In my church if u eventually get pregnant b4 ur wedding then u hv to wait after giving birth u can then come for marriage blessing. but they will never wed u with pregnancy. i dnt know y most church will tell their member that if their wife to be get pregnant b4 wedding then thats the end. wedding is nt necessary nt every body can afford it the important thing their is to pay her bride price and do the traditional marriage rites i think i love dis part. lets be frank, dis might be beyond the control of d couple sometimes and we can really blame dem.
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 7-02-2011 04:28 PM (14 years ago)  (f) ABI | Posted: at 7-02-2011 04:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@poster if u know ur Church is against been pregnant b4 wedding then u need to avoid sex thats the main reason y those churches give the order so dat couple will abstain from sex till their wedding night. but i only see 5% out of 100 who keep to that rule. i hv one in my compound nw he hv paid the bride price but no money to wed cos he must do white wedding and must nt sex his wife b4 d wedding nt to talk of impregnating her. nw they both live together and hv gone through more than one abortion cos of the rules in the Church. living in fear of their member to notice her presence in the guys house can u imagine dat. i don tell the guy if he tk bcos of his church do wedding when d money to feed is even a problem then he shld be ready to park to the Villa
commiting another sin just to wed in church ..hmm na wa no be small thin | Posted: at 7-02-2011 04:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 7-02-2011 04:30 PM (14 years ago) (m) In my church if u eventually get pregnant b4 ur wedding then u hv to wait after giving birth u can then come for marriage blessing. but they will never wed u with pregnancy. i dnt know y most church will tell their member that if their wife to be get pregnant b4 wedding then thats the end. wedding is nt necessary nt every body can afford it the important thing their is to pay her bride price and do the traditional marriage rites
which church? am an Anglican oh,i see.most churches does that. | Posted: at 7-02-2011 04:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 7-02-2011 04:32 PM (14 years ago) (f) @poster if u know ur Church is against been pregnant b4 wedding then u need to avoid sex thats the main reason y those churches give the order so dat couple will abstain from sex till their wedding night. but i only see 5% out of 100 who keep to that rule. i hv one in my compound nw he hv paid the bride price but no money to wed cos he must do white wedding and must nt sex his wife b4 d wedding nt to talk of impregnating her. nw they both live together and hv gone through more than one abortion cos of the rules in the Church. living in fear of their member to notice her presence in the guys house can u imagine dat. i don tell the guy if he tk bcos of his church do wedding when d money to feed is even a problem then he shld be ready to park to the Villa
commiting another sin just to wed in church ..hmm na wa no be small thin i know 
u've seen me right?  i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool  | Posted: at 7-02-2011 04:32 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 7-02-2011 04:39 PM (14 years ago) (f) Reading nd taking notes | Posted: at 7-02-2011 04:39 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "olumbareal") olumbareal at 7-02-2011 04:55 PM (14 years ago) (m) Reading nd taking notes
I for like see yah note later whether i go fit borrow am  , you hie? | Posted: at 7-02-2011 04:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 7-02-2011 04:57 PM (14 years ago) (f) OKIES | Posted: at 7-02-2011 04:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "SNYPER") SNYPER at 7-02-2011 05:00 PM (14 years ago) (m) @poster if u know ur Church is against been pregnant b4 wedding then u need to avoid sex thats the main reason y those churches give the order so dat couple will abstain from sex till their wedding night. but i only see 5% out of 100 who keep to that rule. i hv one in my compound nw he hv paid the bride price but no money to wed cos he must do white wedding and must nt sex his wife b4 d wedding nt to talk of impregnating her. nw they both live together and hv gone through more than one abortion cos of the rules in the Church. living in fear of their member to notice her presence in the guys house can u imagine dat. i don tell the guy if he tk bcos of his church do wedding when d money to feed is even a problem then he shld be ready to park to the Villa
commiting another sin just to wed in church ..hmm na wa omg!.... if only human fears God d way dey fear some pple... | Posted: at 7-02-2011 05:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 7-02-2011 05:03 PM (14 years ago) (m) Pregnancy before wedding makes the child unclean until the time of reformation, and I can proove it you. | Posted: at 7-02-2011 05:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "joey1") joey1 at 8-02-2011 03:05 PM (14 years ago) (f) it doesn't make sense hvn sex b4 marriage | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:05 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 8-02-2011 03:14 PM (14 years ago) (m) hmmm i c
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "princedafe") princedafe at 8-02-2011 03:19 PM (14 years ago) (m) @HOPEA23, i like ur decision. but, as for me, if pastor no bless me. i go do traditional wedding + registry and close it like dat.
wellsaid and supported | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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all dose dat condemned sex b4 marriage, are de keeping to d rules? | Posted: at 8-02-2011 03:50 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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i answer present in dis class ===== bros no b smal tin in dis claz,so fcuk all modafcukerz fcukin arround wanna 'pump up the volume' of dia wife before wedding...lolz | Posted: at 30-04-2012 09:38 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Adonisj") Adonisj at 30-04-2012 03:34 PM (13 years ago) (m) See y'all this thing we talking about is not very easy but still we just have to comply to it, its for our own good and well if u feel u've arrived and can handle anything that comes out of d pre-marital affiar then fine,m u will only have men that will support u but God doesn't cos His word says so, ''FLEE all appearances of segxwal immorality....we know say e dey sweet but chill. | Posted: at 30-04-2012 03:34 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Yeah Yeah according to the bible is not right, and many go yan sey e no gud
My life my choice...i wanted kids bfor marriage..nd i hav my reasons for it. Guess wot, evrytin worked out perfectly
and God forgave me for my sin,, life goes on. | Posted: at 30-04-2012 05:51 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Yeah Yeah according to the bible is not right, and many go yan sey e no gud
My life my choice...i wanted kids bfor marriage..nd i hav my reasons for it. Guess wot, evrytin worked out perfectly
and God forgave me for my sin,, life goes on.
nicely said!,seconded!, supported!,in short i dey your bacck solid!!! | Posted: at 3-05-2012 12:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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It gives a sense of knowing that your partner can concieve after after the elaborate wedding party. Inface, NO pregnancy, NO marriage. what's the court there for. the coco na to say I DO. and really mean to DO | Posted: at 3-05-2012 12:39 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 3-05-2012 02:39 PM (13 years ago) (m) In my church if u eventually get pregnant b4 ur wedding then u hv to wait after giving birth u can then come for marriage blessing. but they will never wed u with pregnancy. i dnt know y most church will tell their member that if their wife to be get pregnant b4 wedding then thats the end. wedding is nt necessary nt every body can afford it the important thing their is to pay her bride price and do the traditional marriage rites
Whatz all this wahala of church doctrines? When did jesus Christ refuse someone because of his/her sinful nature? Waht is the essence of a religious wedding? While it is to bless the couple, it is also to counsel them and don't forget any church ceremony is an opportunity to win souls for Christ. A good preacher will use a wedding to win souls for Christ and if a pregnant woman decides in that service to give her self to Christ, why prevent her or delay her because of pregnancy? Imagine, just imagine a pregnant woman gives her life and is refused to be wedded then dies during pregnancy as a sinner, is that church not going to be held by God for delaying her salvation? ok granted, does your church baptize pregnant women? If yes, why not wait until she puts to birth before baptizing her? If no, what if she dies and tells God your church refused to baptize her when she gave her life? Remember Saul the persecutor once he gave his life was taken without delay! | Posted: at 3-05-2012 02:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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