Inconsistency in relationship

There is this man that I am in relationship with.This relationship lasted for three months and we had a quarrel caused by his mother's much demands from me, and it lasted for three years. After which  we settled our differences and continued.This settlement lasted for another three months and another quarrel began again because of that same woman.Now I am tired of this relationship, please my naijapals advice me on what to do.

Posted: at 9-01-2011 01:03 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

BABE MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE GIRL ..WOMAN NO GIVE YOU REST  WHEN YOU BE GIRL FRIEND(EVEN THOUGH YOU NO GIVE US REASONS)NA WHEN YOU BE WIFE YOU GO GET REST ??

Posted: at 9-01-2011 02:57 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

i don't know why u stressing yourself over a woman..who isn't your mother in-law or something.....if she doesn't want you to go out with her son..forget it..cheii..or is her son that special that you cannot go and date another dude.maybe she want to offer her son..the same thing she used to bring her son to life.....you know some mothers do sleep with their son.

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Posted: at 9-01-2011 04:43 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I dont mean to be rude,but maybe your character or the way you dress.there might be sumthing you aint doing right.imagine,your own son ends up with a girl you will definitely want to make sure that girl is good enough  for him.I dont know you,but my advice to you is to take things easy with your self.Try your best to make things work out,that's if you truly and really love this guy.And try to get close to his mother,see her as your own mother.my point is you try to build a good friendship wit her,without your boyfriend's help.take her shopping or cook for her and spend sum time with her.If you do all this and she still continues ,then heaven knows atleast you have tried your best.when a woman marrys a man,she marrys each and everyone in his family.for his mom to know you,tht means your relationship is very serious.now proof to her that you can take good care of her son.

Posted: at 9-01-2011 05:16 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

3 moths of relationship, followed by 3 years of break?
And he could stay without you for so long?Not coming after you, no nothing in all that time?
Don't you see the red flags weaving?

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Posted: at 9-01-2011 08:47 AM (14 years ago) | Hero