livingday at 3-04-2011 12:57 AM (14 years ago) (m) There is nothing wrong with admiring a beautiful creature of the ALMIGHTY. Just do not do it in a disrespectful way... well in a way your woman won't think is disrespectful.... Heck, just don't do it cos no matter how you do it, she'll think it is disrespectful to her. Very true. No matter how it is done, your partner will take offence. Simple as dat Then the simple thing to do is to wear dark sunglass when out and about with your partner. You can then afford to rove your eyes inside without being noticed. Or are you guys saying that we must not use our eyes for its purpose, appreciating and taking in our immediate environment, including beautiful opposite sex? Nope. All men should be very courageous in everything they do. Looking at a woman when you're with your girlfriend or wife is not a big deal. The big deal is how you react to the gesture. Personally, while i am with my wife and see a beautiful girl, i usually say, 'Hey babe i think she looks beautiful, don't you think so? but ofcourse you know she aint got nothing on you'. And she always smile after that. There's no need to be jealous about nothing. Does She Give a damn Whether yu think the Lady is Pretty or Not?? Keep the Sh*t 2 yurself  Admiration is Where Temptation Starts from My Brotha and yur Wife knows yu're making dat Comment cos yu either Almost Lusted or yu Plainly Lusted... FACT!  Temptation on who? on a lady we see walking on the streets while we're driving... The fact of the matter is that some people like to admire beautiful things without thinking in a lustful manner. I am a committed man and every man know their limit. Personally i do not believe in temptation. If i want to cheat, i do not need a temptation to cheat. if i do not want to cheat, even if halle berry/beyonce/J.lopez is lying naked with legs wide open, I will simply walk away. This whole temptation thing people blame their infidelity on is Crap...Plain Crap. now that's FACT!  Bros, it will be an impotent man that will not react or get an instant hard-on when he sees a beautiful naked lady on his bed with legs wide open. Even pastors are known to react. Now that's a fact! You're telling me what i've gone thru many times. Only men without self control will bulge at any slightest sight of a widely spread legs. Men with self control do not. Ofcourse pastors will because they hardly get it. May I add that men who hardly gets laid will bulge too. Not Nigerian pastors whose tales of screwing any willing church members we keep hearing every now and then despite being married. So they are not sex-starved. Self control is one thing but erocticism, or libido or segxwal drive is another, which is in the realm of human instinct that is controlled by the sublimal. In other words your manhood has a life of its own and it's up to it when to rise or not depending on what message the eyes and brain are sending. However, whether you follow the dictates of your manhood or segxwal desire or walk away is something you can control. Posted: at 3-04-2011 12:57 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Rosemerry at 4-04-2011 12:21 AM (14 years ago) (f) There is nothing wrong with admiring a beautiful creature of the ALMIGHTY. Just do not do it in a disrespectful way... well in a way your woman won't think is disrespectful.... Heck, just don't do it cos no matter how you do it, she'll think it is disrespectful to her.
Very true. No matter how it is done, your partner will take offence. Simple as dat Then the simple thing to do is to wear dark sunglass when out and about with your partner. You can then afford to rove your eyes inside without being noticed. Or are you guys saying that we must not use our eyes for its purpose, appreciating and taking in our immediate environment, including beautiful opposite sex? Nope. All men should be very courageous in everything they do. Looking at a woman when you're with your girlfriend or wife is not a big deal. The big deal is how you react to the gesture. Personally, while i am with my wife and see a beautiful girl, i usually say, 'Hey babe i think she looks beautiful, don't you think so? but ofcourse you know she aint got nothing on you'. And she always smile after that. There's no need to be jealous about nothing. Does She Give a damn Whether yu think the Lady is Pretty or Not?? Keep the Sh*t 2 yurself  Admiration is Where Temptation Starts from My Brotha and yur Wife knows yu're making dat Comment cos yu either Almost Lusted or yu Plainly Lusted... FACT!  Temptation on who? on a lady we see walking on the streets while we're driving... The fact of the matter is that some people like to admire beautiful things without thinking in a lustful manner. I am a committed man and every man know their limit. Personally i do not believe in temptation. If i want to cheat, i do not need a temptation to cheat. if i do not want to cheat, even if halle berry/beyonce/J.lopez is lying naked with legs wide open, I will simply walk away. This whole temptation thing people blame their infidelity on is Crap...Plain Crap. now that's FACT!  Bros, it will be an impotent man that will not react or get an instant hard-on when he sees a beautiful naked lady on his bed with legs wide open. Even pastors are known to react. Now that's a fact! You're telling me what i've gone thru many times. Only men without self control will bulge at any slightest sight of a widely spread legs. Men with self control do not. Ofcourse pastors will because they hardly get it. May I add that men who hardly gets laid will bulge too. Not Nigerian pastors whose tales of screwing any willing church members we keep hearing every now and then despite being married. So they are not sex-starved. Self control is one thing but erocticism, or libido or segxwal drive is another, which is in the realm of human instinct that is controlled by the sublimal. In other words your manhood has a life of its own and it's up to it when to rise or not depending on what message the eyes and brain are sending. However, whether you follow the dictates of your manhood or segxwal desire or walk away is something you can control. True. I think arousal is independent of will-power. Posted: at 4-04-2011 12:21 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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kenolis at 4-04-2011 02:07 AM (14 years ago) (m) ok if you say so Posted: at 4-04-2011 02:07 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Ajento at 4-04-2011 02:47 AM (14 years ago) (m) No ooh, no be all men abeg. At least I no follow. Posted: at 4-04-2011 02:47 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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livingday at 4-04-2011 09:25 AM (14 years ago) (m) No ooh, no be all men abeg. At least I no follow.
Sometimes person dey as e be and from nowhere him tin go just stand up all by itself. Wetin u go call am? Na self will or the tin get mind of its own? Posted: at 4-04-2011 09:25 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kenolis at 5-04-2011 01:00 AM (14 years ago) (m) sure Posted: at 5-04-2011 01:00 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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dirtykid at 5-04-2011 01:59 AM (14 years ago) (m) No ooh, no be all men abeg. At least I no follow.
Sometimes person dey as e be and from nowhere him tin go just stand up all by itself. Wetin u go call am? Na self will or the tin get mind of its own? That thing didn't attend school not to talk of having a mind of his own. Have you ever thought of what makes him to always stand up so hard every morning without anything around him or something to provoke his anger to such morning roll call ?
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 5-04-2011 01:59 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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ILOVEIT at 5-04-2011 02:02 AM (14 years ago) (m)
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:02 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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kenolis at 5-04-2011 02:09 AM (14 years ago) (m) passing Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:09 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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livingday at 5-04-2011 03:05 PM (14 years ago) (m) No ooh, no be all men abeg. At least I no follow.
Sometimes person dey as e be and from nowhere him tin go just stand up all by itself. Wetin u go call am? Na self will or the tin get mind of its own? That thing didn't attend school not to talk of having a mind of his own. Have you ever thought of what makes him to always stand up so hard every morning without anything around him or something to provoke his anger to such morning roll call ?  That is why it is not under your control. It can get up at its own will which is not subject to your control. So, the so-called school would have thought it nothing because it was already well-schooled in the act of pleasing women all by itself, willpower or not! Posted: at 5-04-2011 03:05 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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No ooh, no be all men abeg. At least I no follow.
Sometimes person dey as e be and from nowhere him tin go just stand up all by itself. Wetin u go call am? Na self will or the tin get mind of its own? That thing didn't attend school not to talk of having a mind of his own. Have you ever thought of what makes him to always stand up so hard every morning without anything around him or something to provoke his anger to such morning roll call ?  That is why it is not under your control. It can get up at its own will which is not subject to your control. So, the so-called school would have thought it nothing because it was already well-schooled in the act of pleasing women all by itself, willpower or not! Quite true. The thing has mind of its own. Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:10 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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kenolis at 6-04-2011 05:33 PM (14 years ago) (m) hmm for what? Posted: at 6-04-2011 05:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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