's elder sister. I knew her, but as my boyfriend's mum, never did i think she was my auntie. My guy hadn't met any of my parents yet, so he too he couldn't know that we are related. Now my parents and his are asking us to break up. I am trying to be reasonable but he is not. He thinks we can build a family for ourselves without our parent's blessings. That's not acceptable for me. I grew up not knowing my grandparents, aunties and uncles. I don't want my kids to experience what i went through. I'm ready to give up our love, as painful and difficult as it might seem but i don't know if i'm taking the right decision. I don't want to regret in the future. I need your advice. YOUR DECISION TO STOP IT NOW IS THE RIGHT ONE, CAUSE TWO OF YOU CAN NOT WITHSTAND THE PRESURE AT THE LONG RUN. DROP IT LIKE IT HURTS
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![-]( "adaudeze") adaudeze at 19-11-2010 01:13 PM (14 years ago) (f) It's quite unfortunate,my dear, but i think it's better that you are sad now and be happy tomorrow than live your entire life regretting.One moral lesson here is that children should always take their friends home so that the parents will know their children's friends. | Posted: at 19-11-2010 01:13 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 19-11-2010 01:18 PM (14 years ago) (f) i just hope u havent been intimate with him..............................
relationship of three years so what do you expect 
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 19-11-2010 01:18 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dogounltd") dogounltd at 19-11-2010 01:43 PM (14 years ago) (m) african culture and nigeria precisely dont in anyway condone a family of the same in one way or the other to date or fall in love as a means of relationship, so my dear lady your decision is highly right to quit him even though he never want to do that, cos you need to protect your integrity and that of your family also. | Posted: at 19-11-2010 01:43 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "xter") xter at 19-11-2010 01:48 PM (14 years ago) (m) Poster, i think i'm missing an important detail here Have u been doing jigijigi with dat guy?
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza  | Posted: at 19-11-2010 01:48 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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am very sorry for the heartbreak i know how it feels to loose someone u love very much please do take heart, but just try to be reasonable, marrying ur cousin is very absurd, pls dont do it and make him understand ur view, take heart. | Posted: at 19-11-2010 01:57 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "moniconyez") moniconyez at 19-11-2010 01:58 PM (14 years ago) (m) They were vibrating everyday............ | Posted: at 19-11-2010 01:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "moniconyez") moniconyez at 19-11-2010 02:02 PM (14 years ago) (m) And still want to vitrate more that was why she is seeking for advice, Rubbish | Posted: at 19-11-2010 02:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "xter") xter at 19-11-2010 02:07 PM (14 years ago) (m) Poster; i need ur help Xter; i wont help u!
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza | Posted: at 19-11-2010 02:07 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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i just hope u havent been intimate with him..............................
See question, for THREE years u say dem never chop apple?...The question when you for ask be say, HOPE YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT? abi ooooooo | Posted: at 19-11-2010 06:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I met my guy at the University. We are deeply in love now and have been dating for 3 years. For some weeks now we have discovered that we are cousins, he is the son of one of my dad's sisters. Unfortunately for me and my siblings we grew up without knowing who my dad's family was. This is because they were against my parents marriage, just because my mum wasn't Nigerian. We've always lived in my mum's country till 7 years ago when my dad decided to come back to Nigeria and took us along. His father died few months ago and surprisingly my name was mentioned in his will though he had never seen me. I think this is because i was named after him and probably he knew that. On the day that his will was read, the world dropped on me. I came to know my guy was my cousin. His mum is my dad's elder sister. I knew her, but as my boyfriend's mum, never did i think she was my auntie. My guy hadn't met any of my parents yet, so he too he couldn't know that we are related. Now my parents and his are asking us to break up. I am trying to be reasonable but he is not. He thinks we can build a family for ourselves without our parent's blessings. That's not acceptable for me. I grew up not knowing my grandparents, aunties and uncles. I don't want my kids to experience what i went through. I'm ready to give up our love, as painful and difficult as it might seem but i don't know if i'm taking the right decision. I don't want to regret in the future. I need your advice.
I feel u- u gotta end it b4 sum1 get hurt, besides there r complication involved if u get pregnant as sum weird abnormal genetic mutation can occur due to ur close DNA ties! | Posted: at 19-11-2010 06:57 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Poster, i think i'm missing an important detail here
Have u been doing jigijigi with dat guy?
hahahahaha see question oooo...... so u no know is bc of the sweet of the jigijigi make the guy no wan cut off........  | Posted: at 19-11-2010 07:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 19-11-2010 07:09 PM (14 years ago) (f) Poster; i need ur help
Xter; i wont help u!
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 19-11-2010 07:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Michro") Michro at 19-11-2010 07:14 PM (14 years ago) (m) @ poster, give it up b4 it gives u up...
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent | Posted: at 19-11-2010 07:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "otagermo") otagermo at 19-11-2010 10:28 PM (14 years ago) (m) nice decision my dear. he (your boyfreind) must reason like you also. we are not in china.you have nothing to regret sis. | Posted: at 19-11-2010 10:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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