
A Nigerian man, identified as Femi, has come under heavy criticism on social media after a video surfaced showing him proposing to a new partner at a restaurant in Lekki, despite allegations of estrangement from his wife and two children.
The viral clip, shared by witnesses, captured Femi on one knee, presenting an engagement ring to his new love interest. While the moment drew cheers from onlookers, it also sparked a wave of backlash online as details about his alleged past came to light.
A social media user, @DijahMoon, accused Femi of abandoning his family over a year ago and physically abusing his wife, Tolu. In a series of posts on X (formerly Twitter), @DijahMoon shared damning allegations against Femi, describing him as a "narcissist," "woman beater," and "deadbeat father."
“Lol, is this not Gadus? A woman beater and narcissist. A man who has a wife and two kids but abandoned them for over a year. He beats the wife like gym bros beat punch bags—congrats to them, though,” the post read.
The allegations, supported by screenshots and voice notes, detail a history of abuse and neglect. According to the posts, Femi began physically assaulting his wife after the birth of their second child, often locking her and the children outside and restricting access to basic amenities.

Further claims suggest Femi insulted his wife’s family, stating, “What can you do? Nobody in your family is successful, so no one can fight for you.” The posts also include evidence of their marriage and the christening of one of their children, which @DijahMoon shared to corroborate her accusations.
The new proposal has raised concerns about whether Femi’s fiancée is aware of his alleged past actions. @DijahMoon warned, “To the new woman, I hope you don’t end up like Tolu. You might know what he did to her—or maybe you’ve been wrapped in a web of lies.”
As the accusations continue to circulate online, many have called on Femi to take responsibility for his family, while others have expressed sympathy for his estranged wife and children.
Neither Femi nor his new fiancée has responded to the allegations as of press time.



Watch video below..
The moment she realized she was being proposed to…… pic.twitter.com/1FjDMXSFo7
— Oyindamola (@dammiedammie35) January 24, 2025
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